Tempting Tapas Show Disappointment: How to Book from a No-Show Event"

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Discussion Overview

This thread discusses experiences related to hosting Pampered Chef shows that did not go as planned, particularly focusing on the challenges of securing bookings from events with low attendance. Participants share their personal experiences, feelings of disappointment, and strategies for moving forward after such events.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, expressed disappointment after hosting a show where no guests attended, despite initial expectations of a larger turnout.
  • Another participant shared a similar experience, noting that low attendance is common and emphasizing the importance of maintaining a positive attitude to avoid coming across as desperate for bookings.
  • Several users mentioned the value of focusing on outside orders and maintaining communication with potential customers, even if the show itself did not go well.
  • One participant suggested that co-hosting with a friend could help increase attendance and support for future shows.
  • Another participant recounted their own experience of a poorly attended show and highlighted the importance of collecting contact information from those who expressed interest in attending.
  • One participant noted that approaching bookings as a favor to the host can shift the mindset and potentially lead to better outcomes.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree that low attendance at shows is a common experience and that maintaining a positive outlook is beneficial. However, there are differing opinions on the best strategies for securing bookings from such events, with no clear consensus on a single approach.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects a range of personal experiences from consultants at different stages in their Pampered Chef careers, highlighting the emotional impact of show outcomes and the varied strategies employed to navigate booking challenges.

Who May Find This Useful

This thread may be useful for Pampered Chef consultants seeking to understand how to cope with disappointing show outcomes and looking for ideas on how to secure bookings in similar situations.

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I think its great to find the silver lining to what was seemingly a "bad" show. I don't think it is wrong to feel dissappointed when no guests show up to a show that we worked hard to prepare- its normal to feel that way. Its great to be able to come post on a website where the same thing has happened to everyone and get some advice and a good pick me up. :)
 
Thanks
janel kelly said:
I think its great to find the silver lining to what was seemingly a "bad" show. I don't think it is wrong to feel dissappointed when no guests show up to a show that we worked hard to prepare- its normal to feel that way. Its great to be able to come post on a website where the same thing has happened to everyone and get some advice and a good pick me up. :)


I was just wanted to thank you Janel for making me feel "normal". :) I, like you, feel that it is ok to be disappointed if a show that we worked hard on doesn't turn out like we think it should. And if it turns out better than we expected, then thats fantastic. And I am extremely greatful just to be able to have them reach enough to close; just a perk when they are larger. :)
 
Any worse?OK as if my last show wasnt bad enough? My hostess's check bounced! and then because it bounced, it caused two more things to bounce in my account. And a pending one where I got gas on my card! OMG! I am soooooo mad! I contacted the hostess and told her what happened and she "said" she will get with me and take care of it but I am worried now that I am going to be stuck with 3 NSF fees and her bounced check which was $93. I knew there was a reason I had a bad feeling about her show. And the kicker of it is that she already has her order. I didnt know her check had bounced until Saturday morning, after her things came in Thursday. I guess with the holiday it slowed everythign down at the bank. I am going to try to collect her money first and then if it isnt settled quickly then I am going to call HO and see if there is anything i can do. But i cant afford $90 in ISF charges! UGH!!! And i have to clear it up quickly because I have a show this thusday that wants to close quickly. geez! What a mess! I think from now on instead of just deposting checks into my account that I will go to the individual banks and cash them first tomake sure the money is there. At least all of the local banks are pretty close together so it wont be too far out of the way for me to do that and if it saves me ISF charges then it will be worth it.
 
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That would be very frustating. Is there anything we can do if a hostess refuses to pay for the fees from a bad check? You'll have to let us know how it goes with her. I can't imagine a hostess not wanting to make everything right when it comes to things like that.
 
neverendingI think I have the never ending show from hell! The hostess who's check bounced wrote me another one today to cover her bounced check AND my $95 in NSF checks. I told her I was going to go to her bank to cash it right after and she said that would be fine. Well, I went and the funds were not available, again. UGH!! I want to scream! So now, I am going to have to cover her money I suppose until I can it out of her. I have a show that I did last night and the hostess wants to close it Monday so I HAVE to get my account in the good. Geez! Has anyone else had this happen to them? I am stressing so bad. I have been trying to be very nice to my hostess about it but think I may end up calling HO and see if there is anything I can have done.

Debbie
 
:eek: Oh my!! I am so sorry you are going through all of this!!! I wonder why in the world she keeps writing you bad checks? I would march right back over to her house and demand she pay in cash since her checks seem to be no good! That is too much for you to deal with. Do you think she is trying to get away with not paying you? That's what it sounds like to me, but if this is someone you know well, I would hate to assume that. Maybe you should also have your shows (that are local) shipped to you first. That way you can hold orders until they are paid for. I have all my shows shipped to me. I include their receipt and a thank you card in the bag. But if I had this hostess...she would receive a thank you from me that's for sure!! And if she ever wanted to place an order again, I would only accept cash from her!! :p Please keep us updated on how you handle this. I wish I could offer you better advice. Good luck!!
 
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Debbie -

I had that happen to me once and I finally had to take it to the County Magistrate to file a claim against the hostess. She then had to pay me through the magistrate for all of my fees and the filing fee. I don't know if you have something like that in your area, but business have some sort of recorse against bad checks because it is against the law to write bad checks. You may just want to ask one of your local business that you frequent often how they handle it. Sometimes, just the threat of having to take that last step will get your hostess to pay. Of course in the future you should require her to pay cash only if she were to order from you again (of course, I would never be available to her again to order).

