Team Christmas Party--Inappropriate Behavior

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A recent Christmas party for a team revealed inappropriate behavior from a new consultant's wife, who aggressively promoted MonaVie products to attendees, disrupting the social atmosphere. This led to discomfort among partygoers, who felt it was inappropriate to discuss business at a personal event. Concerns were raised about the lack of etiquette and professionalism in direct selling, with some noting that such behavior could reflect poorly on the entire organization. Discussions also touched on the questionable business practices of MonaVie, which has been criticized for its high prices and pyramid scheme-like structure. Despite some acknowledging potential health benefits of the product, the overall sentiment leaned towards skepticism, particularly regarding its marketing tactics that focus heavily on financial gain rather than product efficacy. The incident underscored the importance of maintaining boundaries between personal gatherings and business promotion in direct sales environments.
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We had our team Christmas party last night. A sister consultant had a new consultant there (he just signed). He brought his wife as well.

I walk in and this couple is are the only ones there along with my director and the director whose house we are at. The first thing the wife does to me is shoves a cup of MonaVie in my hand. I said no thank you and tried to figure out who she was (hadn't even introduced herself yet). I ask her name and ask her how long she's been with us and she says one year. :confused::confused: I look at our host/director and she is confused as I am in all of this.

Anyway, so the night goes on and she offers a cup to EVERYONE who shows up and is totally talking it up, much like we would talk about our products if we were at a fair, at a show, etc. You know, you get into "the zone" so to speak.

I took huge offense to what she was doing and moved to the other side of the room.
1. This was our Christmas party. We barely even talked PC business--why would we want to talk about yours?
2. You are a guest, lady.
3. No one is interested!

It was so inappropriate, but no one said anything to her. I think we were all dumbfounded. They were one of the first people to leave and she passed around a stack of her cards as she left. When the stack got to me, I threw them in the trash.

YUCK YUCK YUCK
 
WOW! I'm getting less and less surprised at people's behavior these days, but that was way out of line.
 
Well Deb, you said it best a while back: Some people have no filter.I will add that I did hear from two consultants who rep other companies that I will not mention by name (PL & MK :devil:) who were trained by their managers to piggy back onto ANYTHING Pampered Chef does because we have the most success. So if there is a PC party that you know of, even if you aren't directly invited, GET THERE and promote your biz. I can't believe in good conscience that the home offices condone this kind of behavior but these two consultants were so green they didn't know that it was poor etiquette. Just goes to show that the other companies are DESPERATE!!!!And, what is Monavie? Do I dare ask? And was the husband okay with her behavior?
 
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Mona Vie--some stupid overpriced drink made with the acai berry.Hubby was sitting on the other side of the room and I didn't get a read on it from him.
 
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Was anyone engaging her in conversation??? Didn't she realize?? Unbelievable.
It nevers stops amazing me how inappropriate people can be.
 
I would send out an email asking that all PC meetings (especially since it is ONCE a month) are for PC business only.
 
ok for anyone who hasn't had the sh--t stuffed in there face yet--take it from me if you are healthy you WILL SH--T YOURSELF---LMAO---don't Drink it
 
LOL!! Morfia you are too funny!

Isn't that the stuff they bottle like it's wine?
 
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Chef Kearns said:
LOL!! Morfia you are too funny!

Isn't that the stuff they bottle like it's wine?

Yes, it looks like a wine bottle.
 
DebbieJ said:
Yes, it looks like a wine bottle.

That's a total disgrace against the wine industry!
 
morfia said:
ok for anyone who hasn't had the sh--t stuffed in there face yet--take it from me if you are healthy you WILL SH--T YOURSELF---LMAO---don't Drink it

Tell it like it is Morfia!!!!
XOXOXO
 
Sorry the wife was inappropriate but that is like having one bad PC consultant ruin the PC reputation. I am a HUGE fan of Monavie...yes, at first it may make you go to the bathroom! depending on what your body is used too, BUT it has amazing benefits also. It is expensive but if you consider what has does for some people (not everyone, it is like everything else, just cuz it works for some, etc) I sure you can pay just as much for prescription medications...i have seen people go off medications for blood pressure, diabetes, etc...and many other things as well.
Just have to share the other side....i don't mean to make waves~
 
morfia said:
ok for anyone who hasn't had the sh--t stuffed in there face yet--take it from me if you are healthy you WILL SH--T YOURSELF---LMAO---don't Drink it

That is just hilarious and made me laugh out loud.:)
 
dannyzmom said:
Tell it like it is Morfia!!!!
XOXOXO
thanks for the permission---Just to prove to my sis-I tried it again--another well you get the jist!
 
I know that those who love it really love it, but I think it tastes like yesterday's cough syrup, LOL. I know it is supposed to have awesome health benefits, but I do have a tough time with them proposing that it will "heal" autism (I've had 4 consultants of theirs swear this). And after I have the heart attack at the cost it better have awesome health benefits. More power to them that love it, though. Just not for us.
 
