Should I Submit the Show for My Recruit's Surprise Wedding Shower?

[annew]

Ok so I get this HO referral-- she's interested in hosting a cooking show so I send her an email & it was kind of fishy b/c the address was just 1 Main St. in the town that I work in....so I send her this email & didn't think I'd hear anything back. The name was Cheri Moore

so that night I get a call from Candi Mattice.....I was like ok I have no clue who you are well after she explained who she was...she was actually looking for someone in my cluster's Director & I said well you lucked out b/c I'm it

Long story short my recruit is getting married & this girl works w/her & they want to throw her a wedding shower w/PC & didn't want her to know anything about it......I can't believe it worked out as well b/c there are several directors in my area....

So Candi has contacted Megan to do a "show" for her on the day that I'm doing the shower.......it's going to be @ the school the only way they could figure that it would really be a surprise.....

ok so we have the shower set up in June & Megan (my recruit) will be the host but now I'm not sure if I should give her the show to submit herself or do I submit it??????!!!!!

I'm feeling guilty & don't know what to do & would love to hear what you all think.

 

[BethCooks4U]

That is a hard one. It would be a very nice gift to give her...

I would be very torn but I think the "right" and "nice" thing would be to give it to her to submit since she is a consultant and is on your team.

 

[cmdtrgd]

Whoever does the demo is the one who submits the show.

 

[BethCooks4U]

Whoever does the demo is the one who submits the show.

Normally I totally agree with this and it is certainly a good way to look at it even this time. ...but in this case it's happening because the consultant's friend wanted to surprise her. If I was the director I would gift her the show as my present to her or I would at least say something to the consultant to see how she feels about it.

 

[pamela]

I'm with Beth on this one!

 

[finley1991]

I agree with Beth too... I'd pass the show along to her. It's a generous gift that will come back to benefit you in the long run.

 

[annew]

That's what I was thinking too
Thanks!

 

[dannyzmom]

I agree with Beth.

 

[pamperedbecky]

Me too. What a fun surprise that will be!