. . . and help me understand. I had no idea! Mary's Mother and my grandmother were cousins...
Mary and her grandson (Nick, 6th grader) went home Wednesday afternoon to check on her husband (Nick's Grandfather). She tried to open her garage door . . . it wouldn't open. So she went into the house. She and Nick around the house and her husband was no where to be found. Nick said, "maybe Grandpa went on a walk" ~ which he does a lot. Mary thought "yeah, maybe." Then she turned around and saw his keys and cell phone on the table. Oh no....Mary thought. She went out to the garage to find her husband (he hung himself).
He was in a lot of physical pain (depression). Not able to sleep due to the pain, etc. Educate me here folks...I hate no idea depression could cause such intense physical pain. Maybe because he is the first person I've known to have several depression...you would of never known. I saw and talked to him on SUNDAY! Yes, like 4 days ago! The pain was so bad, he was unable to drive, perform simple tasks like checking his email, etc. He left Mary a note explaining all he felt and all. This is sooooooooooooo sad. He had a late afternoon appt with his psych. He had asked Mary if she would drive him to his appt that afternoon.
The coroner report said he knew what he was doing. The way he contructed his own hanging, he died within a minute. His foot was still on the bucket...
I'm so sad...this is terrible ~ but please educate me for those who KNOW what depression can do...because I'm clueless.
He left behind Mary, 2 sons, 2 DIL, 3 beautiful grandchildren...siblings, nieces, nephews, and MANY dear friends.
TIA ~
Mary and her grandson (Nick, 6th grader) went home Wednesday afternoon to check on her husband (Nick's Grandfather). She tried to open her garage door . . . it wouldn't open. So she went into the house. She and Nick around the house and her husband was no where to be found. Nick said, "maybe Grandpa went on a walk" ~ which he does a lot. Mary thought "yeah, maybe." Then she turned around and saw his keys and cell phone on the table. Oh no....Mary thought. She went out to the garage to find her husband (he hung himself).
He was in a lot of physical pain (depression). Not able to sleep due to the pain, etc. Educate me here folks...I hate no idea depression could cause such intense physical pain. Maybe because he is the first person I've known to have several depression...you would of never known. I saw and talked to him on SUNDAY! Yes, like 4 days ago! The pain was so bad, he was unable to drive, perform simple tasks like checking his email, etc. He left Mary a note explaining all he felt and all. This is sooooooooooooo sad. He had a late afternoon appt with his psych. He had asked Mary if she would drive him to his appt that afternoon.
The coroner report said he knew what he was doing. The way he contructed his own hanging, he died within a minute. His foot was still on the bucket...
I'm so sad...this is terrible ~ but please educate me for those who KNOW what depression can do...because I'm clueless.
He left behind Mary, 2 sons, 2 DIL, 3 beautiful grandchildren...siblings, nieces, nephews, and MANY dear friends.
TIA ~