Rude Messages From Online Activity?

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores experiences and opinions regarding receiving rude messages related to spelling errors on personal websites. Participants share their reactions to anonymous feedback and discuss the implications of such comments on professionalism and communication.

Discussion Character

  • Opinion-based
  • Anecdotal
  • Debate/contested

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses frustration over receiving rude messages about spelling mistakes, questioning the motives of those who judge others.
  • Another participant suggests that the rude comments may stem from the sender's bad mood or past experiences with misspellings in professional settings.
  • Several users mention the anonymity of the feedback as a factor that makes it feel more hurtful and less constructive.
  • One participant shares their practice of using spell check for emails but acknowledges that mistakes can happen, especially on websites without such features.
  • Another participant reflects on the importance of professionalism in advertising and how spelling errors can impact perceptions.
  • Some participants discuss the potential for interpreting the rude comment in a more positive light, suggesting it could have been intended as helpful feedback.
  • One participant notes that they have taken steps to correct their website errors quickly after receiving the feedback.
  • Another participant shares their personal pet peeve about spelling errors in published materials, emphasizing the importance of attention to detail.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the intent behind the rude messages, with some participants suggesting they could be seen as helpful while others find them simply rude. No clear consensus emerges regarding the appropriateness of anonymous feedback.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences and feelings about receiving feedback on their websites, highlighting the emotional impact of anonymous criticism in a professional context.

Who May Find This Useful

This discussion may be of interest to Pampered Chef consultants who encounter similar situations regarding feedback on their online presence and seek to understand different perspectives on handling criticism.

mommyhugz1978 said:
Pickey Pickey,..... aren't we John??? LOL thanks for the tip......

Just trying to give you a heads up. I'm bummed out, I have been in the hospital on and off for three weeks and I had to cancel all of my shows this month. I did turn in a show for 1250 from orders I scrounged together at the last minute, plus a few christmas presents. I'll just be glad to get back out of the hospital this time.....the Dr says I should get out on Sat or Sun! Yippe
 
John: I hope its nothing too serious!
 
kaceyleigh2 said:
I tend to notice spelling mistakes too, but I don't think I would ever point it out to someone, unless they asked! There is a sign at a farm stand in my area that says LOBESTERS instead of Lobsters...drives me crazy but clearly it doesn't bother the owners b/c it is still there!
I know it's not easy but try not to take it too personally. I find that a lot of times people point other people's imperfections when they have imperfections of their own! Maybe it's out of jealousy or to make themselves feel better. Basically what it comes down to is it's THEIR issue not yours! Maybe this person isn't very good at spelling themselves or maybe they aren't good at math...OR maybe he or she is covered in body hair and looks like a Werewolf.

Anyways, I agree that using spellcheck in Word and then cutting and pasting is your best bet if you want to fix or your spelling...

Maybe they spell it that way because they sell the BEST Lobsters and wanted to save space on the sign! :)

Leah, I know it sounds like no one is supporting you but you have brought up a great topic. Misspelled words are everywhere! You aren't the only one that does it, we all do it at one time or another. (Yes, even those of us that hate seeing them!) I think that most spelling errors are just people's fingers getting ahead of them on the keyboard and carelessness. I make it a habit to proof read EVERYTHING I type and send in emails, posts, etc. Since I hit the 40's :eek: my brain can't seem to keep up with my fingers OR my mouth!! Bizarre things keep coming out of my mouth and through my fingers that I never planned!!
 
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Feel Better SoonHope you feel better soon... thanks for the tip I didn't realize I couldn't have my website listen in my sig.


jmabner said:
Just trying to give you a heads up. I'm bummed out, I have been in the hospital on and off for three weeks and I had to cancel all of my shows this month. I did turn in a show for 1250 from orders I scrounged together at the last minute, plus a few christmas presents. I'll just be glad to get back out of the hospital this time.....the Dr says I should get out on Sat or Sun! Yippe
 
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I hear you on that one... though I am no where near 40... I am close to 30 but I know that when I get to typing sometimes my fingers are going a heck of a lot faster than my brain is actualy working.


GeorgiaPeach said:
Maybe they spell it that way because they sell the BEST Lobsters and wanted to save space on the sign! :)

Leah, I know it sounds like no one is supporting you but you have brought up a great topic. Misspelled words are everywhere! You aren't the only one that does it, we all do it at one time or another. (Yes, even those of us that hate seeing them!) I think that most spelling errors are just people's fingers getting ahead of them on the keyboard and carelessness. I make it a habit to proof read EVERYTHING I type and send in emails, posts, etc. Since I hit the 40's :eek: my brain can't seem to keep up with my fingers OR my mouth!! Bizarre things keep coming out of my mouth and through my fingers that I never planned!!
 
