Sharing the Night: Navigating A Coworker's Request

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores the dynamics of hosting a joint show with a coworker who is also inviting a friend selling jewelry. Participants share their personal experiences and feelings about joint shows, discussing potential benefits and challenges.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, expresses mixed feelings about sharing a show with a jewelry seller and seeks advice on how to approach the situation without appearing snobby.
  • Another participant shares their positive experience with joint shows, noting that despite initial concerns, they can lead to significant sales if well-attended.
  • Several users mention that joint shows can vary in success, often depending on the number of attendees and the interests of the guests.
  • One participant recounts a past experience where a joint show resulted in lower sales for kitchen products due to guests' preferences for jewelry, highlighting the unpredictability of such events.
  • Another participant suggests practical reasons for wanting to go first, emphasizing the importance of food preparation timing during the show.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the effectiveness of joint shows, with some participants sharing positive outcomes while others caution about potential challenges. No clear consensus emerges regarding the best approach to the situation.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal anecdotes and experiences related to joint shows, reflecting a range of outcomes based on various factors such as guest attendance and product appeal.

Who May Find This Useful

This discussion may be of interest to Pampered Chef consultants considering joint shows or those seeking insights into managing collaborative events with other vendors.

AJPratt
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I have a coworker wants to do a show. Yea! Well, she approaches me and asks if I would mind sharing the night with someone else-a friend of hers who just started to sell jewelry. I have mixed feelings about this. What can I say without coming off the wrong way, or is there a way to make it work?
 
I've done a few joint shows. Obviously, it's better if it's just you, but if it's a show you wouldn't otherwise have, then try to make it work. Six months ago, I would have said that joint shows tend to be smaller because the guests don't spend all their money in one place (with you) so they may buy a little from each consultant. BUT, then I had a joint show when the host did a purse party. It was a $1500 show for me! She did have probably 20-25 people there and had a good number of outside orders. Then, I had another one a couple months later with a jewelry person and it was a $900 show! So, don't fear the worst because it could still end up being very good. I would try to arrange it where you would go first. I'm sure it's likely because I'm biased, but I think you would do better than the jewlery person because kitchen stuff is just more practical in my opinion! And I like jewelry. You have a good reason to go first so the food can be cooking and be done sooner. This may be a good time to offer a special booking incentive too.

I'd say go for it and hope for the best!:D
 
I agree with Becky- I've done joint shows too and some have turned out better than others but my feeling is it's a show and hopefully you get bookings out of it. The only thing I would suggest is that you stress that she needs to have at least 15- 20 people since it is a double show she should try to have double the people. Maybe even send out invites for her so you are guaranteed to send out 40+ invites. Hope it works out for you- good luck!
 
That is how I....became a consultant....I went to a "vendor blender" and there was the jewelry set up and the Pampered Chef consultant and her stuff....I was there on a mission, measure cups.....I looked at the jewelry, but didn't buy, but she had about 20 people there and her show was not what it should have been because more bought jewelry....she was bummed, she does jewelry (but it wasn't HER jewelry that night, another friends Sophia Lia, my friend does Silpada) and is constantly asking if we can do a "joint" party, but knowing what happened at hers, well, I love her dearly, she is my best friend, but I'm just starting out and I really want to get my sales up there.....BUT, on the other hand, it depends on the group of people you have too......so it is a 50/50 shot....AND if people are there for the jewelry, they MAY book a party with you.....:o I'm not much help.....
 
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The gril told me that her friend is just getting started and is not as agressive as me. I don't think she realizes I just started to do this last July, so I'm new,too. I mentioned this to a close friend and he asked me if PC people can successfully sell more than one thing. I told him yes they can. He said, "This jewelry girl could be a new recruit for you". She's not afraid to go out and ask for business... Then it got me to thinking... I agree with most of you... It is a party and I could get bookings.

How do I ask to go firt without seeming snobby?
 
explain that you need to go first because your food has to cook:)
 
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Right... duh.
 
I would approach it from a practical point of view. If you do your demo first, the food can get cooking faster and be done faster, so everyone can eat more quickly. Maybe they could eat while they listen to the jewelry presentation.
 
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Love you, Becky!!
 
I would just use that excuse that you need to go first so they can EAT! LOL...everyone loves to eat, especially if they don't have to do the cooking.
 
And most of all.....make SURE its gonna be something with either GARLIC or Chocolate....get those body juices flowing....
 
We all must have been posting at the same time. LOL. I have to get used to this quick reply on here I still find myself hitting post reply most of the time.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I consider before agreeing to share my Pampered Chef products at a coworker's event?

Before agreeing to share your Pampered Chef products, consider your availability, the nature of the event, and your relationship with the coworker. Ensure that the event aligns with your personal and professional boundaries, and think about how it may affect your work environment.

How can I politely decline a coworker's request to share my Pampered Chef products?

You can politely decline by expressing appreciation for the invitation and explaining that you are unable to participate at this time. You might say something like, "Thank you for thinking of me, but I have prior commitments that prevent me from sharing my products." This keeps the response friendly and respectful.

What are some ways to support my coworker without sharing my products?

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How can I manage my time effectively if I decide to participate in the event?

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What if my coworker pressures me to share my products despite my initial hesitation?

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