I decided to be proactive with my business and that I would mail the invites for my hosts, for a variety of reasons. One of the main reasons was that I could be assured that they actually went out...and also that I would know how many went out. I was reading a thread where someone said that they pay for the postage only if the host supplies 40+ names. That got me thinking - for those of you who mail the invites for your hosts, who pays the postage? Do you? Do they? Do many of you do the 40+ thing? My host for Feb. 10 only gave me 13 names...and that was after me hounding her for her list! She's going to get me some more tonight, but I don't see her inviting more than 20-25. So...that's what got me thinking about the 40+ postage thing. But...how do you tell a host that unless they provide 40 complete addresses, they will have to pay for postage?