Urgent Prayer for Mechanic: Get My Car Running for Tomorrow's Show!

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Discussion Overview

This thread revolves around a participant's urgent need for mechanical assistance to get her car running before an upcoming show. The discussion includes personal experiences related to the car troubles, family dynamics, and emotional support from other participants.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, shares her struggles with her husband's inability to fix their car and the emotional toll it has taken on their relationship.
  • Another participant expresses sympathy and offers prayers for the situation.
  • Several users suggest reaching out to local churches for potential mechanical help.
  • One participant mentions the importance of support groups for loved ones of alcoholics, reflecting on the husband's drinking issues.
  • Another participant highlights the need for the husband to acknowledge his problem for any recovery program to be effective.
  • One participant shares a positive update that the car was eventually fixed after significant effort from her nephew and husband.
  • Another participant notes ongoing car issues despite repairs and discusses the husband's recent commitment to attend AA meetings.
  • One participant mentions the importance of having support around the participant and suggests seeking help from her recruiter.
  • Another participant shares a personal experience about finding a reliable used car, emphasizing the value of having a good mechanic in the family.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the best approach to dealing with the husband's alcoholism and the car troubles, with no clear consensus emerging on the best course of action.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences and emotional challenges faced by the participants, particularly in relation to family dynamics and mechanical issues.

Who May Find This Useful

Participants dealing with similar car troubles or family issues related to addiction may find the shared experiences and emotional support valuable.

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Trish in Texas
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My husband's been working to put a new water pump in. The car is torn apart so isn't driveable. Anyway, he can't get to all the parts so he's given up on it (and started drinking on top of that -- erg). Anyway, I'm trying to find a mechanic to come complete the work. Pray that I get it up and running tonight...I have a show tomorrow.

Trish in Texas
Independent Consultant
 
I'm sorry... I pray that everything gets fixed!
 
I'll be praying...maybe check with local churches to see if they have a mechanic who attends there who is loooking for work? Just a thought!
 
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Still not fixed...my husband, who is diabetic, tried to walk the 18 miles to work today...getting up at 1 am but turning around 3 miles later due to rain and lightning. We had a huge fight (due to the drinking) and now he wants me to move out of the house. Lord, sure could use help here. My host called last night and turned her show into a catty one (people at work weren't going to show up). I think I boost it into a Pamper A Business by bringing them a "goodie."

Trish in Texas
Independent Consultant
 
Oh, sweetie. I'm praying!
 
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Thanks, guys! Still trying to get it fixed but have put out lots of feelers to see if I can find someone to help us.
 
I've prayed for you and your husband, Trish.
 
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Thank you so much for all the care you have sent my way. My nephew, who is great with cars, is supposed to come this morning to see if he can fix it. He'll bring a trailer in case he needs to tow it back to his place to work on it (an hour away). In the interim, my husband apoliogized for asking me to move out of the house. Has anyone heard of Celebrate Recovery? A friend suggested we attend for his alcoholism (which he denies he has). But, nobody sane drinks and hides it or lies about it like he does.
 
Trish in Texas said:
Thank you so much for all the care you have sent my way. My nephew, who is great with cars, is supposed to come this morning to see if he can fix it. He'll bring a trailer in case he needs to tow it back to his place to work on it (an hour away). In the interim, my husband apoliogized for asking me to move out of the house. Has anyone heard of Celebrate Recovery? A friend suggested we attend for his alcoholism (which he denies he has). But, nobody sane drinks and hides it or lies about it like he does.
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I hate to tell you, until he admits to a problem no program will help. You can go to programs that support loved ones of alcoholics. At least them YOU can get support.

If you have family or good friends nearby you may want to talk to them and let them know the situation. Next time he kicks you out (or threatens to) GO! He needs to hit bottom to acknowledge his problem. As long as things are the status quo he has no need to change. You need to kick him in the behind..

Please know we are all here for you.
 
I hope everything works out. I agree with Darlene. Then again, maybe if your husband sees a group he might realize that he does have a problem.
 
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Praise God! The car is fixed. Took my nephew and husband 12 hours yesterday to do it...busted the crank shaft in the process and had to replace it. Changed belts too. Drives great now!! Plus my husband said he'd go back to AA...and I'll do Al-Anon at the same time. Thanks for all your prayers. They worked!!!
 
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Praying for a good, reliable, affordable used car...after putting on new water pump and belts, the car is still overheating. Have to stop every 15 minutes to put in water. Takes forever to take my husband to and from the 18 miles to work! He begged me to take him to AA last night and had a good meeting. His buds there tell him how lucky he is that I still stick with him. He's being extra appreciative of me...good for the ego!
 
praying. get support around you! Can your recruiter help you get to shows?
 
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Thanks for your advice. No, she can't. She has family obligations and another job commitment. Last night, my husband figured out it was the upper radiator hose that was leaking. Picking up a new one today. I hope that will fix it until we can get a new car. It's been too hot to go without aiir in Texas!! And stopping every 15minutes to put water in. My nephew is keeping his eye out for a new used car for us. He scored a great BMW for his daughter for $2,000 because the owner thought the engine was frozen. Instead, he replaced a part and it works great. Thank goodness he's such a great mechanic.

Trish in Texas
Independent Consultant
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if my car won't start before the show?

If your car won't start, first check the battery connections and ensure they are tight and free of corrosion. If the battery seems fine, try jump-starting the car with jumper cables. If that doesn't work, consider calling a mechanic for assistance or using a ride-sharing service to get to the show on time.

How can I find a reliable mechanic quickly?

What are some common car issues that could prevent me from getting to the show?

Common car issues include a dead battery, flat tires, fuel problems, or engine trouble. It's important to regularly maintain your vehicle to prevent these issues, but if they arise, diagnosing the problem quickly can help you get back on the road.

Is there a way to prepare my car for emergencies before the show?

Yes, you can prepare your car by ensuring it has a full tank of gas, checking the oil and coolant levels, inspecting the tires for proper inflation, and keeping an emergency kit with tools, a flashlight, and first-aid supplies. Regular maintenance checks can also help prevent unexpected breakdowns.

What should I do if I can't make it to the show due to car troubles?

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