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Discussion Overview

This thread centers around a participant's anxiety regarding their first show, which involves a guest list of notable individuals connected to their husband's workplace. Participants share their personal experiences and offer various perspectives on managing nerves, recipe suggestions, and the importance of practice.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses significant anxiety about their first show, particularly due to the high-profile nature of the guests.
  • Another participant reassures that the guests are just people and emphasizes the importance of having fun during the show.
  • Several users mention the value of practicing the show at home to build confidence.
  • One participant shares their experience of practicing in front of family and pets to ease nerves.
  • Some participants suggest specific recipes that have been successful for them, while others express personal preferences against certain recipes like microwave cakes.
  • One participant notes that the host's family likely does not know their husband well, which may alleviate some pressure.
  • Another participant emphasizes the importance of being interactive during the show to engage guests and reduce focus on oneself.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the effectiveness of specific recipes, with some participants advocating for certain dishes while others express reservations. However, there is a general agreement on the importance of practice and the notion that guests are approachable individuals.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects the experiences and feelings of new consultants facing similar challenges in their early shows, particularly when dealing with high-stakes situations involving influential guests.

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New Pampered Chef consultants who are preparing for their first shows and seeking support from the community may find this thread beneficial.

Becky0216
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Ok, to you all this probaly doesn't sound bad. It may sound the exact opposite.
Well My first real show is March 7th. I will not have anyone to practice on before hand. Well out of all the shows I have booked, this is the only one with people I don't know (incl. host). That wouldn't be so bad except for the fact of who the people are.
My husband works at the corporate office of a local supermarket chain. The host is the daughter of the Founder of the company. Well, I got her guest list yesterday. So far I have the CEO's daughter, the CFO's daughter, the CEO's wife, etc..... ITS THE WHOLE FREAKIN FAMILY!
Now normally i wouldn't care. If my husband didn't work directly under these people, then they would just be any old people to me. But Anything I do reflects on my husband. I am gonna be super nervous at this show already cause it's my first. Now I have this stress. I dont even know what I am doing yet. I have no clue for food options to give her... I am a mess.

This has the potential to be a 2k show or more based on the people there and how much they like to buy. How can I get my act together and just get through this with a solid plan?
 
They are just people like you and me - they put their pants on the same way we do, 1 leg at a time. They just want to have fun, eat some great food and see amazing products!! I can understand you being nervous, but remember, they are just people - not a CFO's daughter or the CEO's wife. They are people. What you do will NOT reflect upon your husband. Obviously they like him and his performance at work enough to book a show with you! So that says a lot about him already...you shouldn't stress out. They are just people.
I would suggest a recipe that you are comfortable with and that you know is super yummy and maybe pair it with the Triple Chocolate Fudge microwave cake because it always gets wows and is very impressive - plus you'll sell a fluted stone GUARANTEED!!
Relax, have fun, remember that they want to have fun - and they are just people like you!!!
 
Your DH may know them, I sincerely doubt that they know him. Just be yourself, do your best, and act surprised if anyone of them makes the connection. My bet is that they won't make the connection.And if they do, so what?
 
Becky - did you get the interactive show DVD? Do an interactive show, involve them! Let me tell you, they will feel less secure than you EVER will. :)It will all be fine, relax and have fun!
 
Ok - don't panic - WE were all nervous our first shows!!

Practice at home - do a pretend show - for your DH, kids, even some stuffed animals - walk thru your show - over and over -

Make cheat sheets!

When I did my first show - I started like this:

Hi everyone, my name is Doreen and I will be your Pampered Chef consultant for the evening - this is my very first show so if I seem nervous, its because I am, If I talk fast, its because I do, so feel free to raise your hand and ask me to slow down or repeat myself.

You will be amazed how many people are super nice and understanding - especially at your first shows - Remember the saying - Your the Pampered Chef not the Perfect chef!!

Don't worry - you will be fine!!
 
