janetupnorth
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P.S. I personally understand Cathy's point. I grew like Cathy said, where it wasn't derogatory and now is...I make a conscious effort not to use it so as not to offend. My parents have had issues with other words...they are/were in NO means racist, but grew up saying things that are now termed racist. You have to retrain yourself. Hard, but you have to do it...