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I have a SIL and BIL selling this and while they talk about it's health benefits, they talk more about the money they're making and are going to make. The company founders are former Amway folks, so their business model is pure pyramid.

The bottles go for around $40 each...unless of course you sign up and then you get a personal discount of around $25 per bottle when you buy 3 cases(!). Then the bottles are free when you sign a certain number of people. Their business promotional material is all about wealth: fancy cars, huge homes, luxury items. So, even if the health benefits are there, it's hard to get past the slimey scheminess of it. (My apologies if I offend any MV fans here.)

The SIL/BIL have been courting me for awhile...saying since I had such success with PC, I should make lots of $$$ with them. DH and I just shake our heads; they don't get it. If we were motivated by money, we wouldn't have spent 20+ years in the military! I like PC because it isn't about the fast buck.
 
legacypc46 said:
I have a SIL and BIL selling this and while they talk about it's health benefits, they talk more about the money they're making and are going to make. The company founders are former Amway folks, so their business model is pure pyramid.

The bottles go for around $40 each...unless of course you sign up and then you get a personal discount of around $25 per bottle when you buy 3 cases(!). Then the bottles are free when you sign a certain number of people. Their business promotional material is all about wealth: fancy cars, huge homes, luxury items. So, even if the health benefits are there, it's hard to get past the slimey scheminess of it. (My apologies if I offend any MV fans here.)

The SIL/BIL have been courting me for awhile...saying since I had such success with PC, I should make lots of $$$ with them. DH and I just shake our heads; they don't get it. If we were motivated by money, we wouldn't have spent 20+ years in the military! I like PC because it isn't about the fast buck.

well stated!
 
I can just imagine your director's reaction....although she's too nice to throw her out -- I wouldn't have been so nice.
 
One of the greatest perks of being a PC director is being able to tell reps of other businesses that I love my PC business, and as a director I am contractually obligated not to represent other direct sales businesses.
 
pc_cindy said:
One of the greatest perks of being a PC director is being able to tell reps of other businesses that I love my PC business, and as a director I am contractually obligated not to represent other direct sales businesses.

ME TOO!!!

B-i-l is was asking me to work with his friend who is starting up her direct selling company and I was so happy I had that line to use. But then he asked me (And KEEPS asking me) to ask my downline if they would represent her line too. He totally doesn't get it!

What's funny is the woman who started the company *heard how successful PC consultants are* so she wants us to work for her. Not going to happen! Plus, it's a clothing line... not kitchen products!
 
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pc_cindy said:
One of the greatest perks of being a PC director is being able to tell reps of other businesses that I love my PC business, and as a director I am contractually obligated not to represent other direct sales businesses.

Right, I get that. She wasn't trying to recruit us. She was trying to sell to us.
 
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The sales pitch is just the lead-in to the recruit pitch. Once they get you interested enough to even consider spending $40 a bottle, they offer you the 'deal' of only $25 a bottle if you're a distributor. (Of course, you got to buy like 3 cases at a time!). From there, it's the pitch of "it's even better to get your bottles for free and make amazing money by signing others...and since you're already a PC director, your husband can be the one who signs on paper". Trust me, I've gotten to hear it several times.:yuck:
 
finley1991 said:
ME TOO!!!

B-i-l is was asking me to work with his friend who is starting up her direct selling company and I was so happy I had that line to use. But then he asked me (And KEEPS asking me) to ask my downline if they would represent her line too. He totally doesn't get it!

You could still use the line that you are contractually obligated not to recruit for another company. That is pretty much why there was an upset and people were asked to leave over the Private Quarters debacle.
 
Thanks Kate! Those are the perfect words to use!
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What constitutes inappropriate behavior at the Team Christmas Party?

Inappropriate behavior at the Team Christmas Party can include actions such as excessive drinking, making offensive jokes, unwanted physical contact, harassment, or any behavior that makes others feel uncomfortable or disrespected. It's important to maintain a professional and respectful atmosphere during team gatherings.

How should I address inappropriate behavior if I witness it at the party?

If you witness inappropriate behavior, it's crucial to address it promptly. You can approach the individual privately and express your concerns, or you can report the behavior to a team leader or HR representative. It's important to ensure that everyone feels safe and respected during the event.

What should I do if I feel uncomfortable with someone's behavior at the party?

If you feel uncomfortable with someone's behavior, trust your instincts. You can remove yourself from the situation and seek support from a colleague or a team leader. It's important to communicate your feelings and report the behavior if necessary to ensure a safe environment for everyone.

Are there any guidelines for behavior at the Team Christmas Party?

Yes, there are typically guidelines for behavior at team events. These may include expectations for professionalism, respect for personal boundaries, and adherence to company policies regarding conduct. It's advisable to review any provided guidelines before the event to ensure everyone is on the same page.

What are the consequences of inappropriate behavior at the Team Christmas Party?

Consequences for inappropriate behavior can vary depending on the severity of the actions and company policies. Possible outcomes may include a formal warning, mandatory training, or even termination of employment in extreme cases. It’s essential to understand that maintaining a respectful environment is a priority for the organization.

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