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Need Advice on Finding Info. About Someone

its a delicate situation. Hes been dead for a while now and theres really nothing more anyone can do.Its been going on for years though, its nothing new that people havent been doing at colleges all over the country. I'm certainly not downplaying what happened but these kids didnt help him. Soooo...its a delicate situation. Hes been dead for a while now and theres really nothing more anyone can do.
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Are any of you from the Bordentown,NJ area? I'm looking for ideas on how to find out more info on my biological father. He lives in Bordentown, has a stable in Chesterfield and is in the Harness Racing industry. Anyone have any suggestions on where to go from here...
 
I used to live right outside of Bordentown and have a consultant on my team who still lives in the area. Want me to put you in touch with her?
 
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dannyzmom said:
I used to live right outside of Bordentown and have a consultant on my team who still lives in the area. Want me to put you in touch with her?
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Is Bordentown a big city or small town? Is it one of those places where everbody knows everybody? (like most of Maine LOL)
 
I just want to bump this thread back into play because I know how important this is to her and I know there are people on here that may be able to either help her or point her in the right direction... please give some suggestions! TIA
 
kaceyleigh2 said:
Are any of you from the Bordentown,NJ area? I'm looking for ideas on how to find out more info on my biological father. He lives in Bordentown, has a stable in Chesterfield and is in the Harness Racing industry. Anyone have any suggestions on where to go from here...
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I live in Hamilton right outside of Bordentown!
 
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Is Bordentown a big city or small town? Is it one of those places where everbody knows everybody? (like most of Maine LOL)
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Nah - it's a pretty big place. But, Bordentown is not far from where I went to college and I am still connected to my sorority sisters up there...maybe if I mention his name or the name of the stable someone would know something?
 
dannyzmom said:
Nah - it's a pretty big place. But, Bordentown is not far from where I went to college and I am still connected to my sorority sisters up there...maybe if I mention his name or the name of the stable someone would know something?
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Its not very big but its definitely not that small. What are you looking to find out?
 
Denarella said:
I live in Hamilton right outside of Bordentown!
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I interned at Hamilton West HS a zillion or so years ago...
 
dannyzmom said:
I interned at Hamilton West HS a zillion or so years ago...
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Wow...that's my high school...graduated from there in '89
 
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Denarella said:
Wow...that's my high school...graduated from there in '89
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I interned there in the guidance department in 1995. I went to Rider College (now Rider University) for 6 years.
 
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dannyzmom said:
I interned there in the guidance department in 1995. I went to Rider College (now Rider University) for 6 years.
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Im ten minutes from Rider. Great college....
 
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Denarella said:
Im ten minutes from Rider. Great college....
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Wow. I have only been back once since I finished grad school in 1995. And when I went back it was in the summer between summer sessions so the campus was a ghost-town.
Man, the memories I have there........
 
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dannyzmom said:
Wow. I have only been back once since I finished grad school in 1995. And when I went back it was in the summer between summer sessions so the campus was a ghost-town.
Man, the memories I have there........
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I work for the prosecutor's office in that county. There was a boy who died on campus from hazing this past spring semester. Very very sad...he was from California.
 
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Denarella said:
I work for the prosecutor's office in that county. There was a boy who died on campus from hazing this past spring semester. Very very sad...he was from California.
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I know - I know all abou tit. It's horrible. He was in Phi Tau.
Our sorority alumni association is all up in arms because the entire Greek system on campus is in jeopardy. My sisters are making arrangements to have at least one alumni representative in attendance at every event fro mnow on to keep tabs on the active sisters and make sure there's no funny stuff going on. Things have really gotten out of hand since I graduated.
 
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I am not sure, kacey but I think he remarried??? Not sure just trying some background checking... :)
 
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dannyzmom said:
I know - I know all abou tit. It's horrible. He was in Phi Tau.
Our sorority alumni association is all up in arms because the entire Greek system on campus is in jeopardy. My sisters are making arrangements to have at least one alumni representative in attendance at every event fro mnow on to keep tabs on the active sisters and make sure there's no funny stuff going on. Things have really gotten out of hand since I graduated.
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Its been going on for years though, its nothing new that people havent been doing at colleges all over the country. I'm certainly not downplaying what happened but these kids didnt help him. Soooo sad...
 
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Does anyone know how we can maybe get information on him through public records and where to look?
 
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Carissidy said:
Does anyone know how we can maybe get information on him through public records and where to look?
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But what are we trying to find out exactly?
 
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Kacey, my ex-DH is a private investigator -- if you want, I can email you his contact info and he could do some searching for you.
 
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Denarella said:
But what are we trying to find out exactly?
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I was just going to ask that.
Are we looking for his location? criminal record? what?
 
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anything.... I think, she'd have to answer that questionand if she is viewing this thread than she could answer better than me
 
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Carissidy said:
anything.... I think, she'd have to answer that questionand if she is viewing this thread than she could answer better than me
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Im not sure what I missed but do we have any other info like his name?
 