Leah- I didn't mean for you to feel unsupported! I was trying to help you! Lisa's right, most misspelled words are typos! I get typing and sometimes I transpose letters. It's easy to do and sometimes if you are proofing your own work, your brain will automatically correct for your mistakes so you miss them AGAIN! It's always a good idea to get a second person to proof your work even if you are an excellent speller!! I make PLENTY of errors and I'm also a writer!
 
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frustrationsThis is something that I have dealt with my whole life as well. It is jsut something that I have to deal with .. and contiune to work on!!! I do way better than my grandma however she is the worlds worst speller... she starts my name with an L and about 10 letters later it might end with an H if I am lucky!! LOL But she is my grandma and I love her jsut the same.



PoseyMom said:
Leah- I didn't mean for you to feel unsupported! I was trying to help you! Lisa's right, most misspelled words are typos! I get typing and sometimes I transpose letters. It's easy to do and sometimes if you are proofing your own work, your brain will automatically correct for your mistakes so you miss them AGAIN! It's always a good idea to get a second person to proof your work even if you are an excellent speller!! I make PLENTY of errors and I'm also a writer!
 
My sister used to be able to type over 100 words per minute and her advice was to read whatever you typed BACKWARDS so your brain has to read each word individually and you won't skip as many typos.

For example...what I just typed would be read "typos many as skip won't you and individually....." (That was for anyone that might have been confused about "reading backwards" :D )
 
I'm lost... LOL Just kidding.
 
Wow! That's the first time I've heard of that suggestion... It makes perfect sense though, because you would be looking at the words in isolation. I wish I'd known this years ago!! :)

Leah- sorry this is such a touchy subject. My 14 year old is dyslexic and she is a horrible speller! She also struggles with grammar and often writes how she speaks. It's been quite a struggle for her, so I really do understand and sympathize! With her once you get past the poor spelling and syntax, she has the most creative and brilliant ideas. We are a perfect match! She creates and I'm her personal editor! :)
 
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Jen, I know how your daughter feels... I am dyslexic as well, though it is more refective with math than with words, but I have horrible spelling and grammar and I write how I speak as well.......

It took me alot time to work through stuff.. I am a full time college student..... writing papers is hard enough but having someone going behind me and correct me.. I spend alot of time rewritting papers becasue of grammar and spelling errors!! :(




PoseyMom said:
Wow! That's the first time I've heard of that suggestion... It makes perfect sense though, because you would be looking at the words in isolation. I wish I'd known this years ago!! :)

Leah- sorry this is such a touchy subject. My 14 year old is dyslexic and she is a horrible speller! She also struggles with grammar and often writes how she speaks. It's been quite a struggle for her, so I really do understand and sympathize! With her once you get past the poor spelling and syntax, she has the most creative and brilliant ideas. We are a perfect match! She creates and I'm her personal editor! :)
 
Leah - I also didn't mean for you to think I was not being supportive - I know how bad it must have felt to think you got a hit on your website, and then have it be anonymously rude! Please take my suggestions about spellcheck and having someone proofread your website as I intended (I know you can't read intention on email!) - which was coming from a heart that just wanted to help!
My husband is one of the most creative, funniest, and original thinkers I know - but he can't spell worth beans.....I am so used to editing his writing for him....but everytime he gives me a card, the only things that are spelled right are.....
my name and the Love, Rick at the end! I value every one of those cards - and the spelling doesn't matter one bit to me!
 
I just saw a big sign on a new Animal Hospital that said "Open Dailey". Doesn't anyone at the sign place let them know? Or do they not say anything so that they get paid to make a new sign? A week later it was fixed, but how long did it take them to notice? Not a good impression to start off your business.
 
i ALWAYS ALWAYS spell THE wrong when i am typing! ALWAYS! I do notice many people do the same.
i even just went back and fixed those THE'S!!!!
 
Leah I'm just going to say one thing from one bad speller to another: "It takes all types and some are consultants". lol Ok I'm going to say just one more thing, I'm right there with you and if I had gotten an email from my site like that it would have p*#$^$ me off. I totally understand your frustration (and who knows if I spelled that right).
 
