Is God Closing a Door, or Is the Devil Fighting Hard?

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores the challenges faced by a participant regarding military relocation options and the uncertainty surrounding their choices. Participants share their personal experiences and offer support as the original poster navigates the situation.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal, Opinion-based, Supportive

Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares their experience of being offered limited relocation options, expressing frustration over the lack of promised support from command.
  • Another participant expresses sympathy and hopes for a positive resolution to the situation.
  • Several users mention their own experiences with military relocations, reflecting on the difficulties and uncertainties involved.
  • One participant identifies as a consultant and offers to help by reaching out to their spouse for assistance in finding information.
  • Another participant shares that their spouse was unable to find the necessary information but plans to ask someone else for help.
  • One participant reflects on their own military past and offers prayers for the original poster's situation.
  • Another participant expresses understanding of the emotional toll of waiting for decisions to be made.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ regarding the nature of the challenges faced, with some participants empathizing with the original poster's situation while others share their own related experiences. No clear consensus emerges on the best course of action.

Contextual Notes

The discussion centers around military relocation processes and the emotional impact of uncertainty in decision-making. Participants share personal anecdotes related to similar experiences.

Who May Find This Useful

Members of the military community, particularly those facing relocation decisions, may find the shared experiences and support within this thread relevant.

nikked
nikked
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Sometimes it's hard to tell.

One of the benefits of us choosing to go to Iraq for a year vs. retiring immediately was that we were supposed to get what's called a "follow-on". Basically, we provided them a list of bases we would like to go to, and they do their best to accommodate. If none of our list is available, they provide alternatives that we choose from.

BACKSTORY: When my husband did his first short tour (1 year remote) in 1990, he was suppost to get a follow-on, but was screwed out of it, so he was looking forward to this one.

FRONTSTORY: I'll try to make this short. Basically, we were told that none of the six bases were available, which is understandable and happens. But they are only offering three alternatives, all of which are East. Our only choice East was Charleston, and there were specific reasons why we wanted that base. All our other choices were West, and we have NO desire to go East, other than to Charleston. We both have sick parents, and don't want to be that far, plus the weather is not something we would enjoy.

They are offering only these three bases because they are having problems filling the positions, but this is not what we were promised. The powers that be in Tony's command structure have been promising help, but we are finding out now that they have been sitting on it instead of doing anything.

We were just given until Friday to choose one of the three, or they will choose for us. This doesn't leave a lot of time, especially with time zone issues to get this working. To top it all off, Tony doesn't have access to a "military" computer to access the list of available positions for his career field/rank, so we can't go to them with that information.

Anybody AF want to help? He is E-7, career field code 2R1. If you're able to pull up a list, please email me. This would be a HUGE help.

Ugh...sometimes it's so hard to know whether God is closing a door or the Devil is fighting.

Please be praying for wisdom and for the right thing to happen. We don't to push so hard that we get in the way of God's plan, but we also don't want to just leave things be that we feel are not right.

Thanks for "listening" and praying...

Love, Me:)
 
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Update...already...

I had my DH call his Shirt here at Kirtland, using up precious time on our own call. Already, his Major has gotten involved. Don't know if that will help anything, but it helps knowing that they're trying.

Keep on praying....
 
I'm so sorry to hear about this mess! I hope it gets worked out and you get what you want out of it. Wow, how tough for you.....:(
 
nikked said:
Update...already...

I had my DH call his Shirt here at Kirtland, using up precious time on our own call. Already, his Major has gotten involved. Don't know if that will help anything, but it helps knowing that they're trying.

Keep on praying....
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hey I just emailed my husband to see if he can pull up a list for you, he is at work right now ( he works at a selfhelp store, he may not be able check his email right now there store is open) but I am sure he is willing to help even if your shirt or major has already gotten involved atleast he might be able to get you a list or something.
 
The waiting is hard, I know. I hope you get what you need.
 
he just got home from work and he said he couldn't find where to search for a list. he could only find where to change where he wants to go so he will ask someone tomarrow unless you don't need it anymore, sorry couldn't help.
Tonia
 
I can't even imagine having to worry about those things; I hope it all works out for you guys.
 
UGH! I remember those military days. (I know he doesn't look like it, but The Furry Guy was a marine when I married him.)Your situation will be in my prayers.
 
Oh I pray that the right thing works out for you guys!

I know that feeling...not being sure of where God is trying to move you, or if it's the devil planting seeds of doubt in your head!! I pray that he shows you both IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS what you should choose!
 
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Thanks y'all. And, Tonia, if your DH is able to help at all, that would be great. I'm just trying to work every end from here that I can.

Thanks...
 
ok, my husband figured out how to look it up and it doesn't look very good for his job openings there is only one. So maybe they are just trying to help you by getting you anywhere stateside that's not a Remote location, I hope everything works out for you guys.
Tonia
I sent you an email with what my DH sent me
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What does it mean when we say God is closing a door?

When we say God is closing a door, it typically refers to the idea that certain opportunities or paths in life are being removed or made unavailable by divine intervention. This can be seen as a way for God to guide individuals toward a better path or to protect them from potential harm or misalignment with their purpose.

How can I differentiate between a closed door from God and challenges from the devil?

To differentiate between a closed door from God and challenges from the devil, it's important to seek clarity through prayer, reflection, and guidance from trusted spiritual mentors. A closed door from God often comes with a sense of peace and confirmation, while challenges from the devil may create confusion, fear, or doubt. Pay attention to the fruits of your experiences and how they align with your values and beliefs.

What signs might indicate that God is closing a door?

Signs that God may be closing a door can include persistent obstacles, a lack of peace or fulfillment in pursuing a particular path, or a strong sense of redirection toward something new. Additionally, circumstances may change unexpectedly, leading you away from a certain opportunity, which can be interpreted as divine guidance.

How should I respond when I feel a door is closing?

When you feel a door is closing, it's important to take time for reflection and prayer. Consider seeking counsel from trusted friends or spiritual leaders. Embrace the opportunity to explore new paths and remain open to the possibilities that may arise. Trust that this closing door may lead you to a better opportunity aligned with your purpose.

Can challenges in life be both a test from God and a tactic from the devil?

Yes, challenges in life can serve dual purposes. They may be tests from God designed to strengthen your faith, character, and resilience, while simultaneously being tactics from the devil to create doubt, fear, or discouragement. It's essential to discern the nature of these challenges and respond with faith and perseverance, seeking guidance through prayer and reflection.

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