Reconnecting with High School Classmate After 20+ Years - Craigslist PC Parts Ad

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Discussion Overview

This thread centers around personal anecdotes related to reconnecting with high school classmates and reflections on aging. Participants share their experiences of unexpected encounters and the sentiment that the world feels smaller as they age.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant recounts finding a high school classmate through a Craigslist ad for PC parts, expressing excitement about reconnecting after many years.
  • Another participant notes the idea that as people age, the world seems to become smaller.
  • Several users mention feelings about aging, with one participant stating they don't feel their age and referencing a saying about feeling young.
  • One participant shares a story about running into their prom date unexpectedly in a different town, highlighting the surprise of such encounters.
  • Another participant reflects on a magazine cover featuring a model who is 40, expressing disbelief at her age appearance compared to their own feelings about aging.
  • A participant humorously quotes their great grandmother's response about feeling young at a very old age.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on perceptions of aging and the experiences of reconnecting with past acquaintances, with no clear consensus emerging.

Contextual Notes

The thread captures a range of personal experiences and sentiments related to nostalgia and the passage of time, reflecting individual perspectives on age and connection.

Who May Find This Useful

Participants in the consultant community who enjoy sharing personal stories or reflecting on their experiences with aging and connections may find this discussion relatable.

lockhartkitchen
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I saw a want ad on Craigslist for PC replacement parts. I responded and saw a name that looked familiar. It was the same name as a boy I graduated from High School with and went all through grade school. I emailed the man back and asked if he graduated from Gladstone High School. He emailed me back and said he did, in 1987. OMG. It's my classmate I haven't seen since the year I graduated. I'm now 40 years old. I left him my number to chat and of course, to find out what replacement parts he needed. I just had to share!
 
It's a small world...and as you get older, you'll find it gets much smaller.
 
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So true Kitchen Guy. But I like to follow the old saying: "You're only as old as you feel" and I DON'T feel 40.
 
I ran into my senior high prom date at a fast food restaurant, In a town thats 4 hours away from where we went to high school. we're both married with kids now.
 
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That's a small world too.
 
Love is great
It's really heaven
WE'RE THE CLASS OF 87!
 
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Alright Di, it's nice to know I'm not alone. Maybe it's me, but I just saw some "famous" model on a cover of a magazine and it made a comment of her being 40 now. I thought she looked in her late 40s. I don't feel,nor look 40 and surprise a lot of people.
 
lockhartkitchen said:
"You're only as old as you feel" and I DON'T feel 40.
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I feel with my fingers.
 
KG,
That's what my great grandma said at her 100th birthday party in the late 1960's when an interviewer asked her how she felt!
 

Frequently Asked Questions

How can I reconnect with a high school classmate after 20+ years?

Reconnecting with a high school classmate can be as simple as reaching out through social media platforms like Facebook or LinkedIn. You can also try searching for their contact information online or through mutual friends. If you have a specific reason, like a Craigslist ad for PC parts, mention that in your message to spark their interest.

What should I include in my message when reaching out?

When reaching out, include a friendly greeting, a brief introduction of yourself, and a mention of your shared past. If you are referencing a Craigslist ad, explain your interest in the PC parts and how it relates to your desire to reconnect. This personal touch can make your message more engaging.

Is it appropriate to mention the Craigslist ad in my message?

Yes, mentioning the Craigslist ad can provide a natural segue into your conversation. It shows that you have a specific reason for reaching out and can help break the ice. Just ensure that your message remains friendly and not overly focused on the transaction.

What if my classmate doesn't respond?

If your classmate doesn't respond, don't take it personally. People may be busy or may not check their messages frequently. You can consider sending a follow-up message after a week or two, but be respectful of their space and decision not to engage.

How can I keep the conversation going once we reconnect?

To keep the conversation going, ask open-ended questions about their life, interests, and experiences since high school. Share updates about your own life as well. Discussing mutual interests or reminiscing about shared memories can also help strengthen the connection.

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