Happy Birthday Vent Session: My Director Cancelled Again on My Special Day!

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Discussion Overview

This thread features participants sharing their experiences and support regarding a consultant's birthday and the cancellation of a show by her director. The conversation includes expressions of empathy, personal anecdotes about similar situations, and suggestions for moving forward.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Supportive

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses frustration over their director canceling a show on their birthday for the second time, feeling disappointed and financially impacted.
  • Another participant offers birthday wishes and suggests making calls for future bookings, acknowledging the disappointment of the cancellation.
  • Several users share similar experiences of cancellations happening on significant days, emphasizing that such situations are common in their experiences.
  • One participant shares a personal strategy for dealing with potential call screening by hosts, recounting a humorous incident related to it.
  • Another participant encourages the birthday celebrant to enjoy their day and spend time with family, reinforcing the importance of taking a break.
  • One participant expresses gratitude for the support received from the community, highlighting the positive aspect of the forum.
  • Amanda shares an update about a successful call with a host, indicating a positive turn after the initial disappointment.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally express agreement in offering support and empathy towards the birthday celebrant, though individual experiences with cancellations vary. No clear consensus emerges on how to handle such situations.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects the emotional challenges faced by consultants when dealing with cancellations, particularly on personal milestones like birthdays. Participants share their personal coping mechanisms and experiences without implying any official guidance.

Who May Find This Useful

This thread may be of interest to consultants looking for community support and shared experiences regarding cancellations and personal milestones in their business practices.

pamperedalf
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Sorry I need to vent and my director is at a show. Today is my b-day and I scheduled an early show. All week I tried to get ahold of this lady and nothing. She finially sent an email this morning saying she is out of town on a family emergency. Normally I would totally understand, but this is the second time she has cancelled, and I know she looks at her caller id before answering, because she avoided me the last time. It just bumms me out because every penny counts right now.
I am doing my student teaching for my teaching credential, so basically I am teaching for free, which really sucks.
Thanks for letting me vent, maybe it was just God saying I need to spend time with my son. Okay enough of my pitty party, thanks again!
Everyone have a beautiful day, it finally stopped raining and snowing here! Yeah!
 
Happy Birthday, Amanda!

Enjoy your day with your family! Take some time to make a few calls and get some bookings on your calendar to make up for that show. You were planning on working today anyway - but maybe wait until tomorrow since it is your birthday!
 
Amanda,
Happy Birthday!:D It is kind of a bummer of a birthday, but like Beth said, use a part of today (or maybe tomorrow:p ) to make a few phone calls and make up for this host's cancellation. It's NOT fun when this happens, especially on your birthday. It does happen to all of us though! Have a great day anyway!!:D
 
everybody deserves a day off!! have a great birthday and enjoy your son!!
 
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Thanks for your support!!!!I knew I could count on you all for support. Thank God for this site, I love it!
 
Happy birthday to you!!!

:D :D :D :D

Hang in there and hopefully the sun will shine brightly tomorrow!
 
Happy Birthday!

Here's a trick I use when I think someone is watching the caller ID and avoiding my calls. I usually almost always call customers from my home phone. If I think they are avoid my calls I do one of 2 things. I sometimes call from my cell phone because they don't recognize the number they sometimes answer. Otherwise I *67 and it blocks my number from them. Sometimes this works sometimes not.

I thought it was funny once when I was trying to get a hold of a host and she avoided my calls from my home phone. So immediately after I called from my home phone and she didn't answer I called from my cell phone. WaaLaa she answered. That proved to me she was screening her calls. And my cell number is only 1 digit away from my brothers and she often gets calls from my brother. So I think she thought he was calling and that's why she answered. I know it's a dirty trick, but it's also not nice for a host to avoid us. If they don't want to do the show just say so!!!
 
Happy Birthday, Amanda!

Your birthday happens once a year, enjoy it! It's your day!

God Bless you.
 
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Thanks again to everyone for their support. I had a host for next Saturday call today, and when I saw her number on the caller ID I panicked because I thought that she was calling to cancel.
But it turns out she was just returning my call about a missing name from her guest list. There was one invite I couldn't mail because there was no name. Then she told me she already had 400 in outside orders. So score for me, God was looking out for me after all. :D
Thanks again for letting me vent, it was just a rough start!
Amanda
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if my director cancels our birthday vent session?

If your director cancels, it's important to communicate your feelings. Reach out to them to express your disappointment and see if they can reschedule. If they are unable to accommodate you, consider organizing a small gathering with fellow team members or friends to celebrate your birthday and vent together.

How can I cope with the disappointment of a canceled birthday vent session?

It's natural to feel disappointed when plans fall through, especially on your special day. Take some time to acknowledge your feelings, then focus on self-care. Plan an alternative way to celebrate, whether it's treating yourself to something special, spending time with loved ones, or engaging in a favorite hobby.

Is it appropriate to express my feelings to my director about the cancellation?

Yes, it's perfectly appropriate to express your feelings to your director. Open communication is key in direct sales. Share how the cancellation affected you and discuss the importance of these sessions for your motivation and support within the team.

What can I do to ensure my birthday is still special despite the cancellation?

To make your birthday special, focus on activities that bring you joy. Plan a fun day for yourself, whether it's a spa day, a gathering with friends, or a favorite meal. You can also set up a virtual meeting with your team to celebrate together, even if it's not on your exact birthday.

How can I prevent future cancellations from affecting my motivation in direct sales?

To maintain your motivation, consider diversifying your support system. Build relationships with other team members or find a mentor outside your immediate team. Additionally, set personal goals and celebrate small achievements to keep your spirits high, regardless of external circumstances.

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