Managing an Enthusiastic Host: Tips for Booking and Handling Expectations

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Discussion Overview

The thread discusses experiences and strategies for managing enthusiastic hosts during Pampered Chef shows, particularly when hosts go above and beyond in their preparations. Participants share their concerns about setting appropriate expectations for guests and how to communicate that not all hosts need to replicate such efforts.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses concern that an overly enthusiastic host might create unrealistic expectations for guests regarding their own shows.
  • Another participant shares that acknowledging the host's efforts during the show can help set the tone and clarify expectations for guests.
  • Several users mention the importance of reassuring guests that they can host a show without needing to replicate the extensive preparations of an enthusiastic host.
  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, notes that many hosts typically prepare much less, which can be highlighted to ease guests' concerns.
  • Another participant shares a personal experience where a similar situation occurred, emphasizing the need for clear communication about what is necessary for hosting.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the best approach to handle enthusiastic hosts, but there is a general agreement on the importance of communicating to guests that they are not expected to replicate the host's efforts.

Contextual Notes

Participants draw from personal experiences with various hosts, highlighting the diversity in hosting styles and the need for flexibility in managing expectations.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants looking for strategies to navigate situations with enthusiastic hosts may find the shared experiences and insights beneficial.

Kathytnt
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I have a host this weekend that is going gang busters but I am afraid it is going to make it hard to book from her show. I think she is even wanting to make goodie bags with recipe ingredients for all her guests. I am glad she is excited but concerned her guests are all going to think they will have to do the same thing. How do I tactfully handle this??
 
Awsome that she is really into it. I would mention at her show, what a great job she has done and that she has gone above and beyond her "call of duty". Explain what is expected of a host. More fun people have =more bookings:D

Good luck!
 
Sounds like maybe you should recruit her :)
 
When I have a host who goes overboard (like with a table FULL of food in addition to our recipe) I always thank her at the beginning of her show, but then say to all of the guests:

"Don't think in order to have your own show that you have to do all that Suzy did here! That's one of the things I love about PC- I can run MY business MY way and my hosts can run THIER shows THEIR way. Some people love to entertain and make lots of recipes and this is their forum to do that...others just want an informal fun night for their friends and they put out a bowl of pretzels and a 2 liter of pop. I always tell my hosts to do whatever makes THEM comfortable!"

That way, your host knows you appreciate all she has done, but guests don't feel pressured to do all that if they want to have a show!

HTH
 
KellyTheChef said:
When I have a host who goes overboard (like with a table FULL of food in addition to our recipe) I always thank her at the beginning of her show, but then say to all of the guests:

"Don't think in order to have your own show that you have to do all that Suzy did here! That's one of the things I love about PC- I can run MY business MY way and my hosts can run THIER shows THEIR way. Some people love to entertain and make lots of recipes and this is their forum to do that...others just want an informal fun night for their friends and they put out a bowl of pretzels and a 2 liter of pop. I always tell my hosts to do whatever makes THEM comfortable!"

That way, your host knows you appreciate all she has done, but guests don't feel pressured to do all that if they want to have a show!

HTH
I like it! Thanks for sharing what you say in that situation.

My SIL did that to me a couple of weeks ago and even though I had told her ahead of time not to make a whole lot of stuff, she did and I heard some guests mentioning all that she had done. I quickly said it wasn't necessary, but you were much more eloquent!
 
I know what you mean - I have had similar hostesses and the same fears. I think what tends to happen is that her friends know her and how she is ... so at some point - or many time - during the show you can say somwthign like "Isn't is incredible how much food Jane has put out and these amazing goode bags and ....etc...boy she has just gone above & beyond - 99% of my hosts only pick up a bottle of soda and a bag of chips...and that is great..but what a special treat she has made this for me tonight. I assure you when I come to your home to do a show for you & your friends, all you need to do is gimme your guest list and pick up a ahndful of ingredients..."
 
KellyTheChef said:
When I have a host who goes overboard (like with a table FULL of food in addition to our recipe) I always thank her at the beginning of her show, but then say to all of the guests:

"Don't think in order to have your own show that you have to do all that Suzy did here! That's one of the things I love about PC- I can run MY business MY way and my hosts can run THIER shows THEIR way. Some people love to entertain and make lots of recipes and this is their forum to do that...others just want an informal fun night for their friends and they put out a bowl of pretzels and a 2 liter of pop. I always tell my hosts to do whatever makes THEM comfortable!"

That way, your host knows you appreciate all she has done, but guests don't feel pressured to do all that if they want to have a show!

HTH

Love your choice of words!
 
dannyzmom said:
I know what you mean - I have had similar hostesses and the same fears. I think what tends to happen is that her friends know her and how she is ... so at some point - or many time - during the show you can say somwthign like "Isn't is incredible how much food Jane has put out and these amazing goode bags and ....etc...boy she has just gone above & beyond - 99% of my hosts only pick up a bottle of soda and a bag of chips...and that is great..but what a special treat she has made this for me tonight. I assure you when I come to your home to do a show for you & your friends, all you need to do is gimme your guest list and pick up a ahndful of ingredients..."
That's a great way to say it too!
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best strategies for booking an enthusiastic host for a Pampered Chef party?

To book an enthusiastic host, start by highlighting the benefits of hosting, such as earning free products and exclusive discounts. Use personal connections and social media to reach out, and offer flexible party formats like virtual or in-home gatherings. Encourage them to invite friends who share similar interests in cooking or kitchen tools to create a more engaging atmosphere.

How can I manage the expectations of an enthusiastic host?

Set clear expectations from the beginning by discussing the goals of the party, the number of guests they should invite, and the types of products that will be showcased. Provide them with a timeline of tasks leading up to the event and reassure them that your role is to support them throughout the process. Regular check-ins can help keep them motivated and informed.

What should I do if an enthusiastic host has unrealistic expectations about sales?

If a host has unrealistic expectations, gently guide them by providing realistic sales figures based on previous parties. Share success stories and emphasize that while high sales are possible, they can vary based on factors like guest attendance and engagement. Encourage them to focus on the fun and social aspects of the gathering rather than solely on sales numbers.

How can I keep an enthusiastic host engaged leading up to the party?

Keep the host engaged by maintaining regular communication through texts, calls, or emails. Share tips on how to promote the party, suggest fun themes, and provide updates on RSVPs. You can also involve them in planning the menu or product demonstrations, making them feel more invested in the event's success.

What are some effective ways to thank an enthusiastic host after the party?

After the party, express your gratitude with a personalized thank-you note or message. Consider sending a small gift, such as a Pampered Chef product or a discount on their next order, to show appreciation for their efforts. Highlight the successes of the party, such as sales figures or positive feedback from guests, to reinforce their contribution to the event's success.

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