wadesgirl
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I'm done Christmas shopping... well at least for the people who have provided me a list. DH's family is dragging their feet this year and it's irritating me. I have been asking since Thanksgiving for some ideas from them. Then last weekend I told them I was going shopping on a certain day and would like to get it all done. I sent out an email with ideas for DH and I and MIL replied the next day with her list. Didn't hear from anyone else in DH's family (brother and SIL and their kids and BIL). It took me calling DH's brother the night before for him to email me a list that included stuff for the kids but only 1 item for brother and SIL. We usually spend $50 per person, neither of these two gifts were any where close to that amount. Out of his family, we are the "poor" ones. The rest of his family is well off and it seems like we are celebrating SIL's work promotions every other month which includes raises of more than I make in a year. So I did all my shopping last week and mentioned again on Sunday that we needed some ideas for the three of them. Still nothing! They seemed to just blow me off. We do our Christmas on Christmas Eve and I HATE going to the mall any time near Christmas. I just don't know what to do and think they are being completely rude! DH told me not to say anything else but he's not the one who does all the shopping. I'm busy this weekend and depending on what they want it usually requires a 20 minute drive in the evening after work. I guess I'm to the point that I really don't care if they get anything else from us if this is the way they want to behave about it.