What to Say to a Host Who's Mia?

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Discussion Overview

This thread discusses the challenges faced by consultants when a host is unresponsive after a show, particularly regarding closing the show and managing guest expectations. Participants share their personal experiences and strategies for handling similar situations.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, describes a situation where a host delayed closing the show despite multiple attempts to contact her.
  • Another participant shares their experience of waiting for a host to respond and ultimately closing the show without her input.
  • Several users mention the idea of setting a deadline for the host to respond, suggesting that if no communication is received by a certain date, the consultant should proceed with closing the show.
  • One participant suggests shipping the products to themselves instead of the host if there is no response.
  • Another participant notes the importance of keeping guests informed about the status of their orders, especially those who have paid with credit cards.
  • Some participants express frustration over hosts who do not communicate, emphasizing that it is unfair to delay other orders.
  • A few users mention the benefit of having a cut-off date imposed by the Home Office to help manage these situations more effectively.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree on the approach of setting a deadline for the host to respond and taking action if there is no communication. However, there is no clear consensus on the best way to communicate with guests about the situation.

Contextual Notes

Participants share experiences from various shows, highlighting the variability in host responsiveness and the impact on sales and guest satisfaction.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants facing similar challenges with unresponsive hosts may find the shared experiences and strategies helpful in navigating their own situations.

sklay723
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So I had a show early this month...and now we're at the END of the month. I have called repeatedly to get it closed, and she continually asks for an extra day or two. I have checks from three guests, cc numbers for three more, and sales are currently hovering above $300, so it's not a matter of getting the show to qualify. She went on vacation and didn't call before leaving to close (like we'd discussed AT the show) and she's been back for two weeks now (during which time I've probably called four or five times). What is the most tactful way I can get her moving to get this thing closed? Her guests are probably wondering where her products are. Should I call them and tell them we're closing soon?

I just left her yet another voicemail saying that I aim to close the show before Friday and that I don't want her free products and half-price item to go to waste...is there anything else I can say to light a fire here?

I have had 38 shows and have never had to deal with anything like this. Crazy. Any advice would be appreciated. :)
 
Well, since you said til Friday wait til then. If no word, then Sat morn leave a message with her that you will be closing her show Sunday afternoon at 4pm (or whenever you deicde) and unless you hear from her you will go ahead and pick out host benefits and close the show. That SHOULD get her moving. However, had a host like that before, and NEVER heard from her again. This girl had a cooking show scheduled but had to cancel it for whatever reason. However, she had 2 online orders totaling just over $200. Tried closing for almost a month. Left her a message that I would pick the host benefits, etc and she NEVER got back with me. Got a few nice things that way! Strange I know! Some people!
Good luck and let us know how it works out!
 
yeah, I would close it Saturday and have it shipped to YOU.
 
As long as you have all of the orders and money, I would do as everyone else said and as of Sat morning if you haven't been able to get in touch with her, let her know that you will be closing it on Sunday and ordering what you think she would want for the hostess benefits and to please get back to you if she would like it done another way.

And yes, have it shipped to YOU!!
 
I agree with everyone else is saying. If you do not hear from her by Friday evening, close the show Saturday am and send it in. Have everything shipped to you.

Good luck!
 
Ditto the above! And if she doesn't get back to you with what she wants, you use the host benefits! Get yourself some knives or the grinder set with the host bonus, and some other things with the FPV.
 
chefann said:
Ditto the above! And if she doesn't get back to you with what she wants, you use the host benefits! Get yourself some knives or the grinder set with the host bonus, and some other things with the FPV.

Yes, things YOU want, don't even try to pick something for her.
 
Absolutely! As everyone has said, it is not fair to hold up other orders just for her! I can't imagine holding a Show and then not even contacting the Consultant back for the Host benefits!
 
This is where it will come in handy to have the HO imposed cut off date for shows on the 15th.
 
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kaseydee said:
This is where it will come in handy to have the HO imposed cut off date for shows on the 15th.

I could not agree more...it's going to be so much nicer to say "I HAVE to have this show closed by xx date, according to Home Office...."

I spoke with both hosts this evening (just as an update...one has been dragging for almost a month, the other for two weeks) but was in the car on my cell and have now set up appointments to speak with both of them tomorrow. One is close to $300 and the other is close to $400. Not huge shows, but that's $700 in sales that I want on my next commission check, in addition to the fact that it's also another 200 points for the bag promotion this month. :) I got tons of apologies and excuses, so I'm thinking they know they need to get everything locked in.

Thanks for the advice everyone! I love CS... :)
 
Ditto. Time line is needed for this host. Also, call each guest to let them know the host was holding it up (say it tactfully), so it doesn't look like PC is slow. Also, especially with those who are using CC, they will need to know, so they know funds Were NOT taken out yet. THough it wasn't you, I would let each guests know I'm including a gift (don't tell them what- but I just use a season's Best, etc.)for them for the delay and let them know how PC prides in quick delivery of products. Deliver items to you, so you can personally get the orders out in a timely manner.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I say to a host who hasn't responded to my messages?

Start by sending a friendly and casual message, such as, "Hey [Host's Name]! I hope you're doing well. I just wanted to check in and see if you had any questions about your upcoming party or if there's anything I can help with!" This approach keeps the tone light and shows that you care about their experience.

How can I encourage a host to engage if they seem uninterested?

You might say, "Hi [Host's Name], I know life can get busy! I just wanted to remind you how excited I am for your party. If you have any ideas or themes in mind, I’d love to help you brainstorm!" This shows your enthusiasm and willingness to support them without being pushy.

What if the host is unresponsive for an extended period?

In this case, try a more direct approach: "Hi [Host's Name], I hope everything is okay! I wanted to touch base since I haven’t heard from you in a while. If you’re still interested in hosting, I’m here to help. If not, no worries at all!" This gives them an easy out if they’ve changed their mind.

How can I make it easier for a host to reconnect?

Consider saying, "Hey [Host's Name], I know things can get hectic! Would it help if we set a quick call or chat to go over everything? I’m here to make this as easy and fun as possible for you!" Offering a specific time for a call can make it easier for them to engage.

What if the host is overwhelmed with planning?

Respond with empathy: "Hi [Host's Name], I totally understand that planning can feel overwhelming! Let’s simplify things. We can focus on just a few key details to make it enjoyable for you. How about we start with the date and guest list?" This reassures them that you’re there to support and simplify the process.

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