Feeling Alone and Bothering My Directors?

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Discussion Overview

The thread explores feelings of isolation among consultants regarding their interactions with directors and clustermates when seeking help or answers to questions. Participants share their experiences and perspectives on the dynamics of asking for support and the perceived burden it may place on others.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses feeling like they are bothering their directors with questions and worries about being perceived as a nuisance.
  • Another participant acknowledges that sometimes directors may be busy or overwhelmed, which can affect their responses to questions.
  • One participant mentions utilizing resources like the business guide and Consultant's Corner before reaching out to their director.
  • Another participant prefers emailing their director with questions to allow for more convenient responses.
  • A participant with extensive experience shares that they still ask their director questions and emphasizes the importance of supporting new consultants in their learning process.
  • One participant offers their support, encouraging others to reach out for help without hesitation.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the appropriateness of asking questions and the feelings of burden associated with it. Some participants feel comfortable reaching out, while others express hesitation and concern about bothering their directors.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences and feelings related to their roles as consultants and the support they seek from their directors. The discussion reflects a range of experiences from new consultants to those with more tenure.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who may feel uncertain about reaching out for help or those looking for shared experiences regarding communication with their directors might find this discussion relevant.

princessmeshelle
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does anyone else feel like they are bugging their clustermates/ directors? every time i call them to ask questions that i don't think are stupid i end up feeling like they don't have time for me and my "stupid" questions. i'm left feeling like i'm totally alone and if i can't figure out the answer myself it's my problem. i realize it's my business and responsiblitiy to find the answers to my questions... am i wrong in thinking that i should be able to ask my director questions? i realize these people are busy too, so i try to limit how often i bug ppl. does anyone else feel this way at times?
 
Meshelle, I understand how you feel. At times it happens, you could be catching someone on a bad day, and maybe they have already answered several calls, and your was just the straw that broke the camel's back. One thing that might help, is to make sure you have looked in the business guide for your answer before calling your director. I know that it is easier to call, BUT, it is frustrating to take a call from a consultant, and they could have answered their own question by looking in the guide first. Also, before I call my director, first I look in the guide, look on Consultant's Corner, and then also search here for the anwer- Once I have exhausted all avenues, I will call her.
 
Between CC and this site, I hardly ever need to ask my director for help or advice. I send her e-mails to keep her up to date on what I've got going on, or if something exciting happens. I ask her questions that pertain to her knowledge of local stuff, or things that affect our cluster area. I know she has a new baby and 2 other small children, so I try not to call her unless I really am stumped. Instead, I just bug all you guys here on CS! ;)
 
I don't call my director very often. I usually just email her my quesitons. That way she can answer at her convenience.
 
I have been a consultant for quite some time, and I still call my director with questions. If I feel like it might be a stupid question I probably could find somewhere, I preface the question with letting her know that but also that I wasn't sure where to look. Also, I do remember that as a newbie I asked hundreds of questions. I am sure I drove my director crazy then, but she never let me know. To me (now that I have a team) I want people to call me like that. It tells me they care about their business enough to even come up with questions. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel stupid about it, but try not to take it personally. New people in ANYTHING have lots of questions, and it's up to the people who have been there for awhile to help them get settled in and get those questions answered. I think that's part of the job for a director (or future director, for that matter)!
 
Michelle-
You can call me anytime! If I don't know the answer, we'll look it up together! PM me and I 'll give you my cell phone if you would like it.
 

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