Trying to Reach My Husband's Cousin's Wife: No Luck!

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Discussion Overview

This thread discusses a participant's experience trying to reach out to a potential host for a Pampered Chef show. The participant expresses frustration over the lack of communication and shares updates on the situation as it unfolds.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal

Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares their experience of trying to contact their husband's cousin's wife about hosting a show, expressing frustration over her lack of response.
  • Another participant mentions that it is important to find out if the show is still happening and reassures the original poster that they shouldn't feel bad about following up.
  • Several users note that the cousin's wife may simply be busy and not intentionally avoiding communication.
  • One participant expresses their dislike for being dodged in business matters and emphasizes the importance of clear communication.
  • Another participant reveals that the cousin's wife had a family emergency, which explains her unavailability, and notes that she is still interested in hosting.
  • One participant reflects on their previous harsh comments after learning about the circumstances, acknowledging that their feelings were normal given the situation.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ regarding the reasons for the lack of communication, with some participants suggesting that the cousin's wife may be busy, while others express frustration over the perceived rudeness of not responding. However, there is a shared understanding of the importance of communication in such situations.

Contextual Notes

The discussion centers around personal experiences with communication challenges in a business context, particularly in relation to hosting Pampered Chef shows.

Who May Find This Useful

Participants in the consultant community who face similar challenges in communication with potential hosts may find this discussion relatable.

Chef_2_Four
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One of my husbands cousins wifes. Mouthful!! Wanted to do a show when I did the 24 in 24. Anyway, I have talked to her once since then, and we agreed I would call her the following Sunday, well I forgot, because the kids were all out of sorts, anyway this was a week ago this past sunday! I have been calling everyday and she is not returning my calls! So I called Wesleys aunt and asked if she had a different number for her daughter in law b/c I couldn't get ahold of her. I told her that if she wanted to cancel then she needed to let me know instead of just not calling me. I love her to death and will not be mad at all if she cancels, it is just irratating that she won't call me back!!! Hopefully I will here something today or tomorrow. Her mil said that she will call her and tell her to call me. like I said I hated to do it, but darn!!
 
Well, you needed to find out if you were working or not. Don't feel bad!!
 
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well here it is 10pm and still haven't heard anything. hopefully she will call soon!
 
April, is the show tomorrow night? That's just plain rude. I hate it when people don't take our job seriously.:(
 
Maybe she isn't dodging you, just busy... It would make sense if it was someone who would never see you again, but is she planning on dodging you forever over this?
 
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No the show is in 2 weeks and I have been calling her to do my host coaching calls for almost 2 weeks. she knew i was going to call which is bothering me the most and makes me wonder if she changed her mind but doesn't want to say anything. she talks about how she is home all the time, so hopefully i will find out something and can try to book another show to replace hers or find out if she still wants to do it.
 
I hate it when ANYONE dodges me...business or not. I know I can be overwhelming at times (my personality) but sheesh...grow up and deal with it like an adult.
Ok, sorry..had to throw in my thoughts...as harsh as they were. But seriously? Is it really that hard to say "sorry I can't talk right now...or I just don't have the time this month....or I couldn't find guests so I thought I'd cancel this time"...etc???
 
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Ok so I feel like a HUGE butt!! I talked to my host, anyway her aunt died and no one told me so I had no idea she has't been home!! She is still interested, which is good but I felt soooo bad!!
 
Ok, my post was so harsh that due to the circumstances I deleted it.
But, I still say you shouldn't feel like a butt or anything..you're feelings on it were totally normal and the same anyone of us would have felt!
Now, you can move on knowing she's still interested and hope she stays in contact a little more.
 
Chef_2_Four said:
Ok so I feel like a HUGE butt!! I talked to my host, anyway her aunt died and no one told me so I had no idea she has't been home!! She is still interested, which is good but I felt soooo bad!!
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Well luckily she does not read this forum so she won't know how upset you were. :p
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if I'm having trouble reaching my husband's cousin's wife?

If you're having trouble getting in touch with your husband's cousin's wife, consider reaching out through mutual family members or friends who might have her contact information. You can also try connecting with her on social media platforms where she might be active.

Is it appropriate to ask my husband for help in contacting his cousin's wife?

Yes, it's perfectly appropriate to ask your husband for help. He may have a better way to reach her or could facilitate a connection. Just explain why you want to get in touch and he may be more than willing to assist.

What if I don't have any mutual friends or family to help me reach her?

If you don't have mutual friends or family, consider attending family gatherings or events where she might be present. This can provide an opportunity to meet her in person and establish a connection.

How can I make my outreach more effective?

When you do reach out, be clear about your intentions and why you want to connect. A friendly and open approach can help break the ice. If you have a specific reason for contacting her, such as discussing Pampered Chef products, mention that to pique her interest.

What if I still can't reach her after trying multiple methods?

If you've tried various methods and still can't reach her, it may be best to give it some time. Sometimes people are busy or may not be as accessible. You can try again later or focus on other potential connections within your network.

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