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well, I guess that means I have to buy a fluted stone... :) I don't have one yet. If I order now, I should have it in time for the show. Just need time to practice. I am trying to relax. Yesterday I was a mess. I almost wanted to cry. I want this so bad and most people would be going crazy with excitement to have the opportunity to sell to a gang of rich people. I am just so scared I will screw up.
 
If you're doing a recipe, do it over, and over, and over until your family is completely sick of it, then do it some more. I can still make my first show recipe without the cookbook!
 
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Actually they do know my DH cause he is the go to guy for any of their issues. This is a smaller company, not tiny, but not as big as GIANT. So they all really like DH, but thats what scares me. What if I do or say something they don't like. I don't want to make DH look bad through me.


Janet, I still didn't get my DVD. I heard for new Cons. it will take 90 days.
 
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Anyone have some great recipe they use? I will try that cake (as soon as I get the pan), but I could use more options to give my host.
 
Personally, I don't like the microwave cakes - I know alot of people like them - but I think they are a very strange texture and consistency (in Cooking language - they don't have a good "crumb") and I would never serve one to people I was trying to impress!

Some of the recipes that get the most WOW's for me are:

Turtle Fudge Skillet Cake
Seven Layer Southwestern Salad
Strawberry Spinach Salad
Incredible 30 Minute Chicken
Garlic Parmesan Biscuit Bites
Mini Pesto Pizzas
Cran-Raspberry Fizz
Mom's Apple Crisp
 
The Aloha Pizza was a hit by me too...
 
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Where do I get these recipes? Are they on the website? That skillet cake sounds good.
 
Here you go!:thumbup: :thumbup: I actually included a couple other recipes that are always Crowd Pleasers - Clubhouse Chicken Squares and Tomato Basil Squares.....I think both of these can be done with just New Consultant Kit products....and I didn't know how many other products you might have.Oh - and the other recipes are on CC - look under F/W 2007 Season's Best!
 

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Club House Chicken Squares and Aloha Pizza were hits for me. Along with Chocolate Chip Sensation. I agree with everyone else, they are people too, don't be too concerned. Practice your show in front of your DH, your cat, a friend, someone who will listen. I did one for DH and our cat! DH made the cat ask some very weird questions but if I can do it in front of DH, I can do it in front of anyone!
 
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Becky, thanks for those. I am excited to try that cake.
 
Take your current Season's Best & go from there. I offer only 6 recipe choices (3 appetizer & 3 desserts) from that cookbook for my hosts to choose (only 1) as the demo recipe. I would definitely go interactive. It takes all the focus off of you. The aloha pizza & jerk chicken nachos are super easy & a big hit with guests. The garlic bites are another good add-on recipe. Delicious too!

It might be difficult, but, RELAX! Nobody is perfect (nor will they expect you to be) and even if you mess up it will be fine. I still have flubs now & then & unless I mention it the guests usually don't notice. Just go & have fun & they will too.
 
I agree with the other posters: PRACTICE at home! For anyone! For no one!

Before my first show I practiced in front of DH so much - one time he finally just got up and left and told me HE could make the recipe if I didn't know how!! Then I was left demo-ing in front of the cats.I have to tell you they were way more interested in the products then DH! But it was too funny having two cats sit and watch me - I think they thought they were going to get a snack!!

So, pick your recipe and practice it - alot. You will feel better on the day of your show.

In your post:
"Now normally i wouldn't care. If my husband didn't work directly under these people, then they would just be any old people to me."
You need to put in your mind that they are just people you don't know! If you didn't have the guest list before hand - you wouldn't have known who they were when you got there.

Some recipes I like so far:
Clubhouse Chicken Squares
Elegant Artichoke Cups
Mini-Ham Puffs
Rings or braids

I would be nervous about trying a microwave cake. I am having trouble with them at home in the fluted pan. And since everyone's microwave is different, I would be nervous on how it is going to turn out at a host's house. I did one at my last show and it was the chocolate cake with icing in the rice cooker. When I got there, the host's microwave did not have a turntable, so I had to turn it every 2-1/2 minutes. I also don't think it turned out that well. I think it is hard to be paying attention to cakes doneness minute by minute while having to demo.

