I've posted about this particular host a couple times. I guess I should've found the thread and connected it, but oh well. It went from being a Feb. show, to being a March show, to turning into a March catalog show. Then she needed an extra week from when she wanted to close the show. Then we finally got everything entered in and I gave her all the totals. She said she had all the checks from her friends and would mail them the next day. That was last Monday. I e-mailed her on Thursday, this is part of what I wrote her: I was wondering if you had a chance to put those checks in the mail? As of today they haven't arrived, so I can't submit your show yet. Just let me know if there was a problem with anything or if you have any questions about anyone's total amounts. This what she wrote back: No problem! I just threw them in 2 days ago. I was still waiting on two and I didn't want to send them separately. It only takes 2 days for me to get mail from her area. So if that was the case, I should've had them that day. So they still haven't arrived. Now I'm worried that they got lost or she lied to me. So I just e-mailed her this: I just thought I'd let you know that the checks haven't arrived yet. I'm hoping they arrive in time so I can submit your show by Tuesday. Should we have your friends just pay with debit/credit cards? I can call them and get the info. Or we could put it on your credit card and have them reimburse you? What do you think we should do? If they want to just do credit cards/debit then if the checks arrive, I can just shred them or something. I just hope they didn't get lost in the mail. I'm wondering if you had my address right? xxx,xxxxxx, PA xxxxx? Just let me know what you think we should do. Hopefully, that covers all the bases and yet it doesn't accuse her of lying. So I wonder if she's going to write me back. This host also just had a purse party on Friday night. She had a very small catty show with me because she thinks her friends are all tapped out or were holding out because they planned to buy at her purse show. I'm also wondering if she just started planning and stressing over that party, that she didn't follow through with mine.