Did I Cross the Line with My Game?

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Discussion Overview

The thread discusses a participant's experience with a game played during a cooking show, which led to an uncomfortable situation due to the host's oversight regarding a sensitive topic. Participants share their reactions, inquire about the game, and recount their own experiences with challenging shows.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal, Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, describes a cringe-worthy experience during a game at a cooking show, where jokes about spouses led to emotional reactions from attendees.
  • Another participant expresses disbelief that the host did not intervene during the game when attendees began to cry.
  • Several users inquire about the specifics of the game and its appropriateness for different audiences.
  • One participant shares their own challenging experience with a cooking show where logistical issues arose due to home renovations.
  • Another participant mentions that they have avoided playing the game due to concerns about its suitability for younger or unmarried hosts.
  • One participant reflects on the humorous side of having many "bad show" stories, suggesting that these experiences can be shared in a light-hearted manner.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the appropriateness of the game and the responsibility of the host to manage sensitive topics during shows. No clear consensus emerges regarding the game's suitability or the handling of the situation.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal anecdotes related to their experiences as consultants, highlighting the unpredictability of cooking shows and the importance of being aware of the audience's sensitivities.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who have faced similar challenges during shows or those interested in understanding the dynamics of audience engagement in a cooking demonstration context may find this discussion relevant.

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mistym
So before I play this game I always check with the host to make sure it would be appropiate..ie noone is getting divorced or has a sick husband/boyfriend. So as per usual I check with the host and I get started with my game after the recipe is in the oven. Usually this game is hilarious and everyone is crackig up...this time however goes in the top 10 most cringe worthy moments ever.
So I am telling people how their husbands are dull and stained but no-one is really laughing. I press on knowing that this game is always a hit but the mood is very strained. Before I know it, I have people crying and leaving the room to straighten themselves out. Not knowing what to do I apologize and read the last few. I gave out the prize and went on with the show trying to be as light hearted as possible.

After the show the host runs up too me and apologizes, she didn't think about the fact that her father in law (the hubby of a lady there) passed away in November and that it was still really hard for everyone....JEEEZZZZZ...THANKS FOR THE HEADS UP! Here I am making jokes about how he is warped and sticky and the poor man is dead. NOT GOOD.

so, a word to the wise, ALWAYS check before playing....

tough crowd. Low sales, no bookings...yet....I didn't directly ask as I was kinda wanting to disappear. I figure I will call and ask then.

GLAD THAT SHOW IS DONE.....

Vent over and out

Misty
 
OH MIsty! That's terrible!! I however have no idea what the tool spouse game is! Can you share?
 
OOOMMMGGG!!! She forgot her FIL... I can't believe the host didn't stop you in the middle... especially when people start crying and leaving the room!!!

btw... what is the tool spouse game? is it posted in the files here?
 
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game is attached...its hilarious...you have to think on your toes a little to make the answers fit but its worth the reaction...just make sure u check its suitable ahead of time.

If no spouse, then they can use the hosts name.

M
 

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That is hilarious!! :D :D I laughed so hard but then cringed when I thought of your situation!!!:o Oh my Misty, I'm a little scared to play it now!!!:p
 
Misty I just want to cringe for you! How horrible an experience for you and everyone else! May nothing be that bad for you again... ever!
 
You poor thing. There was no way you could have known.Look at it this way--you now have a really great "bad show" story.
 
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Rae..the really sad thing is that I have SOOOO MANY bad shows....remember the mooning one....me...the one where the host gave me veelveta for Mozzarella, and chicken dogs for ham...the one where the was cat sick everywhere....the one where...ok i will stop....haha, I do balance them out with some really great 1000 ++++ shows so ya know....I can't complain....

ho hum....I am just in that slump where the last few parties have only just scraped over the show min....really gets ya down ya know....

But then I pull my "big girl panties" up and say..."well.....what the heck else ya gonna do??? Go back to my 9-5??...ahhhhhhh noooo"

hehehe

Happy Mummys Day
 
velveeta?? I must have missed that one!I've never played this game for fear of this situation...and a lot of my hosts are younger and unmarried.
 
Forgot you were THAT consultant. So, are you planning to write a book when you retire from PC? I can imagine that most of us cheffers would be interested in purchasing that one. If nothing else, it would prove that we weren't making those stories up.
 
Misty, You sure have had more than your fair share of crazy shows! What a shame the host forgot her FIL. How could you know? Well, at least its over. Maybe there's a way to feel out the crowd beforehand?
 
*snugs* misty you sure do get the most interesting parties. We thank you for taking most of the crazies for us. What a difficult situation.
 
Misty, I feel for you!

I have never played this game, but had the most interesting show recently. It wasn't a bad show, sales were above average, but 3 days before the show, the husband tiled the entire downstairs of their home, so the tile is not sealed or grouted, there is no stove/oven in the kitchen and no water!

I was demoing the Fiesta Salad Turnover, and received a call 5 minutes before leaving my home from the host stating that her oven was in her living room and would I be needing it because she wasn't sure if her husband would be home in time to move it back into the kitchen. No problem, I will back the shell at home and bring it. As the shell is baking, I wondered if it was just the oven, or an oven/range? Of course, it was! Luckily the husband arrived in time to move the range back into place to brown the ground beef.

But just after seeding the jalepeno, I realize there is no water so I could not rinse my hands!

It was definitely a weird show. Kind of makes you wonder what the host was thinking when she booked?!
 
Just think of all the great stories you can tell at your cluster meetings!
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What does it mean to "cross the line" in a game setting?

Crossing the line in a game setting typically refers to actions or behaviors that go beyond acceptable boundaries, such as being overly aggressive, disrespectful, or not adhering to the rules of the game. It can also involve making others uncomfortable or not fostering a positive environment.

How can I tell if I crossed the line during my game?

Signs that you may have crossed the line include negative reactions from other players, such as withdrawal, discomfort, or direct feedback indicating that your behavior was inappropriate. Reflecting on your actions and considering how they may have affected others can also help you assess the situation.

What should I do if I realize I crossed the line?

If you realize you crossed the line, it's important to acknowledge your actions. Apologize to those affected and express your commitment to being more mindful in the future. Taking responsibility can help mend relationships and restore a positive atmosphere in the game.

Can crossing the line affect my reputation in direct sales?

Yes, crossing the line in any social interaction, including games, can impact your reputation in direct sales. Maintaining professionalism and respect in all interactions is crucial, as it influences how potential customers and team members perceive you and your brand.

How can I prevent crossing the line in future games?

To prevent crossing the line in future games, establish clear rules and boundaries before starting. Be mindful of the dynamics of the group and encourage open communication. Regularly check in with participants to ensure everyone feels comfortable and included.

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