Shopping for a Friend's Wedding Registry: Is it Worth It? | Hey Cheffies!

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores the experiences and considerations of participants regarding purchasing items from a friend's wedding registry, particularly in the context of being a Pampered Chef consultant. Participants discuss the implications of using personal discounts versus registry purchases and the impact on the bride's benefits.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Technical explanation

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, expresses a desire to buy from a friend's wedding registry but is uncertain about the best approach to maximize discounts and benefits.
  • Another participant shares their understanding that once someone becomes a consultant, they lose their past host discount but may be able to combine discounts for a better deal.
  • Several users mention the dilemma of ensuring that purchased items are marked off the registry to avoid duplicate gifts, with some suggesting various methods to manage this.
  • One participant recounts a past experience where purchasing outside the registry negatively impacted the bride's benefits, emphasizing the importance of registry purchases.
  • Another participant confirms that consultants can access wedding registries, but the ability to make changes depends on how the bride set it up.
  • One participant shares a positive experience of ordering from a registry, highlighting the satisfaction of both the buyer and the bride when the purchase contributed to free products.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the best approach to purchasing from a registry, with some participants advocating for registry purchases to ensure the bride receives benefits, while others explore alternative methods. No clear consensus emerges on the best practices for managing registry orders.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences and insights related to their roles as consultants and the implications of their purchasing decisions on wedding registries.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who are navigating the complexities of purchasing from wedding registries while considering their discounts and the benefits for the bride may find this discussion relevant.

blondeinpcola
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Hey cheffies
Well one of my best friends finally got her registry added today and I wanted to buy her some stuff from it. Granted her wedding is the 24th....yes the 24th of February!!:D
Question is, should I buy from her registry? I was going to get some of the stoneware she wanted since it is 20% off anyway!! That's what my consultatnt discount is right now. Also before I became a consultant I did a show so I do have a 10% off Host # too. So would I get the 10% off the stoneware too. :)
Although I would only get 10% off anything else I ordered.
Oh what a dilemma!! :confused:

Any advice...anyone been through it before?

Thanks,
Jennifer
 
Once you become a consultant you lose your past host discount of 10%. That I am sure of. I am NOT sure, but I think that we can get the current special of 20% off on top of our consultant 20%, meaning as a consultant you could get it at 40% off. I am not positive about this but I thought I read another thread that talked about us being able to get the guest special as consultants and our consultant discount worked for the special. Better double check though!
 
I have another question...I have a friend who is getting married in July and she has a registry through me. (This is one of the two weddings I am in this summer...;0)) I would like to purchase things form her registry but I'd rather use my 20% discount. My problem is, if I buy them on a personal order instead of through the registry, they won't show up on the registry as "purchased" and someone else could very likely order her a second of the items I order. Is there any way around this?
 
Couldn't you (or her) just go in and delete them off the registry?
 
Why wouldn't you go in and order them under your hubby's/sisters someone's name on the registry and get your commission and in Feb. double points towards the trip??

Just a dumb ??

Lisa
 
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Bexs50 said:
Once you become a consultant you lose your past host discount of 10%. That I am sure of. I am NOT sure, but I think that we can get the current special of 20% off on top of our consultant 20%, meaning as a consultant you could get it at 40% off. I am not positive about this but I thought I read another thread that talked about us being able to get the guest special as consultants and our consultant discount worked for the special. Better double check though!
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Thanks I really didn't know that I lost my PHD.

Well if it is true that you get you 20% off on top of the guest special 20% ... I would order it yourself as a personal order...then go into the register and put it in as on Outside Order on the Wedding Registry so it is marked off.

thanks,
Jennifer
 
PamperedMelanie said:
Couldn't you (or her) just go in and delete them off the registry?
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Can I go in and delete things off of her registry myself??

I suppose I could tell her to do it but I didn't want to come out and say "I bought this for you so take it off your registry." I know she will be able to see that it was purchased anyway, but she wouldn't know what I specifically purchased. I would at least like it to be a surprise when she opens my gift.
 
The only problem with that is your friend will lose her "host benefit" on your purchase.
 
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Yeh you don't need to delete it....if your the consultant you should just be able to enter the Outside Order. ;)
 
Do I have any control over her registry? That sounds wierd, but I mean do I have access to it? If so, how??? My friend set the registry up all on her own...she is a real go-getter!! :0) Didn't wait for me!!!
 
don't do a personal order!!! Your bride gets nothing for it except the product!!! She doesn't get credit towards her free product value even if you go into her registry and credit it. ONLY if it is actually purchased thru the registry.

Learned this the hard way--my bride got much of nothing becuase people were buying gifts from her registry from their local consultant instead of the registry--so although she got all the product she wanted, she didn't get anything free--only 15% off because only one person ordered directly from the registry :( bummer for her!

Also, if you buy it from her registry, she gets credit, you get the stones 20% off, you get 20% at least in commission and you get double points.
 
and yes you have access to her registry. go to the wedding registries, manage registry and it will list her name, click on it and you're in.
 
ange13 said:
and yes you have access to her registry. go to the wedding registries, manage registry and it will list her name, click on it and you're in.
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Maybe I'm a little thick-headed but I'm not sure where you mean? Is this in CC or do I click on Wedding Registry from the main PC Homepage? I don't see it in CC and when I click on Wedding Registry from the main homepage and then click on manage registry it asks for her email address and password. I don't know her password. Should I?
 
Ok, I'm signing on so I can walk myself thru it--it's been awhile :)

sign in under CC, then go to managing your business, my shows, wedding registries. then it should bring up all the registries registered under your number. click on their name and their registry will appear.

does that help??
 
Thanks so much for the info! You're awesome!
 
I ordered off my BFF's registry to help make sure she got at least some free products. I was able to use my 10% PHD Discount. I didn't get my consultant discount, but I made commission and it counted towards her sales. It made both her and I happy!
 
Accessing registryYou can only make changes to the registry if the bride set it up that way. They have the option to have you contact them. If they don't then you can't do anything to their registry except look at it.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a wedding registry and how does it work?

A wedding registry is a service provided by retailers that allows engaged couples to create a list of gifts they would like to receive for their wedding. Friends and family can then shop from this list, ensuring that the couple receives items they truly want and need. When shopping for a friend's wedding registry, you can easily find the couple's selected items and choose gifts that fit your budget.

Why should I consider shopping from a friend's wedding registry?

Shopping from a wedding registry is beneficial because it ensures that your gift will be something the couple actually wants. It eliminates the guesswork and reduces the chances of duplicate gifts. Additionally, many registries offer a range of price points, making it easier to find something that fits your budget.

Are there any advantages to buying Pampered Chef products from a wedding registry?

Pampered Chef products are known for their quality and practicality in the kitchen. By purchasing from a wedding registry that includes Pampered Chef items, you are giving the couple high-quality tools that can enhance their cooking experience. Additionally, many Pampered Chef products come with a lifetime guarantee, making them a lasting gift.

What if I can't find the specific item on the registry?

If you can't find a specific item on the registry, consider purchasing a gift card to the store where the registry is located. This allows the couple to choose exactly what they want or need. Alternatively, you can also consider selecting a similar item that complements their registry selections, ensuring that your gift still aligns with their preferences.

Is it appropriate to buy a gift that is not on the registry?

While it is generally recommended to shop from the registry, it is acceptable to give a gift that is not listed if you feel it is meaningful or personal. However, be mindful of the couple's tastes and needs. If you choose to go off-registry, consider including a gift receipt so they can exchange it if necessary.

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