Managing Dealer Relationships: How to Politely Decline Show Swaps

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Discussion Overview

The thread discusses the challenges of managing relationships with fellow consultants, particularly in the context of declining show swaps. Participants share their personal experiences and feelings about honesty, friendship, and business obligations.

Discussion Character

  • Opinion-based
  • Anecdotal
  • Debate/contested

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, expresses discomfort with a friend's dishonesty regarding show swaps and feels used.
  • Another participant shares their experience of needing to prioritize their own business over swapping shows, suggesting honesty in communication.
  • Several users mention the importance of addressing the lack of transparency in the friendship and the emotional impact it has on them.
  • One participant reflects on the difficulty of maintaining friendships when business dealings become complicated.
  • Another participant notes that true friends should not manipulate each other and emphasizes the need for clear communication about boundaries.
  • Some participants suggest being direct about the change in policy regarding show swaps due to business focus.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on how to approach the situation, with some advocating for direct honesty while others express concern about the potential impact on the friendship. No clear consensus emerges on the best way to handle the relationship.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences and emotions related to balancing friendship and business responsibilities within the consultant community.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants navigating similar challenges in their relationships with peers may find the shared experiences and viewpoints relevant.

Leslie-
You are not being direct enough! She is going to bowl right over you unless you firmly say I do not want to do a show. Don't use your schedule as the excuse, she is not going to accept that answer. Even if you decide not to bring up the idea that she went to another P.C. consultant you need to stand your ground that you do not like their products. Say you did the shows in the past, but are not interested anymore. No wishy washy maybe answers!
:) I hope that helps!
 
I think you should swap shows. She should get on your calendar for the beginning of January (between Jan. 1 and 9) and you should get on her calendar for the end of January. ;) :D ;) :D
 
ChefLisa said:
I think you should swap shows. She should get on your calendar for the beginning of January (between Jan. 1 and 9) and you should get on her calendar for the end of January. ;) :D ;) :D

AND CANCELL!! hahahaha JOKING!!

I say just tell her at this time you do not want to book anymore and if you change your mind YOU Will call her if you do not want to get into the details of it with her.
 
Personally, I think you need to address the manipulation and dishonesty. She kinda needs to know why you aren't too interested in hosting.
 

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