Struggling to Get Shows on the Calendar: Help Needed!

[sarahsellcm]

I have been having a lot of personal issues from June to now. Because of this I haven't done a show since June and now I can not find the motivation to get myself going again. Does anyone have any ideas on different on what I could do to get some shows on the calendar? To make it worse I am due with my second child in December so things are even more hectic there.

Thanks.

Sarah

 

[Jayne]

I too have had nothing but tragedy this year, ranging from a breast cancer scare, both of my adult children getting in trouble with the law (not normal), my daughter going thru a depression, losing 10 family members and friends in death, my Dad and FIL in the hospital w/heart issues, my DH had knee surgery and ended up w/a staff infection which put him in the hospital for 6 days and then 2 weeks of intervenious antibiotics at home (administered at 6 a.m., 2 p.m and 10 p.m. every day, which I had to do), added 10,000 square feet on The Elkhart Hinge (we own) and the economy takes a poop, I pray everyday that we can pay the bills...the list goes on and on and on. Needless to say I absolutely could not get motivated!! I did manage to stay active and I appologized to some of my host's for not keeping in touch with them as much as I usually would (they didn't even notice).

So to make a long story short, I forced myself to get on the phone!! I have 4 cooking shows in October so I should get some bookings out of those, but I don't have time to wait around. I started a Mystery Host show for November and got on the phone...I now have 6 November bookings on my calendar (1 from an Oct. show, 3 booked in one day on the phone and 2 booked a couple of days later on the phone. I am offering to buy them a classic stone if they have a $500.00 show in November (20% discount on stoneware plus they will have a 25% discount for the $500.00 show, it won't cost more than $20 out of pocket) and if they book in December I will buy them the beaded serving set w/spreader or the Trifle bowl (host gifts). JUST GET ON THE PHONE...it is the best advise I can give you and it works for me everytime!! Force yourself, I know you can do it!!

 

[Admin Greg]

Hi Sarah,I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through personal issues and struggling with motivation to get back into doing shows. It's completely understandable given everything you've been dealing with.One idea could be to start small and ease your way back into it. Instead of trying to schedule multiple shows at once, maybe start with just one or two and see how it goes. You could also consider reaching out to friends or family members who may be interested in attending or even helping out with the show.Another idea could be to try a different format or venue for your shows. Maybe a smaller, more intimate setting would feel less overwhelming for you right now. Or perhaps taking a break from your usual routine and trying something new could help reignite your passion for performing.And of course, with a new baby on the way, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and take care of yourself during this busy time. Don't be afraid to ask for help or take some time for yourself when needed.I hope these suggestions are helpful and wish you all the best in getting back into doing shows. Take care of yourself and congratulations on your upcoming bundle of joy!Best,