I'm sorry for your trouble, especially since you have to cover the expense until she pays you. The only thing to remember is that she is in the minority when it comes to hostesses and customers in our business.

Good luck - I hope it all works out for you,
Sharon
 
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Oh Debbie, I would want to scream too. What did the host tell you when you told her that her recent check bounced again? I know you are trying to be nice to your hostess but there is a point I think when someone needs to see you mean business otherwise they will just keep taking advantage of you. Does she have a job? Her husband work? Do you know when they get paid? I would find out when they get paid and then take the check to her bank that day and try to cash it. Thats the only thing I can think of to do besides demand cash from her right away or take it even higher. I hope it all works out for you and soon.
 
Thanks everyoneI am not really "buddies" with my hostess, but she does work at a gas station that I go to frequently, about a mile from my house. She is about 64 years old and lives with one of her daughters. And when I told her about the second check she said that she was soooo sorry and that she had talked to the lady at the bank and she said that they would "try" to cover it if I cashed it. Well, when I talked to the lady at the bank she said took it to her supervisor and the supervisor said they could not out right cash it since there wasnt enough funds in the bank, but if I wanted to deposit it into mine at MY bank and run it through there was a possibility that they "MAY or MAY NOT" cash it. She couldnt say for sure. I asked her pretty much if she were out of her mind. I was trying to get the last check from this lady cleared with this check, not add more bank fees on to it and have even more to come up with. UGH!!! I do feel bad somewhat for this lady, she said she had pawned the title of her car to try and pay off the bank but it wasnt enough she said because someone she had wrote a check to continously kept trying to send it back through and it kept bouncing her account more with fees and that was why she didnt have enough in there to cover it. I dont know what to believe anymore. If she is being honest with me or yanking my chain. I did tell her that I need to get some cash from her though since her checks were no good. I told her if I at least saw SOME money that I would try my best to work with her but if not then I would not be able to. She "says" she is going to try and borrow some from her family or something to help pay me. This is so ridiculous. I mean, i dont have a problem holding a check a day or two if someone tells me upfront, but geez dont write me a bad check and not tell me. I am going to probably call HO Monday and see what to do about it. I just know she isnt going to be able to come up with $188. I will be shocked if she does. It just makes me get so discouraged though everytime I think about this. I will definately cash everyones check first from now on and deposit cash only. Oh and the kicker of it is that her order WAS sent to me and I had delivered her things the day before i found out her check was no good. But it had been a week so I assumed that her check was fine. since it wasnt showing up as bounced in my account. I think the holiday just slowed everything down though. Thanks to you all for letting me vent. Somehow I will get past this.
 
:eek: *ouch*maybe be sneeky. most people get paid during the first and third week of the month. try going down there on the friday of those weeks after checks get deposited. Funds might be available then
 
Debbie - I am anxious to hear what happened since then! Were you able to get some "real" money out of this lady? I can't understand why someone would do this to anyone! Let us know how it ended....or if it hasn't already!?!? :eek:
 
Finally!!I FINALLY got my money from this lady. I was ticked off because I have not heard a peep from her and everytime I attempted to call her and be nice about it she just kept apologizing but never offering to even pay anything at all to me. Well, I know her check is direct deposit so I called her bank first thing Friday morning at 9am right as they opened and asked if she had the funds available in her account and she did. I snatched the kids up and headed to the bank as fast as I could get there :p before I even fed them breakfast...lol. I never even called her to tell her i did it. I figured that she did not have enough respect for me to try to even work it out so if she bounces more checks then that is her problem. I will not take any more orders from her, I dont care if they are cash money orders. i refuse to do business with ppl who have no respect for me. Thank god we can run our business as we want; that way I dont "have " to ever deal with her again and her show is finally behind me. :)
 
Debbie....glad you were able to get your money. I'm sorry it turned out to be a bad experience. Fortunately, MOST hosts are not like this. As you said, be thankful this is our business and we can run our business the way it works best for us.

Thanks for the update.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if my Tempting Tapas Show had no attendees?

If your Tempting Tapas Show had no attendees, it's important to reach out to those who RSVP'd but didn't show up. Send a friendly follow-up message to check in and see if they are still interested in the products. You can also offer to schedule a one-on-one consultation or a virtual party to showcase the items.

How can I encourage guests to attend my Tempting Tapas Show?

To encourage attendance, consider sending reminders a few days before the event. Create excitement by sharing sneak peeks of the recipes or products you will be demonstrating. Additionally, offering incentives such as a small gift or a raffle entry for attendees can help boost participation.

What are some effective ways to book parties after a no-show event?

After a no-show event, reach out to the guests who expressed interest but couldn't attend. Offer them a special promotion or discount if they book a party within a certain timeframe. Personalize your message to make them feel valued and emphasize the fun and benefits of hosting a party.

Can I still sell products after a no-show Tempting Tapas Show?

Absolutely! Use the opportunity to follow up with potential customers who showed interest in the products. Share a catalog or a link to your online store, and consider offering a limited-time discount to encourage purchases. Engaging with them through social media can also help maintain interest.

How can I prevent no-shows for future events?

To prevent no-shows, ensure you communicate clearly about the event details and the value of attending. Use engaging marketing techniques, such as creating an event page on social media, and send reminders as the date approaches. Additionally, consider hosting smaller, more intimate gatherings to encourage commitment from guests.

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