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Should I Wear Black to a Summer Wedding?

In summary, the author recommends wearing whatever you're comfortable in, whether it be black or a different color. She also recommends adding accessories to brighten up the look, and recommends Spanx for a slimming effect.

Is black at a wedding acceptable?

  • Yes

    Votes: 84 80.8%

  • No

    Votes: 20 19.2%
  • Total voters
    104
  • #51


Wear the black dress and accessorize it with a cute pair a heels...like red and then some a bracelet or something else to match.

I work as an event and banquet sales director (i.e. wedding coordinator) at a private country club and I've seen so many different styles at weddings. The important thing to remember is that you will always look better than the crazy aunt and that the attention is on the bride...even though we all want the attention to be on us right? ;)

Go ahead, wear the same dress to multiple events. You could always change your accessories. My favorite little black dress I wore to three different weddings last year (that had similar guest lists). At the third wedding on the season, my best friend (who also attended the other weddings) asked me where I got my new dress. I just laughed.

Have fun at the weddings. I have eight weddings this year to date and am expected a couple more invitations. Gotta love this age though since most of my business is coming from wedding registries.
 
  • #52
Tricia - I remember one year I had 8 weddings to go to - I was in 3 of them - 2 were out state and I was pregnant at 7 of them! I always say that my son Noah has been to more weddings than anyone (in utero of course!) Too bad I wasn't in PC then (this was 10 years ago):)
 
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  • #53
I've gone deep in to the archives to resurface this thread! Thanks for all of the opinions, I did wear my black dress to 2 weddings this summer (and found another dress to wear to the other 2) ....here's a pic of my boyfriend and I from this past weekend. (it was to hot to wear any of the "colorful" sweaters with it, but I think the pearls and strappy small heel shoes did a good enough job with it!)http://a89.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/72/l_f2ae58e5ee1d0c3d544b1d96d37b09d0.jpg
 
  • #54
The two of you look really cute together!!
 
  • #55
jenniferknapp said:
I've gone deep in to the archives to resurface this thread! Thanks for all of the opinions, I did wear my black dress to 2 weddings this summer (and found another dress to wear to the other 2) ....here's a pic of my boyfriend and I from this past weekend. (it was to hot to wear any of the "colorful" sweaters with it, but I think the pearls and strappy small heel shoes did a good enough job with it!)

http://a89.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/72/l_f2ae58e5ee1d0c3d544b1d96d37b09d0.jpg
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OK Jennifer! SPILL IT! When/where did you meet him? I remember another thread when you were complaining about meeting people and friends? What happened? What worked? Was it the little black dress????

BTW, you look great! :D
 
  • #56
janetupnorth said:
OK Jennifer! SPILL IT! When/where did you meet him? I remember another thread when you were complaining about meeting people and friends? What happened? What worked? Was it the little black dress????

BTW, you look great! :D
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Janet I remember her saying that too because we were both saying about needing a man...OK WHAT WORKED???
 
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  • #57
Thanks girls ;) .....yes, something did work! It wasn't any of that online stuff though...I literally met Don days after I paid big bucks for those online things!...I am in my 2nd position here at the college due to a promotion, but I still keep in touch with all of the ladies from my 1st area. They all love the girl that filled my position...she's "just like me" ....great family values, etc.... then one day she mentioned her 25 year old brother.....and they all went crazy, "is he single" ....blah blah.... needless to say we finally got connected and talked on the phone for a couple of weeks, then went on a "blind" date! ...and it has been bliss ever since....almost 4 months :)....and this past weekend (the photo above) was his sisters wedding!
 
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  • #59
well congrats maybe I will be so lucky.
 
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  • #60
I sure hope so Heidi! It is true that it finds you...and when/where you aren't expecting it!
 
  • #61
I can be the first to attest to that... when you stop looking for love... it will find you!!!!
 
