What can I do to find motivation for my upcoming trip?

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Discussion Overview

The thread centers around a participant's feelings of motivation regarding an upcoming trip, particularly in light of personal circumstances involving a spouse's military deployment. Various participants share their thoughts on alternative ways to find motivation and discuss options related to trip incentives.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses excitement about upcoming trips but feels demotivated due to her husband's impending deployment to Iraq.
  • Another participant suggests working towards the same incentive level and considering the gift certificate option for future vacations or home improvements.
  • One participant inquires about the timing of military orders, seeking clarification on how far in advance such information is typically known.
  • A participant explains the nature of military orders for National Guard members, noting that they often have advance knowledge of deployments.
  • Another participant mentions the possibility of using the incentive money to fund a similar cruise or vacation, emphasizing the importance of planning a trip before the spouse's deployment.
  • One participant shares their plan to set aside a portion of their paycheck for a vacation fund as a source of motivation.
  • Another participant expresses gratitude for the suggestion of using a vacation fund to motivate increased earnings.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on how to find motivation for the trip, with some participants suggesting alternative financial strategies while others focus on personal feelings regarding the trip's emotional impact.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences related to military deployments and the emotional complexities of planning vacations during such times.

Who May Find This Useful

Participants in the consultant community who are navigating similar personal circumstances or seeking motivation for upcoming trips may find the shared experiences relevant.

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Okay. I was totally excited about the trips to London and the Cruise. Two years ago when my husband came home from 18mo. in Iraq we went on that same cruise (Majesty of the Seas) only we had a stop in KeY West. I was kind of a lousy vacation because 1 week before we left I found out I was preggo....No island drinks, no parasailing (which we already paid for) no jet ski....ect. So, after hearing the incentives I was so excited. If I didn't make the london one hubby and I could re-do our cruise.....Then I realized the dates April 14-18 or something in April.....
MY HUBBY leaves for Iraq in March!!!!!!! one month before! Even if I earn it, I won't want to go and take someone else....That would just make me sad the whole time...
So.....I need to find the motivation the trip started to give me.....any ideas ladies and guys?
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Well, you can work for the same incentive level and plan to take the gift certificate option. The paperwork says that they're going to be pre-paid debit cards this year. So you could plan to use it for another vacation or something special for your house that you can share with hubby.Just a thought.
 
sillylittlechef said:
............MY HUBBY leaves for Iraq in March!!!!!!! one month before! Even if I earn it, I won't want to go and take someone else....That would just make me sad the whole time...
So.....I need to find the motivation the trip started to give me.....any ideas ladies and guys?
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The trip is in April 2008 - your husband has his orders this far in advance? Sorry for the ignorant sounding question, I am not military but I didn't know they found out info like this so far in advance.
 
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Yes, He has "unofficial" orders set to leave in March of 2008. He will be officially alerted March of 2007. They could leave earlier, but not later than March of 2008. He is not active duty, he is national guard and they have known about this second tour since they returned two years ago. Part of this is because he is on a flight crew. There are few national guard battalions that fly blackhawks and they generally know far in advance when they will be needed. ground forces don't typically work this way....I don't think.
 
I'm sure you could buy this same cruise of something similar for the $900 they will give you for the trip so you could take the gift card option. I think I wouldn't want to wait that long since I'd want to vacation BEFORE (and after) he went. So, I would use a vacation as motivation and put aside a portion of your monthyly paycheck for a vacation fund. Just $100 a month would buy you a decent vacation...Good luck.
 
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Great idea Bee, thanks. I think I will use that. I have been using my paycheck for the kids lessons...ballet, soccer, tap, on and on. Now I will be motivated to do more so that I will make an extra $100 a month to put aside for a vacation. Great idea! I'm going with it. Thanks!
 
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Yes, He has "unofficial" orders set to leave in March of 2008. He will be officially alerted March of 2007. .................
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Wow, thanks for the clarification. I had no idea that you would know something this far in advance. Well, I'd still shoot for Level 2 (or even 3 or 4). You can always take the gift card option and get something really nice for the two of you!
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What are some ways to set clear goals for my trip?

Setting clear goals can help you stay focused and motivated. Start by defining what you want to achieve during your trip, whether it's meeting new clients, increasing sales, or learning new skills. Break these goals down into smaller, actionable steps that you can work on leading up to the trip.

How can I create a vision board for my trip?

A vision board is a great way to visualize your goals and keep your motivation high. Gather images, quotes, and other materials that represent what you want to achieve during your trip. Arrange them on a board or digital platform where you can see them daily, reminding yourself of your aspirations and the excitement of the upcoming journey.

What role does positive self-talk play in finding motivation?

Positive self-talk can significantly impact your motivation levels. Replace negative thoughts with affirmations that reinforce your capabilities and excitement about the trip. Remind yourself of past successes and how you overcame challenges, which can boost your confidence and enthusiasm for the upcoming experience.

How can I connect with others for motivation?

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What are some self-care practices to maintain my motivation?

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