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I don't know what it is called in NJ but in PA it is called the Prothonotary, it is an office in the court house that has a lot of different kind of files. Many of the records are public records. Maybe if someone that lives near there wouldn't mind going and checking.
 
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chefheidi2003 said:
I don't know what it is called in NJ but in PA it is called the Prothonotary, it is an office in the court house that has a lot of different kind of files. Many of the records are public records. Maybe if someone that lives near there wouldn't mind going and checking.
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I work in the courthouse and the County Clerk's Office is two floors below me. But I dont understand what exactly is being searched...
 
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Carissidy said:
I am not sure, kacey but I think he remarried??? Not sure just trying some background checking... :)
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He is remarried. His name is Frank MacEachern. His wife's name is Linda (she is mean and scarey!)
 
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kaceyleigh2 said:
He is remarried. His name is Frank MacEachern. His wife's name is Linda (she is mean and scarey!)
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What information about him are you looking for?
 
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This is going to sound dumb but I guess I'm not looking for specifics about him rather than what isthe best way to get to him.
I've tried in the past to contact him, and his wife has made it rather difficult. She put throws my letters away, put a block on the phone so callers HAVE to identify themselves.
I know that he is in the harness racing business and has a training stable called Frank MacEachern Stables and I think it's in Chesterfield...
 
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Maceachern Frank Stables 160 Crsswcks Chstrfld Road, Hamilton, NJ 08620 (609) 324-8488.
 
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Denarella said:
Maceachern Frank Stables 160 Crsswcks Chstrfld Road, Hamilton, NJ 08620 (609) 324-8488.
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Good detective work! Is this the same town you live in?
 
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kaceyleigh2 said:
Good detective work! Is this the same town you live in?
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Yes it is. I just googled his name
 
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wow Dena... what else ya got? hehe Getting support like this must make things so much easier... we can do it! Keep your chin up Kacey... Dena is doing great and maybe someone else tomorrow etc will also help out :)
 
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Carissidy said:
wow Dena... what else ya got? hehe Getting support like this must make things so much easier... we can do it! Keep your chin up Kacey... Dena is doing great and maybe someone else tomorrow etc will also help out :)
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His stable is about 10 minutes from my house. He's out in the country (I know. Im Capt Obvious. he has horses. OF COURSE he's out in the country). Im not familiar with it but I know the road its on.
 
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Dena I have a dumb question. I have googled him before and gotten different towns. For example, I get Bordentown, Columbus, sometimes Trenton for his address. Why is this, are they all the same?
 
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kaceyleigh2 said:
Dena I have a dumb question. I have googled him before and gotten different towns. For example, I get Bordentown, Columbus, sometimes Trenton for his address. Why is this, are they all the same?
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Chesterfield is probably the most accurate. Its on the border of two counties and many small towns....its like crosshairs...very fine line and NO question is DUMB!:balloon:
 
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Are there any harness racing tracks nearby? I know there is Freehold and The Meadowlands? Do you know if there are any others?
Do you know Fenton Lane (that's where he lives)?
 
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Dena already you've been a huge help... I support Kacey 110% I know she is strong enough to do this and by people helping her with more support I know in my heart that eventually she will be able to close the chapter of her life! Thanks Detective Dena!
 
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kaceyleigh2 said:
Are there any harness racing tracks nearby? I know there is Freehold and The Meadowlands? Do you know if there are any others?
Do you know Fenton Lane (that's where he lives)?
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No, Im not familiar with Fenton Lane. What town (dare I ask? LOL). Im not sure about the harness racing...I'll check
 
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Carissidy said:
Dena already you've been a huge help... I support Kacey 110% I know she is strong enough to do this and by people helping her with more support I know in my heart that eventually she will be able to close the chapter of her life! Thanks Detective Dena!
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Are you KIDDING?! For all of the help I've got from everyone on here? Its the least I can do...
 
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Denarella said:
No, Im not familiar with Fenton Lane. What town (dare I ask? LOL). Im not sure about the harness racing...I'll check
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Bordentown/Trenton/Columbus? All of the above LOL
 
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kaceyleigh2 said:
Are there any harness racing tracks nearby? I know there is Freehold and The Meadowlands? Do you know if there are any others?
Do you know Fenton Lane (that's where he lives)?
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It looks like thats the only two around. Meadowlands is up in North Jersey. Freehold is much closer. But it looks like they are the only two around (that are reputable).
 
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Dena, you rock!
 
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http://www.ryvenco.com/new-home/chesterfield-greene-the-villages.html
 
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Carissidy said:
Dena, you rock!
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Yes, you do...2 thumbs up!:thumbup: :thumbup:
 
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kaceyleigh2 said:
Yes, you do...2 thums up!:thumbup: :thumbup:
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Im happy to help!:balloon:
 
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Im off to bed ladies...let me know what else you need...keep me posted!:balloon: ;) ;)
 
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Denarella said:
Im off to bed ladies...let me know what else you need...keep me posted!:balloon: ;) ;)
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Ok, thanks again!! Good Night!
 
