I'm Making a Dish For My Friend's Memorial

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Discussion Overview

This thread centers around suggestions for side dishes to prepare for a memorial gathering, with participants sharing their personal experiences and ideas for dishes that can be made in advance and served cold.

Discussion Character

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, mentions needing to prepare a dish for a friend's memorial and seeks suggestions for side dishes that can be made the day before.
  • Another participant suggests that a fruit salad or homemade coleslaw would be appreciated options.
  • One user shares a detailed recipe for a 'fiesta salad' made with various beans, corn, and vegetables, noting that it tastes better when allowed to sit overnight.
  • Another participant expresses a preference for a cold pasta salad or a quinoa and black bean salad, both of which can be made ahead of time and served cold.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on specific dish suggestions, with no clear consensus on a single preferred option for the memorial.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects a supportive community atmosphere, with participants expressing condolences and a willingness to help during a difficult time.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants looking for ideas on preparing dishes for gatherings or memorials may find the shared experiences and suggestions relevant.

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My best friend (who is a PC director) is hosting a memorial for her brother who passed away last month. She asked a few PC friends if we would like to help out by making a few side dishes. I need to come up with something I can make the day before and take to her that probably wouldn't need reheated or anything. Thanks!
 
People always appreciate a nice fruit salad. Or you could put together a salad or homemade coleslaw.
 
If a dessert is ok, I'd do a trifle - but, that's not a side dish. Otherwise, you can do potato or pasta salad.

Here's an easy recipe, which will taste better if it's allowed to sit in the refrigerator overnight:

1 can black beans
1 can red kidney beans
1 can navy beans
1 package frozen corn kernels (leave in refrigerator overnight, or leave at room temperature for a couple of hours before use to thaw slightly, but do not heat to thaw. If you buy kernels which are individually frozen before packaging - such as Schwan's - there is no need to thaw, just add according to the recipe)
2 ripe tomatoes
1 medium yellow onion
1 bunch cilantro
1 jalapeno pepper
1/4 - 1/2 cup white wine vinegar
salt & pepper to taste

Drain and rinse beans (if you have the Salad & Berry Spinner, use this to get as much juice and water off the beans as possible) **Note, if making this for your own family meal, don't rinse too much, because the juice actually contains a lot of nutrients. However, it makes the colors look really muddy, which is why you want to rinse well for company.
Chop tomatoes, onion, cilantro, and jalapeno. Mix together. Stir in beans, then stir in corn. Add vinegar, a small amount at a time, until ingredients are well mixed and there is a little juice. Don't add too much, though, or the taste will be over-powering. Add salt and pepper to taste.

If storing overnight, don't add the salt & pepper until just ready to serve. This will allow the other flavors to develop and merge.

This is great as a 'fiesta salad' side dish, especially in the summer, OR served over hot steamed rice in the winter!
 
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pampchefsarah said:
If a dessert is ok, I'd do a trifle - but, that's not a side dish. Otherwise, you can do potato or pasta salad.

Here's an easy recipe, which will taste better if it's allowed to sit in the refrigerator overnight:

1 can black beans
1 can red kidney beans
1 can navy beans
1 package frozen corn kernels (leave in refrigerator overnight, or leave at room temperature for a couple of hours before use to thaw slightly, but do not heat to thaw. If you buy kernels which are individually frozen before packaging - such as Schwan's - there is no need to thaw, just add according to the recipe)
2 ripe tomatoes
1 medium yellow onion
1 bunch cilantro
1 jalapeno pepper
1/4 - 1/2 cup white wine vinegar
salt & pepper to taste

Drain and rinse beans (if you have the Salad & Berry Spinner, use this to get as much juice and water off the beans as possible) **Note, if making this for your own family meal, don't rinse too much, because the juice actually contains a lot of nutrients. However, it makes the colors look really muddy, which is why you want to rinse well for company.
Chop tomatoes, onion, cilantro, and jalapeno. Mix together. Stir in beans, then stir in corn. Add vinegar, a small amount at a time, until ingredients are well mixed and there is a little juice. Don't add too much, though, or the taste will be over-powering. Add salt and pepper to taste.

If storing overnight, don't add the salt & pepper until just ready to serve. This will allow the other flavors to develop and merge.

This is great as a 'fiesta salad' side dish, especially in the summer, OR served over hot steamed rice in the winter!

Great idea!

Any others?
 
Hi there! I am so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to your friend and her family. I would be more than happy to help out with some side dishes for the memorial. One dish that I always love to make in advance is a cold pasta salad. You can mix in some fresh veggies, herbs, and a homemade dressing for a tasty and refreshing dish. Another idea could be a quinoa and black bean salad, which is also great to make ahead of time and can be served cold. Please let me know if either of these options sound good to you and I will be happy to provide you with some recipes. Again, my deepest condolences and I am here to support you and your friend in any way that I can.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What dish should I prepare for my friend's memorial?

When choosing a dish for a memorial, consider comfort foods that are easy to serve and eat. Dishes like casseroles, pasta salads, or a hearty soup can be great options. You might also want to include a dessert, like brownies or cookies, to provide a sweet touch during a difficult time.

How can I make my dish special for the memorial?

To make your dish special, consider personalizing it with ingredients that your friend loved or that remind you of them. You can also use decorative serving dishes or add a heartfelt note or memory card alongside the food to honor their memory.

Should I consider dietary restrictions when preparing the dish?

Yes, it’s important to consider dietary restrictions when preparing food for a memorial. Check with the family or the organizer about any allergies, dietary preferences, or restrictions to ensure that everyone can enjoy the meal without concerns.

How can I transport the dish to the memorial service?

To transport your dish safely, use sturdy containers with secure lids. If the dish needs to be kept warm, consider using insulated bags or thermal containers. If it’s a cold dish, make sure to keep it chilled until serving time.

Is it appropriate to ask others to bring dishes as well?

Yes, it is often appropriate to ask others to contribute dishes for a memorial. This can help ease the burden on one person and create a variety of food options for attendees. Just be sure to coordinate with the family or organizer to avoid duplication and ensure dietary needs are met.

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