i have a few people who were added to my newsletter who said they already had a consultant, but were interested in my sale (black friday). to save a headache i just put them on my mailing list. i respect that they have a consultant already and i don't want to steal customers. i don't know how to approach these people and find out if they want to stay on my mailing list. i thought i might send an email to those few and make sure that they want off my list, that way they could confirm their wishes. so i guess what i am asking is how do other people handle this situation?