Okay, I have a dilemma! I met tonights hosts a few times at a scrapbooking event. She was super busy and that was why she hesitated to book. She has a newborn, just went back to work and is involved with the junior league. Anyway, she asked me to contact her via work (e-mail & phone) and my last comminication from her was last week. She had a few people coming, one outside order and was hopeful for a good show. I confirmed our menu and that I would bring the ingredients (as promised). Flashfoward yesterday...I e-mailed her to confirm headcount and the time I would arrive, etc. No response. My understanding is she reads her work e-mail from home, too. I expected to see something today but since I didn't I called her work this afternoon. They said she was out of the office! I found her home e-mail address and sent her an e-mail there about an hour ago asking her to please confirm. If you were me, would you go anyway? I kind of feel like I have to but I never even told her what time I would show and its a pretty far haul for me. I expect to see her and her friends again tomorrow scrapbooking so God forbid I don't go and they are there... I'm just confused!