Once you have been doing this awhile - it will probably be easier to do a microwave cake and it won't be a big deal if it doesn't turn out. This last show where it didn't turn out so well was no big deal since the wine had been flowing since I got there! LOL :)

Good Luck!
 
Becky0216 said:
Becky, thanks for those. I am excited to try that cake.

I do that cake all the time for Chocolate Bliss Shows. You could use the Chocolate Bliss Invitations then too - people seem to really respond to that invite!:D

If you don't have Choc. Bliss Invites, just put a blurb on the ones you are using about it being a Chocolate Bliss Show.;)
 
Do something simple, and don't freak yourself out. Why are you concerned you'd say something they don't like? Just talk about PC and how wonderful it is to use in your kitchen. In the mean time, use your products at home for everything so you have lots of excitement to share with the guests. Don't talk about your dh or his work. If it's brought up by someone, just smile and nod, agree as much as possible and move back to PC. You may have a little paranoia going on. (How do you spell that word, anyway?)
I agree with Becky about the micro cake. Those are fussy, and everyone's microwave is different.
 
wadesgirl said:
Club House Chicken Squares and Aloha Pizza were hits for me. Along with Chocolate Chip Sensation. I agree with everyone else, they are people too, don't be too concerned. Practice your show in front of your DH, your cat, a friend, someone who will listen. I did one for DH and our cat! DH made the cat ask some very weird questions but if I can do it in front of DH, I can do it in front of anyone!

TOO FUNNY!!!
 
kam said:
TOO FUNNY!!!

You don't know our cat, he does have a personality of his own!

This is what I do for my recipes, I pick 4-6 recipes each season. I try to make them from different groups: desserts, chocolate, appetizer, etc. That way if I have repeat hosts they get to pick something different but I'm not changing recipes and products out every month. Right now I have 5 which are all from the new SBRB: Greek Cheese Torta, Lemon Cakes, Chocolate Velvet Cake, One Pot Pasta and Cheeseburger Salad. I try to stick with the current theme shows because HO provides us with wonderful materials to use. This is the first time I've offered all SB recipes, last season I used some of the hit recipes that I've done previously: Club House Chicken Squares, Aloha Pizza, Chocolate Chip Sensation, Ham and Cheese Brunch Squares (I had two more but they weren't big hits!). Do what ever you are comfortable with. When I first started, I offered two recipes, the host picked one until I got more comfortable and tried more recipes.
 
The Mini Pesto Pizzas recipe is in your Season's Best.
That's what I did at my first show. It's easy and quick, and I haven't met a person who didn't love them.
 
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Ok, I have some great ideas now. I just have to get practicing. Time is running out. I have a week trip to fl on sat., so that wipes a whole lot of practice time out.
Thanks alot. I just have to work on nerves.
 
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one quick ? Is the skillet cake done in a 10" or 12"?
 
12"! It would overflow in the 10"
 
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ok. Thanks. I just got mine delivered yesterday.
 
Becky0216 said:
Ok, I have some great ideas now. I just have to get practicing. Time is running out. I have a week trip to fl on sat., so that wipes a whole lot of practice time out.
Thanks alot. I just have to work on nerves.
If you're driving, take your tools along!
 
Becky0216 said:
Ok, I have some great ideas now. I just have to get practicing. Time is running out. I have a week trip to fl on sat., so that wipes a whole lot of practice time out.
Thanks alot. I just have to work on nerves.

Practice your lines to yourself if you are driving. If you have a tape recorder, record yourself so you can play back later.

FYI, I still use cheat sheets at my shows. Keeps me on track and helps me to remember the little things that I keep forgetting!
 
One of my favorites when I started was the Strawberry Amaretto Pastries... the only thing you need to cook is the pastry dough and I always did that before the guest arrived. I did this with the Antipasto Veggie Pizza. My sister calls this combo "chick food"!
And don't forget about a trifle... super easy and NO cooking.
 
Gee, here we have an important discussion going on and you want to make a trifle out of it.























Besides, a new consultant might not have the trifle bowl.
 
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