Stacy: You are a hoot!
 
The tool bar Google offers has a spell check for form fields like when you type a comment, or something on your website. I used it here and it corrected 2 words just now.
 
gilliandanielle said:
I just saw a big sign on a new Animal Hospital that said "Open Dailey". Doesn't anyone at the sign place let them know? Or do they not say anything so that they get paid to make a new sign? A week later it was fixed, but how long did it take them to notice? Not a good impression to start off your business.

It frustrates the heck out of me when I see businesses spell things incorrectly...like, Lite Bulb Sale...what is that?
 
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Swirl said:
Leah I'm just going to say one thing from one bad speller to another: "It takes all types and some are consultants". lol Ok I'm going to say just one more thing, I'm right there with you and if I had gotten an email from my site like that it would have p*#$^$ me off. I totally understand your frustration (and who knows if I spelled that right).


Thanks for the words of encouragement to know that I am not the only person that this upsets, that people go out of their way to be rude.
 
AJPratt said:
When I do things for my site, I use word, spellcheck and then copy and paste.
Eye halve a spelling chequer
It came with my pea sea
It plainly marques four my revue
Miss steaks eye kin knot sea.

Eye strike a key and type a word
And weight four it two say
Weather eye am wrong oar write
It shows me strait a weigh.

As soon as a mist ache is maid
It nose bee fore two long
And eye can put the error rite
Its rare lea ever wrong.

Eye have run this poem threw it
I am shore your pleased two no
Its letter perfect awl the weigh
My chequer tolled me sew.
 
Kitchen Guy- This poem is perfect!!! Sad thing is that I have a guy I work with that REALLY spells like this, and he is a Vice President...... how does that happen that bad spellers get far in life??Monica
 
monica.dixon said:
Kitchen Guy- This poem is perfect!!! Sad thing is that I have a guy I work with that REALLY spells like this, and he is a Vice President...... how does that happen that bad spellers get far in life??

Monica
I wonder sometimes. I love to play with the language and I love puns. I appreciate creative use of the language and creative spellings - when it is obviously that.

Like the vet's sign that said, "Open Dailey" would be terrific if the doctor's name was, "Dailey." Sadly, I bet it wasn't.

"Lite" is a trademark of Miller Brewing Company - many people don't realize that and think it is an alternate spelling.

I have dyslexic fingers and often transpose characters when I'm typing: teh, inot, fo and most spell checkers will catch that and even then, I don't hold those typos against people. You still need to proof your work though, because it will let words like form (from) go past. Their there they're are killers, so are to two too and the like.

My grammar died when I was quite young. I never knew my grampar at all.
 
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That is too funny Kitchen Guy!!!! Thanks for a good laugh!!
 
KG; You are too much!
 
Oh boy, did you make that up yourself KG? That is quite cute. I think I have seen something similar before. And we thought the boards have been movin lately, now they're gonna be shakin again until KG goes back to work.
 
Nah, I stole it. I first saw it in the Foxtrot comic strip several years ago and now there are several versions of it floating around the 'net.

I know a good joke when I steal it. (Like that line, which stole from Milton Berle.)
 
My grammar died when I was quite young. I never knew my grampar at all.

Oh man. It took me a while :eek:, but I just got that! LOL :D :D
 
Pampered Laura said:
Oh man. It took me a while :eek:, but I just got that! LOL :D :D
Confuscious say: He who laugh last, not get gag.
 
Way too cool.I just notice KG that you are a guy from Wisconsin! Must be something in the water here I guess. I knwo the finger thing. My soemtimes is teh worst thing int he world. Some how I always manage a space after the t and attach it to the word ahead of it. The the o and e never end up where I want them.
However, that does not make it right for someone to go off on anyone about their web site. I agree that this horrible spell check freak could have been a lot kinder about it. $10 bucks says they never type! They just sit on their butt and read then criticise!
John A. - I know your pain. I sure hope you are much better and feeling up to getting going again. It took me about two months to get better then another two months to get back into business again. (Dec 16 in the hospital and May 4th first real show!) I am glad to see you could do $1250 while laid up. Anyway, I will keep thinking excellent recoup thoughts for you!
And no I didn't spell check. I retyped and spelled things wrong though! I am human not a PC!
domo arigatto Mr. roboto! domo domo! BEEP!
 
I am famous for using form instead of from! Please forgive me everyone! i downloaded the spell checker, but now I have to remember to use it!
 

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