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Thanks Dena goodnight, hopefully we will talk again tomorrow :)
 
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Hopefully we can get some more detective work done today....maybe? Iknow that you all gave good suggestions for the Paige case... But how would go about finding your birth father without having to hire someone. I know people do this stuff all the time. Does anyone live in New Jersey or have some possible suggestions as to how to go about this?
 
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Carissidy said:
Hopefully we can get some more detective work done today....maybe? Iknow that you all gave good suggestions for the Paige case... But how would go about finding your birth father without having to hire someone. I know people do this stuff all the time. Does anyone live in New Jersey or have some possible suggestions as to how to go about this?
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What else does she need? She should call the business and just ask for him and talk to him....
 
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Carissidy said:
Hopefully we can get some more detective work done today....maybe? Iknow that you all gave good suggestions for the Paige case... But how would go about finding your birth father without having to hire someone. I know people do this stuff all the time. Does anyone live in New Jersey or have some possible suggestions as to how to go about this?
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But it sounds liek she HAS found him. She knows where he lives and works - what else does she need to find out?
 
<h2>1. How can I find more information about my biological father who lives in Bordentown, NJ?</h2><p>There are a few ways you can try to gather more information about your biological father:</p><ul> <li>Start by searching online using public records websites or social media platforms. You can also try searching for his name in local news articles or obituaries.</li> <li>Contact the Bordentown city hall or county clerk's office to see if they have any records of his address or contact information.</li> <li>If your father is involved in the Harness Racing industry, you can reach out to local stables or racing organizations in the Bordentown area for potential leads.</li> <li>Consider hiring a private investigator who specializes in finding missing persons or conducting background checks.</li></ul><h2>2. Are any of you from the Bordentown, NJ area?</h2><p>Unfortunately, as a company, we do not disclose personal information about our employees, so we cannot confirm if anyone is from the Bordentown area. However, you can try reaching out to local community groups or forums to connect with people who are familiar with the area and may be able to offer helpful advice or information.</p><h2>3. What resources are available for finding information on someone in the Bordentown, NJ area?</h2><p>Aside from the suggestions mentioned in the first question, you can also try searching for your father's name in the Bordentown area's local newspaper archives, as well as conducting a background check through a reputable online service. Additionally, you can reach out to the Bordentown Police Department for any potential records or leads they may have.</p><h2>4. How can I find out if my father has a stable in Chesterfield, NJ?</h2><p>You can try searching online for equestrian or racing directories specific to Chesterfield, NJ. You can also reach out to the Chesterfield township office or chamber of commerce for potential information on local stables and businesses.</p><h2>5. What steps should I take if I find out more information about my father's whereabouts?</h2><p>If you are able to gather more information about your father's location or contact information, we recommend proceeding with caution. You may want to consider reaching out to a therapist or support group to discuss your feelings and potential next steps. If you do decide to reach out to your father, it's important to approach the situation with honesty and open communication. Ultimately, the decision to reconnect with your father is a personal one, and you should do what feels right for you.</p>

1. How can I find more information about my biological father who lives in Bordentown, NJ?

There are a few ways you can try to gather more information about your biological father:

  • Start by searching online using public records websites or social media platforms. You can also try searching for his name in local news articles or obituaries.
  • Contact the Bordentown city hall or county clerk's office to see if they have any records of his address or contact information.
  • If your father is involved in the Harness Racing industry, you can reach out to local stables or racing organizations in the Bordentown area for potential leads.
  • Consider hiring a private investigator who specializes in finding missing persons or conducting background checks.

2. Are any of you from the Bordentown, NJ area?

Unfortunately, as a company, we do not disclose personal information about our employees, so we cannot confirm if anyone is from the Bordentown area. However, you can try reaching out to local community groups or forums to connect with people who are familiar with the area and may be able to offer helpful advice or information.

3. What resources are available for finding information on someone in the Bordentown, NJ area?

Aside from the suggestions mentioned in the first question, you can also try searching for your father's name in the Bordentown area's local newspaper archives, as well as conducting a background check through a reputable online service. Additionally, you can reach out to the Bordentown Police Department for any potential records or leads they may have.

4. How can I find out if my father has a stable in Chesterfield, NJ?

You can try searching online for equestrian or racing directories specific to Chesterfield, NJ. You can also reach out to the Chesterfield township office or chamber of commerce for potential information on local stables and businesses.

5. What steps should I take if I find out more information about my father's whereabouts?

If you are able to gather more information about your father's location or contact information, we recommend proceeding with caution. You may want to consider reaching out to a therapist or support group to discuss your feelings and potential next steps. If you do decide to reach out to your father, it's important to approach the situation with honesty and open communication. Ultimately, the decision to reconnect with your father is a personal one, and you should do what feels right for you.

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