Rude Messages From Online Activity?

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores experiences and opinions regarding receiving rude messages related to spelling errors on personal websites. Participants share their reactions to anonymous feedback and discuss the implications of such comments on professionalism and communication.

Discussion Character

  • Opinion-based
  • Anecdotal
  • Debate/contested

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses frustration over receiving rude messages about spelling mistakes, questioning the motives of those who judge others.
  • Another participant suggests that the rude comments may stem from the sender's bad mood or past experiences with misspellings in professional settings.
  • Several users mention the anonymity of the feedback as a factor that makes it feel more hurtful and less constructive.
  • One participant shares their practice of using spell check for emails but acknowledges that mistakes can happen, especially on websites without such features.
  • Another participant reflects on the importance of professionalism in advertising and how spelling errors can impact perceptions.
  • Some participants discuss the potential for interpreting the rude comment in a more positive light, suggesting it could have been intended as helpful feedback.
  • One participant notes that they have taken steps to correct their website errors quickly after receiving the feedback.
  • Another participant shares their personal pet peeve about spelling errors in published materials, emphasizing the importance of attention to detail.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the intent behind the rude messages, with some participants suggesting they could be seen as helpful while others find them simply rude. No clear consensus emerges regarding the appropriateness of anonymous feedback.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences and feelings about receiving feedback on their websites, highlighting the emotional impact of anonymous criticism in a professional context.

Who May Find This Useful

This discussion may be of interest to Pampered Chef consultants who encounter similar situations regarding feedback on their online presence and seek to understand different perspectives on handling criticism.

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  • #61
LOL I think we all do that from time to time.... Gillian!!! :)
 
gilliandanielle said:
I am famous for using form instead of from! Please forgive me everyone! i downloaded the spell checker, but now I have to remember to use it!
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Well....form & from are both 'real words' so spell checker wouldn't fix it even if you did remember to use it. I'm really bad about for & fro....I always have to check for that one!
 
gilliandanielle said:
i downloaded the spell checker, but now I have to remember to use it!
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Same heer! LOL
 
LOL Annie! You are so funny! We have the EXACT same sense of humor!!
 
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  • #65
Well all of us spelling challenged people should form a club LOL!!!!!
 
You mean a clup?? LOL!!
 
Or a clob.... the possibilites are endless
 
Anne and I have too much time on our hands! Sorry everyone!
 
AJPratt said:
Or a clob.... the possibilites are endless
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Well, that's just corny.

(Yes it is. EVERYONE has heard of corn on the clob.)
 
I used to be the best speller until in the last few years I started using the instant messenger. I talk to several of my out of town friends this way (much cheaper than phone). We are all always chatting so fast that none of us take the time to correct our spelling, capitalization etc. I think I have done irreversable damage. lol:eek:
 
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LOL... their are times that I am not paying attention and I am at school and I am abbrevating like I do online..... that's really bad...
 
kaceyleigh2 said:
I tend to notice spelling mistakes too, but I don't think I would ever point it out to someone, unless they asked! There is a sign at a farm stand in my area that says LOBESTERS instead of Lobsters...drives me crazy but clearly it doesn't bother the owners b/c it is still there!
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lol My exhusband actually went in there and asked them about it. (He's not the most tactful of people) :rolleyes: They told him that they actually get more business because the sign is misspelled - people come in to ask about it, and buy stuff! lol

But I am one of those people that notice spelling errors, too - I tend to ignore them. I think they were trying to help - but the lack of emotion in an email tends to make everything sound harsh. :(
 
I could see that! I bet they do get tons of business that way! LOL!
 
Yeah... That's what I do with my posts... I'm mis-spelling on purpose.
 
It gets you more business from fellow PCer's? OKEEEEEEEEE Anne!
 
I make spelling errors so others can feel superior. :rolleyes:
 
You mean superier, Tasha? LMBO!!
 
Just gets their attention!!
 
gilliandanielle said:
You mean superier, Tasha? LMBO!!
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Who knows? I downloaded a spell checker for this site (no I don't remember where) but since the button for it looks like a "missing" icon I keep forgetting it is there.
 
I know! What kinda buttion is that? It looks like a ladybug trapped in a box, suspended in a box!
 
tlennhoff said:
Who knows? I downloaded a spell checker for this site (no I don't remember where) but since the button for it looks like a "missing" icon I keep forgetting it is there.
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It looks missing to me, too.
 
NewsYou should add a special section under the NEWS part of your website that says:

Four those hoo katch my speling erors on this websyte and send corect contakt informashon, you wil get a FREE mini katalog to place large ordurs for PC products!!! Or a citrus peeler! Or whatever sounds good to you!!!

LOL
Debbie
 
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LOL good one Debbi!!!
 
I used to be secretary at our church. I replaced the secretary who retired after 30 years there (yikes)! For the first couple of years, many Monday mornings in the brass mail box would be the Sunday bulletin with the misspellings circled and any other errors pointed out.
One Sunday morning even, a lady walked up to me, right before worship, with a smile and goes, "this has been wrong for the past three weeks!"
I was so tired of worrying about stuff like that and trying to worship, it was really hard. People can be so unkind, even ones you think would be otherwise.

Love the suggestion to read it backwards, I never thought of that! Thanks!

Kris
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if I receive a rude message from a customer online?

If you receive a rude message from a customer, it's important to remain calm and professional. Take a moment to assess the situation before responding. Acknowledge their feelings, and if appropriate, offer to resolve their issue privately. Avoid engaging in a back-and-forth argument, as this can escalate the situation.

How can I prevent rude messages in my online interactions?

Is it okay to block or report rude customers on social media?

Yes, if a customer is being consistently rude or abusive, it is perfectly acceptable to block or report them on social media platforms. Most platforms have policies in place to protect users from harassment, and taking action can help maintain a positive environment for yourself and your other customers.

How should I respond to rude comments on my social media posts?

When responding to rude comments on your social media posts, consider addressing the comment publicly to show that you are attentive, but keep your response professional and courteous. If the comment is particularly inappropriate, you may choose to delete it or respond privately to resolve the issue. Always prioritize maintaining a positive image for your business.

Can rude messages affect my direct sales business?

Yes, rude messages can potentially affect your direct sales business by discouraging potential customers and damaging your reputation. It's important to handle such messages gracefully and professionally to mitigate any negative impact. By addressing issues promptly and maintaining a positive demeanor, you can help preserve your business's reputation.

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