Is It Still Worth Keeping My Registry Open After Eloping?

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Discussion Overview

The thread discusses the considerations around keeping a wedding registry open after a couple elopes. Participants share their thoughts on whether it is beneficial for the couple to maintain the registry for potential gifts and rewards.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares their experience with a couple who eloped and suggests that keeping the registry open could allow for additional gifts from family and friends.
  • Another participant mentions that if the couple is planning a reception, it may be beneficial to keep the registry open for guests to contribute gifts.
  • Several users note that people typically have a year after the wedding date to send gifts, which includes elopements, and keeping the registry open could maximize rewards.
  • One participant expresses the idea that the registry could be a convenient way for people to purchase gifts from various locations, as it allows for direct shipping.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree that keeping the registry open could be advantageous, especially if the couple is considering a reception, though some express uncertainty about the couple's specific plans.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences and opinions regarding wedding registries in the context of elopements, with no official guidelines referenced.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who are navigating similar situations with clients or friends who have eloped may find these shared experiences relevant.

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ChefBeckyD
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LOL!

The only active registry I have is with a girl who used to work for me. She and her fiance(e?) were supposed to be married next Christmas, but he was in NY, and she was in AZ - and it was too much for them being apart. So, he found a job in AZ, and they eloped over Christmas break!

They have just over $400 in sales for registry rewards (from relatives who have been purchasing for them), and she just emailed me to ask me a few questions about redeeming them. Should I encourage her to keep it open a while longer, in case people want to buy wedding gifts?
 
I would! Are they doing a reception at all? Family may really want them to do it. My sister got married in Hawaii and then about a month later did a reception.

They have time after the wedding date listed to redeem their awards (a month?) and the registry remains open for a year after the wedding date so I'd have them think about it before closing it.
 
I don't see why not. People have 1 year after the wedding date to send gifts, and that includes elopements. They might as well leave it open to maximize their rewards, and get things that they actually want.
 
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BethCooks4U said:
I would! Are they doing a reception at all? Family may really want them to do it. My sister got married in Hawaii and then about a month later did a reception.

They have time after the wedding date listed to redeem their awards (a month?) and the registry remains open for a year after the wedding date so I'd have them think about it before closing it.
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I just emailed her to ask if they were doing a reception - and also ordered a gift off their registry for them. (I've known her since she was in Jr Hi - and her first job was as a stocker at the bookstore I managed.:))

I think that they could probably double (At least!) their rewards....and if it happened this month, I'd get double points for it!:D
 
Yes, with eloping they are bound to have some small reception for friends/family...Encourage her to keep it open until then.
 
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janetupnorth said:
Yes, with eloping they are bound to have some small reception for friends/family...
Encourage her to keep it open until then.
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It's not a given - I need to find out what they are planning.

Her family is all in MI, and his is all in NY - and they are now living in AZ....


Hey! Maybe I should suggest that her registry is the best way for people to purchase wedding gifts - they can do it from all across the country, and have it shipped directly to them!
 
ChefBeckyD said:
It's not a given - I need to find out what they are planning.

Her family is all in MI, and his is all in NY - and they are now living in AZ....


Hey! Maybe I should suggest that her registry is the best way for people to purchase wedding gifts - they can do it from all across the country, and have it shipped directly to them!
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Perfect! ;)
 

Frequently Asked Questions

Is it still worth keeping my registry open after eloping?

Yes, keeping your registry open after eloping can still be beneficial. It allows friends and family who may want to celebrate your union to contribute gifts, even if the wedding ceremony was small or private.

What are the benefits of maintaining my registry post-elopement?

Maintaining your registry can help you receive items that you may need for your new life together. It can also serve as a way for loved ones to express their support and congratulations, especially if they were unable to attend a formal wedding.

How long should I keep my registry open after eloping?

Typically, it’s a good idea to keep your registry open for at least a few months after eloping. This gives friends and family ample time to send gifts and allows you to adjust your registry based on any new needs that arise as you settle into married life.

Can I still add items to my registry after eloping?

Absolutely! You can continue to add items to your registry after eloping. This is a great opportunity to include items that you may have realized you need or want as you start your new journey together.

What should I communicate to friends and family about my registry?

It’s important to communicate openly with your friends and family about your registry. Let them know that you eloped and that you have kept the registry open for those who wish to celebrate your marriage with a gift. You can share this information through social media, emails, or personal messages.

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