Dealing with Suicide: Coping with the Tragic Loss of a Loved One

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Discussion Overview

This thread addresses the emotional impact of dealing with the suicide of a loved one, as shared by participants reflecting on their personal experiences and feelings surrounding such tragedies.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares the shock and anger felt after learning about their cousin's suicide, expressing a sense of numbness and confusion.
  • Several participants express condolences and offer prayers, acknowledging the difficulty of the situation.
  • Another participant notes that feelings of anger and sadness are natural responses to such a loss, and emphasizes the range of emotions experienced by those affected.
  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, recounts their own experience with suicide in the family, highlighting the long-lasting impact and the importance of cherishing memories.
  • Another participant shares their experience of losing a family member to suicide, discussing the unanswered questions and emotional turmoil that followed.
  • Several participants mention the importance of supporting one another and expressing feelings during the grieving process.
  • One participant reflects on the complexity of emotions experienced after a family member's suicide, including relief and anger.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ among participants regarding the emotional responses to suicide, with some emphasizing the naturalness of anger and sadness, while others focus on the need for support and communication during the grieving process. No clear consensus emerges on specific coping strategies.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences related to suicide, indicating a range of emotional responses and the challenges of navigating grief within families.

Who May Find This Useful

Members of the consultant community who have experienced similar losses or are seeking to understand the emotional complexities surrounding suicide may find this discussion relevant.

rennea
rennea
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Just received news that my cousin hung himself late last night. What a terrible shock. His poor mother my cousin has been through so much in her life, always has received the short end of the stick. Her only other child died as an infant of SIDS. I just feel sick to my stomach. Our family has never had to deal with suicide before. I'm numb and angry all at the same time.
 
So sorry to hear this! I hope as soon as the shock wears off that your cousin's family can get the help that they need to get through this!
 
Oh wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. That's just terrible. How sad for your cousin, as well as your whole family. Being angry about it is a normal feeling.......there are usually so many questions and unknowns. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
 
Oh, Rennea, that is awful. Praying for you and your cousin.
 
Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are sent your way.
 
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Thanks everyone. This is so new to me and the rest of my family, it's going to be a long road ahead for sure.
 
Prayers here for your family. So sorry.
 
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Your cousin must be devastated and heartbroken. Your feelings of anger and sadness are so very natural. I have never had a family member commit suicide, but it seems that anyone around me that has experienced a suicide feels such a wide range of feelings. All I can say is that your loved one must have been in a tremendous amount of pain to have taken their life. {{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} and prayers to you all.
 
I will be praying for you rennea! God bless you and keep you!:angel:
 
I am so sorry :(
 
I am so sorry for you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.
 
What a horrible thing for you and your family to be dealing with. My thoughts and prayers are with you all...
 
praying for all of you
 
Oh, Rennea - praying for you and your family.....remember that we are here for you to vent and lean on during this time too.
 
(((hugs))) to you. Unfortunately, I do know what you're going through. I've had 2 cousins commit suicide. 1 I wasn't close to, the other I was really close to. Your feelings are definately natural. I'm sure you have so many questions, and so many mixed feelings. It takes a long time, but it will eventually get better. I still think of my cousin so often & wonder what he'd be doing now. Our family just treasures the memories of him.
Just stay close to your family; you all need each other now.
 
Praying that God gives you strength and comfort during this tragic time. {{hugs}}
 
I am so sorry for your loss. I also know how this feels having lost my cousin Sue to suicide almost 16 years ago. It's devastating but as time goes by you will think of the good times versus the ending. I often wonder what she would have made of herself. Praying for you and your family to get through this extremely difficult and sad time.
 
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Rennea, I am so sorry for your and your family's loss. I have lost close friends and family to suicide, and the feelings you are having are completely normal. Pleaese know that you're in my prayers.
 
I'm so sorry to hear this has happened in your family.
We've delt with a murder/suicide in our family. It's the hardest thing to understand and deal with.

I'm thinking of you guys *hugs*
 
Hugs and prayers Rennea.
 
I'm so sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers.
 
Rennea - So sorry to hear of your loss...stand by your family and work through it one step at a time.Often suicide is classified as a selfish act. Many commit it thinking things will be "better off" for everyone and they can't see the whole picture and how the suicide itself affect law enforcement, First Responders, the ME, the family members, the neighbors...the list goes on and on...because in all our minds it WASN'T SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN...it wasn't natural.I haven't had a suicide close to my family in decades, but have seen them as a responder. I can't even imagine the questions going through your mind right now, but will pray that would have the strength to get through this and support your cousin who has lost her child.Lots of hugs to you!
 
Sending prayers to you & your family.
 
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Thank you everyone again. I can't believe how kind and caring our on-line family is. Thank you so much...
 
I am so sorry!!! You and your family will be in my prayers.

My grandfather committed suicide several years back. We never knew why. They do not realize the impact and the questions that leaves the family having. Of course, during their state of mind I do not think that is something they can actually consider. My dad searched everywhere for weeks for a note b/c he was the type person that if there was a reason he would tell you whether it hurt you or not. I adn my mother will always believe (b/c of some things that were going on) that there was a note and my grandmother destroyed it before anyone could read it.
 
((((( HUGS ))))) I'll be praying for you and your family, Rennea. My SIL's husband committed suicide 8 years ago, only 4 months after they were married. We knew the reason, but it still didn't make it easier. Just be there for eachother and try not to keep your feelings inside. Talk to eachother. That's really important.
 
I was just reading a magazine last night at MIL's house. It had a really great article about teen suicide. I was so engrossed with it, I didn't realize that FIL was talking to me! I wanted to post it for all to read because I do think it touches on so good topics.
http://www.lhj.com/lhj/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/lhj/story/data/1202501578071.xml
 
You and your family are in my prayers.
 
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