Weird New Friendliness: What's Going On?

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The discussion centers on a person who has recently changed their behavior, becoming overly friendly and reaching out to someone about their professional growth and meetings. The consensus among contributors is to be wary of this individual's intentions, suggesting that they may be manipulative and could be seeking something in return. There are speculations about mental health issues, including bipolar disorder, which could explain the erratic behavior. Participants caution against re-engaging with this person, emphasizing the importance of maintaining boundaries and staying strong in their resolve to keep meetings separate. Despite the friendly overtures, there is a strong belief that she may have ulterior motives, particularly as they anticipate a gathering in DC, where personal connections may complicate professional boundaries.
dannyzmom
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She's been all friendly all-of-a-sudden.
Emailing to chat about DC, congratulating me on the growth of my team, asking how my meeting went, etc.
Weird weird...
 
Someone in your upline must have talked to her about the fact that you are her asset and she better change her ways. Don't invite her back into your meetings! Be strong girl!


...I know you will treat her well. You're too nice. But don't let this trick you into submission.
 
It always sounded like she was a manipulative emaotional roller coaster. I guess it is "high" time.
Stay strong!
 
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Yeah - I am guessing she had a come-to-Jesus talk from our NED and she probably had her meds adjusted as well.

STILL KEEPING MY MEETINGS SEPARATE FOR SURE!
 
Is she bipolar?
 
Wow....stay away, stay far away....
 
What Deb said...
 
She sounds a lot like my brother who has been diagnosed with bipolarism. He will take his meds for a while and then feels good enough to go off them which usually turns into a huge high for a day or two and then an extremely low for about a week. I love him, but I can't be around him unless he is on his meds. :(
 
Count me a cynic, but I bet she's going to be asking you for something soon.

I'm with everyone else: stay away...far away. (Especially while in DC...it's supposed to be fun after all!)
 
legacypc46 said:
Count me a cynic, but I bet she's going to be asking you for something soon.

That was my initial thought too!!!!
 
Geez, it's like you want to be nice in return but listen to us all and.......

STAY FAR AWAY!!!​
 
She wants something from you.....
 
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pamperedlinda said:
She wants something from you.....

I think she just wants to be able to hang out together in DC. Our sons get along well. I know mine has been asking if her son is going to be there in DC. I am sure hers has been asking the same. We are tied up with family obligations the first two days there and will probably only run into her and her family at the breakfasts and other events.
 
How about having her train your new downline consultant mentioned on another thread:D:D:D:D
 
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baychef said:
How about having her train your new downline consultant mentioned on another thread:D:D:D:D

Ooooooh...now, I like the sound of that!!! LOL
Poetic justice LOL
 
I get to meet her--
 
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morfia said:
I get to meet her--

Lookout - you may get seated next to her at one of the events!
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is "Weird New Friendliness" in the context of direct sales?

"Weird New Friendliness" refers to a trend where individuals in direct sales, such as those involved with Pampered Chef, exhibit an unusually high level of friendliness and enthusiasm towards potential customers and recruits. This behavior can sometimes feel forced or overly enthusiastic, leading to mixed reactions from the audience.

Why are direct sales representatives adopting this approach?

Direct sales representatives may adopt "Weird New Friendliness" as a strategy to create a welcoming atmosphere that encourages engagement. This approach is often seen as a way to differentiate themselves in a competitive market, aiming to build rapport and trust quickly with potential clients.

How can I tell if someone is being genuinely friendly or just using "Weird New Friendliness"?

Genuine friendliness typically feels authentic and natural, while "Weird New Friendliness" may come across as overly scripted or exaggerated. Signs include excessive compliments, rapid-fire sales pitches, or a lack of personal connection. Observing body language and listening to the tone of voice can also help determine authenticity.

Is "Weird New Friendliness" effective in selling Pampered Chef products?

The effectiveness of "Weird New Friendliness" can vary. While some customers may appreciate the enthusiasm and feel more inclined to engage, others may find it off-putting. Ultimately, building genuine relationships and understanding customer needs tends to yield better long-term results in sales.

What are some tips for balancing friendliness with professionalism in direct sales?

To balance friendliness with professionalism, representatives should focus on being authentic and relatable. Listening actively to customers, asking open-ended questions, and sharing personal stories can help create a genuine connection. It's important to maintain a professional demeanor while still being approachable and friendly.

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