  • #62
janetupnorth said:
http://www.weddingchannel.com/ui/buildArticle.action;jsessionid=aCaqY162_YK4?assetPath=%2Ftemplates%2FArticles%2FNonContentSet%2FGuests%2Farticle_1152.html

Here's your "official" fashion advice for weddings...
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Well there you go! Everything we've been saying!:thumbup:
 
  • #63
I used to be a bridal consultant for a local bridal shop here, and I got this question all the time. IMHO, I would tell them that black was fine, especially, if that preferred, at night formal weddings. A lot of people go by what the bride wants. My wedding was deep red and both Mother of the Bride and Groom wore black, my choice. My cousins whole wedding wore black with long elbow length gloves it was so elegant! Last year the latest color for bridesmaids and mothers was white (yes white), ivory, and champagne! I had my reservations but it looked really nice actually... But any ways I think it depends on each individual situation... and like I said IMHO, black is ok ;)
 
  • #64
You look lovely, Jennifer. You made a good choice. (Sounds like you did pretty well picking an escort as well. :))
 
  • #65
ChefBeckyD said:
.....unless it's your wedding, than I'd definitely say black is out!;)
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Becky... I wore a black dress at my wedding. LOL. Seriously.
 
  • #66
jenniferknapp said:
I've gone deep in to the archives to resurface this thread! Thanks for all of the opinions, I did wear my black dress to 2 weddings this summer (and found another dress to wear to the other 2) ....here's a pic of my boyfriend and I from this past weekend. (it was to hot to wear any of the "colorful" sweaters with it, but I think the pearls and strappy small heel shoes did a good enough job with it!)

http://a89.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/72/l_f2ae58e5ee1d0c3d544b1d96d37b09d0.jpg
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Jennifer~

I am so happy for you!

You look great! You both make a very cute couple!!
 
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  • #67
thanks:)


grrr darn length!
 
  • #68
...and I just noticed...a guy in pink! She found herself a "secure" man. LOL! ;)
 
  • #69
Yes she sure did!!!!!
 
  • #70
janetupnorth said:
...and I just noticed...a guy in pink! She found herself a "secure" man. LOL! ;)
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Not saying that he isn't secure but she did say that it was his sister's wedding...maybe he was in the wedding and he HAD to wear pink. He looks like a very "secure" man though.
 
  • #71
chefheidi2003 said:
Not saying that he isn't secure but she did say that it was his sister's wedding...maybe he was in the wedding and he HAD to wear pink. He looks like a very "secure" man though.
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The guys in my wedding (23 years ago!!) wore pink bow ties and cumberbunds. My dad was SO mad at me because I wanted him to wear pink too :D Looking back...poor guy, I should have cut him some slack!
 
  • #72
My Baby Boy says it takes a real man to wear pink. He also says it takes a real man to sing like a woman. (He sings first tenor. :))
 
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  • #73
You ladies are right, it was his sisters wedding, so he had no choice...all of the men wore pink, but don didn't really complain at all! he complained more because he "wasted" $120 on a tux, and just the fact that he had to wear a tux! (this is a guy that operates heavy equipment for an excavation company....and grew up on a farm, so most of his clothes have holes and are really dirty! you could tell he was trying to impress on our first date when he had a new pair of jeans on, with a belt, and a nice plaid button up shirt on...hehehe) ...but I like my country boys! I'd rather have a down and dirty guy rather than a pretty boy any day....
 
  • #74
jenniferknapp said:
I'd rather have a down and dirty guy rather than a pretty boy any day....
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I have to agree with you on this one.
 
  • #75
jenniferknapp said:
I have 2-3 weddings to attend this summer, and I seem to find all black dresses that I like....I think that I like the "slimming" factor....

