Ok. There's This Girl From My Church That I'm Pretty Good Friends

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Discussion Overview

This thread discusses a participant's feelings of disappointment after a friend, who had previously expressed interest in hosting a Pampered Chef party, instead invited her to a party for a competing brand. Participants share their personal experiences and reactions to similar situations, offering various perspectives on how to cope with such feelings and potential responses.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, expresses frustration over a friend's invitation to a competing party after previously discussing hosting a Pampered Chef event.
  • Another participant shares a similar experience of feeling hurt when a friend chose a different brand but emphasizes the importance of moving on and remaining open to future opportunities.
  • Several users mention the idea of attending the competing party with a positive attitude and using it as a chance to network with new contacts.
  • One participant suggests being subtle about promoting Pampered Chef during the other consultant's party, advocating for a more cautious approach to avoid conflict.
  • Another participant humorously imagines a bold approach of wearing Pampered Chef attire to the party as a form of light-hearted revenge.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on how to handle the situation, with some participants advocating for a positive and proactive approach while others express caution about being too overt in promoting Pampered Chef at a competing event.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences within the consultant community regarding competition and relationships among peers, highlighting the emotional aspects of such interactions.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants navigating similar feelings of disappointment or competition within their social circles may find the shared experiences and varied perspectives helpful.

tabnat80
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Ok. There's this girl from my church that I'm pretty good friends with. We are in the same Bunco group and have kids the same age. Anyways, I always bring my pampered chef recipes with me to bunco to show off my pieces. It's gotten me 2 bookings from 11 folks so far. She's always so interested in it and I have been talking to her a lot for 3 months about doing a party. She just moved a month ago and I told her that it would be a great time to do a party to show off her new house. She sounded so excited. I called her and she said she couldn't do it then because she had boxes everywhere. She said maybe in a few months. (this was 1 month ago). So, I get home today, go to my mail box, and there is an invite to her house for a princess house party!!! I am so upset. It's like a slap in my face. Anyways, I just had to get that off my chest. Thanks for listening:o
 
tabnat80 said:
Ok. There's this girl from my church that I'm pretty good friends with. We are in the same Bunco group and have kids the same age. Anyways, I always bring my pampered chef recipes with me to bunco to show off my pieces. It's gotten me 2 bookings from 11 folks so far. She's always so interested in it and I have been talking to her a lot for 3 months about doing a party. She just moved a month ago and I told her that it would be a great time to do a party to show off her new house. She sounded so excited. I called her and she said she couldn't do it then because she had boxes everywhere. She said maybe in a few months. (this was 1 month ago). So, I get home today, go to my mail box, and there is an invite to her house for a princess house party!!! I am so upset. It's like a slap in my face. Anyways, I just had to get that off my chest. Thanks for listening:o

I had almost the exact same thing happen to me when I first started. I was very hurt. I went to my friends party, had the best time I could, never brought it up, and bought the cheapest thing I could.... It happens, move on but do not count her out. One of the people that did it to me eventually had a PC show and it was over $600.
 
So sorry that happened to you. Some people just can't be honest.
 
Take it another way - go to the party - smile and wear PC wear or have a caddy sticking out of your bag - meet all her new neighbors and mention how you do shows for PC etc. You never know - one of her guests might book a show and then a whole new group of contacts -

Try to brush off the hurt and look at it in another positive note - good luck!!
 
PamperedDor said:
Take it another way - go to the party - smile and wear PC wear or have a caddy sticking out of your bag - meet all her new neighbors and mention how you do shows for PC etc. You never know - one of her guests might book a show and then a whole new group of contacts -

Try to brush off the hurt and look at it in another positive note - good luck!!
I'm not sure that this is the right thing to do. You don't want to be to overt about being a PC rep at another consultants party. Maybe make it known you are a PC rep by wearing PC clothing or something, but don't talk to anyone about it until after the other consultants demo.

And then, when the other show is done, march right up to your "friend" and say "OK, I have my calendar here, when should we schedule your PC party you've been wanting to have??" See what she says to that!
 
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LOL, oh my sides are hurting. I can just see me stormin in wearing a pc shirt and my catlog tote in towe. LOL talk about revenge. Hahaha. Too funny!


PamperedDor said:
Take it another way - go to the party - smile and wear PC wear or have a caddy sticking out of your bag - meet all her new neighbors and mention how you do shows for PC etc. You never know - one of her guests might book a show and then a whole new group of contacts -

Try to brush off the hurt and look at it in another positive note - good luck!!
 

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