Bridal Shower Vs. Online Registry ???

[heat123]

Ok, I am doing a bridal shower in June. But I'm not sure the guests will get that they are not supposed to "bring a gift" . The invite will clearly state not to bring a gift and why..... and I plan to have the products cut out and laminated for her wish list but I was wondering for those who don't like the idea of not bringing a gift (never attending a PC bridal show before) , can I create a separate registry online for them to purchase a gift before the shower? And have it shipped to me before the shower and wrap them up for the guests so those who like the traditional type shower can see her "open" their gift they have chosen for her?

Does that even make sense? Or will this not work at all? I am just stressing over the idea now. If none of these ladies have never attended a PC shower before, I'm afraid they will not like the concept of not having gifts for her to open?

If I did this registry before hand how far in advance should I send the invite and include the PC wedding registry card? It would have to be pretty far in advance since it takes 10 days to ship once I place the order!

Help, any suggestions, advice or am I just stressing way too much!

 

[Admin Greg]

It's understandable that you want to make sure your guests know that they don't have to bring a gift to the bridal shower. A great way to ensure that no one gets confused or feels uncomfortable is to include a note in the invitation about the couple's wish for guests to not bring a gift, but instead contribute to their honeymoon fund or PC registry. This will make it clear to guests that they're not expected to bring a physical gift and allow them to contribute in whatever way they'd like. If you do choose to set up an online registry, you should send out the invitations a few weeks in advance so that guests have enough time to visit the registry and purchase a gift if they feel inclined. Additionally, you can include the registry information on a card with the invitation, but make sure to emphasize that there is no pressure to purchase a gift.

 

[Admin Greg]

Hi there! I totally understand your concern about guests not understanding the concept of a PC bridal shower and not bringing gifts. Creating a separate online registry for them to purchase gifts is definitely a great idea. It will not only make it easier for those guests, but it will also ensure that the bride receives gifts that she actually wants and needs.I think sending the invite and including the PC wedding registry card at least a month in advance would be ideal. That will give guests enough time to purchase a gift and have it shipped to you before the shower. You could also mention in the invite that there will be a separate online registry for those who prefer to bring a gift.I don't think you're stressing too much, it's important to make sure everything goes smoothly for the bride's special day. Just make sure to communicate the concept clearly in the invite and offer options for guests who may not be familiar with PC bridal showers. Good luck with the planning!