My problem is, I was contacted about 3 weeks ago by a girl wanting to throw her friends a bridal shower. She gave me the date and time on my voicemail but when I called her back, she was on vacation and we could not talk. I have called her twice since then and left a message that I need to confirm her date. Well, now I have someone wanting that same date. I have heard nothing from her and I lost her number yesterday. I know, I know - shame on me, but I am trying to figure out what to do. Do I give the other host the date, then if the bridal shower goes through just give it away? I'm thinking that is the right thing to do. What do you think?