I have done it in the past, but I feel guilty to wear all black, especially in the summer...what are your thoughts?
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Add color with your accessories :)
 
  • #76
jenniferknapp said:
You ladies are right, it was his sisters wedding, so he had no choice...all of the men wore pink, but don didn't really complain at all! he complained more because he "wasted" $120 on a tux, and just the fact that he had to wear a tux! (this is a guy that operates heavy equipment for an excavation company....and grew up on a farm, so most of his clothes have holes and are really dirty! you could tell he was trying to impress on our first date when he had a new pair of jeans on, with a belt, and a nice plaid button up shirt on...hehehe) ...but I like my country boys! I'd rather have a down and dirty guy rather than a pretty boy any day....
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Sounds like he would get along really well with The Furry Guy. :D
 
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  • #77
raebates said:
Sounds like he would get along really well with The Furry Guy. :D
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What a compliment! The Furry Guy seems like a great guy from what I've heard;)
 
  • #78
He's fabulous! Then again, I'm a bit prejudiced. ;)
 
<h2>1. Can I wear black to a summer wedding?</h2><p>Yes, it is generally acceptable to wear black to a summer wedding. However, it is important to consider the dress code and the overall vibe of the wedding. If the invitation specifies a dress code, such as "black tie" or "cocktail attire," it is best to follow those guidelines. Additionally, if the wedding is outdoors or has a more casual feel, it may be more appropriate to opt for a lighter color.</p><h2>2. Will wearing all black be too hot for a summer wedding?</h2><p>It depends on the fabric and style of the dress. If you choose a lightweight, breathable fabric such as cotton or linen, and a dress with a flowy or loose silhouette, you should be comfortable. Avoid heavy fabrics like velvet or wool, and opt for sleeveless or short sleeve styles to stay cool in the summer heat.</p><h2>3. Is it considered appropriate to wear all black to a wedding?</h2><p>Wearing all black to a wedding is generally considered appropriate, as long as it is done in a tasteful and respectful manner. It is important to avoid wearing anything too revealing or overly formal, as well as avoiding any accessories or details that may be seen as too somber or funeral-like.</p><h2>4. Will wearing all black make me stand out too much at the wedding?</h2><p>This depends on the overall dress code and style of the wedding. If the majority of guests are dressed in bright colors and patterns, wearing all black may make you stand out. However, if the wedding has a more formal or elegant dress code, wearing black may blend in with the rest of the guests. It is always a good idea to consider the venue and the couple's style when deciding what to wear.</p><h2>5. Can I accessorize with color if I wear an all black dress?</h2><p>Absolutely! Adding pops of color through accessories, such as a statement necklace or colorful heels, can add interest and personality to a black dress. Just be sure to choose colors that complement the dress and the overall vibe of the wedding. For a summer wedding, consider fun and vibrant colors like coral, yellow, or turquoise.</p>

Related to Should I Wear Black to a Summer Wedding?

1. Can I wear black to a summer wedding?

Yes, it is generally acceptable to wear black to a summer wedding. However, it is important to consider the dress code and the overall vibe of the wedding. If the invitation specifies a dress code, such as "black tie" or "cocktail attire," it is best to follow those guidelines. Additionally, if the wedding is outdoors or has a more casual feel, it may be more appropriate to opt for a lighter color.

2. Will wearing all black be too hot for a summer wedding?

It depends on the fabric and style of the dress. If you choose a lightweight, breathable fabric such as cotton or linen, and a dress with a flowy or loose silhouette, you should be comfortable. Avoid heavy fabrics like velvet or wool, and opt for sleeveless or short sleeve styles to stay cool in the summer heat.

3. Is it considered appropriate to wear all black to a wedding?

Wearing all black to a wedding is generally considered appropriate, as long as it is done in a tasteful and respectful manner. It is important to avoid wearing anything too revealing or overly formal, as well as avoiding any accessories or details that may be seen as too somber or funeral-like.

4. Will wearing all black make me stand out too much at the wedding?

This depends on the overall dress code and style of the wedding. If the majority of guests are dressed in bright colors and patterns, wearing all black may make you stand out. However, if the wedding has a more formal or elegant dress code, wearing black may blend in with the rest of the guests. It is always a good idea to consider the venue and the couple's style when deciding what to wear.

5. Can I accessorize with color if I wear an all black dress?

Absolutely! Adding pops of color through accessories, such as a statement necklace or colorful heels, can add interest and personality to a black dress. Just be sure to choose colors that complement the dress and the overall vibe of the wedding. For a summer wedding, consider fun and vibrant colors like coral, yellow, or turquoise.

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