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Discussion Overview

The thread discusses a parent's concerns regarding the behavior of a volunteer coach during a wrestling practice for young children. Participants share their perspectives on the appropriateness of the coach's approach and the balance between fun and discipline in youth sports.

Discussion Character

  • Opinion-based
  • Anecdotal
  • Debate/contested

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses concern that the volunteer coach was being rude and overly strict with the children, suggesting that they should be allowed to enjoy the sport at their age.
  • Another participant agrees that the coach was too hard on the kids, emphasizing that they are only five years old and should be having fun.
  • A different participant shares their experience, stating that it is important for young athletes to be pushed a little to see their capabilities, arguing that running and listening are essential parts of sports training.
  • One participant mentions that their own children have been involved in sports from a young age and that a certain level of discipline is necessary for their development and safety.
  • Another participant inquires about how the child reacted to the coach's behavior, suggesting that if the child was not upset, it might be best to observe the situation further.
  • The original poster acknowledges their child's lack of upset and indicates a willingness to monitor the situation before deciding to intervene.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ among participants, with some advocating for a more relaxed approach to youth sports while others support a balance of fun and discipline. No clear consensus emerges on the best course of action regarding the coach's behavior.

Contextual Notes

The discussion centers around the experiences of parents with young children in sports, highlighting differing opinions on coaching styles and the importance of enjoyment versus discipline in early athletic experiences.

Who May Find This Useful

Parents of young children involved in sports may find the varied perspectives on coaching and child development relevant to their own experiences.

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My 5 year old son had wrestling practice tonight and one of the dad's who is one of the volunteers was helping him. I thougth he was being a little rude to them by saying rude comments about not listening and by making them run when all of the other kids were wrestling. Maybe I am reading too much into this but I felt like he was treating them a little like this was going to be a sport they should do all through school, he is just there to have a good time, and hopefully try to learn some flexibility etc. Do you think I should say something to this man or just let it pass and see how he acts with him the next couple of practices?
 
Sounds like he was being a little hard on them. I mean give them a break they are only 5 years old!!! Maybe you should talk to the coach?
 
I have a 4 year old son and if I were you I would definitely say something! That isn't right, at that age they should only be there to have fun!
 
I kinda disagree. It is a fine line to walk as an atheletic mentor. My boys have been in sports since they were 3 years old and they are very competitive and atheletic. I think as a coach or mentor you have to push the kids (a little bit) so they can see what they are capable of. Running and trying to get the kiddos to listen are part of being in sports. Their bodies have to be in condition (the running) for them to have the stamina for the wrestling and they HAVE to be able to listen to coach at all times so they will not hurt themselves.

My boys are now 8 and 9 years old and play basketball and football all year long. Because of their ability and skill my boys need to be challenged to improve on their talent. At 4 and 5 they played f-football and the coach worked them. They ran laps before and after practice. They had to take a knee (kinda like holding up the 1 finger to ensure the kiddos were listening) whenever the coach had something to say to them. For many of the kids on the team it was their first time playing any sport. I think it was a good foundation for them. Because if they aren't also learning something then you are kinda wasting your time.

Just my little ole opinion! By the by..for the last 2 years both of my boys were selected to play on the All Star teams of the leagues they played with. Sports are not the end all be all at our house. I just try to get my kids to do everything to the best of their ability whether it is homework, cleaning up, or sports.
 
How did your son react? If he wasn't upset, I'd take the "watch and see" path.
 
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Thanks for the advice. My son wasn't upset by the man and I do see both sides of it. I think what I am going to do is see how it all goes and if it continues to happen I will say something. I do understand that kids need to learn some guide lines but on the other hand they need to have fun al at the same time.
 

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