ChefBeckyD
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As many of you know, my Mom has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's. She hasn't responded well to any of the meds she has been given, and has deteriorated quickly. She still knows all of us, but is starting to get family relationships mixed up - ages and who belongs with who...and the past 2 weeks she has fixated on my brother, sure that he is trying to poison her.
I just miss my Mom. She's here, but not here. I called her to ask her how she made her venison meatloaf, and she gave me such a strange, mixed up answer, it didn't make any sense at all.
It's getting harder each day to have a conversation with her, and this week, especially, it has been really weighing on me. Maybe it's because Christmas is usually such a family time, and she has always done so much to make it special - and this year, she's missing. She knows that Christmas is coming, but isn't much interested. I am taking her shopping next week to buy presents for all of the grandkids, and buy little things to do stockings for all of them - it's the first spark of interest I've seen in her when I talked to her about it - but then, this afternoon, she'd forgotten about it again.
Please pray for me - for our family. The emails have been flying fast and furious today between me and my brothers. We are all in different places, and trying to talk, and figure out next steps for her care. I don't enjoy this place we are in, and the person (my Mom) I've always gone to for good advice in tough situations is no longer able to give me advice.
I just miss my Mom. She's here, but not here. I called her to ask her how she made her venison meatloaf, and she gave me such a strange, mixed up answer, it didn't make any sense at all.
It's getting harder each day to have a conversation with her, and this week, especially, it has been really weighing on me. Maybe it's because Christmas is usually such a family time, and she has always done so much to make it special - and this year, she's missing. She knows that Christmas is coming, but isn't much interested. I am taking her shopping next week to buy presents for all of the grandkids, and buy little things to do stockings for all of them - it's the first spark of interest I've seen in her when I talked to her about it - but then, this afternoon, she'd forgotten about it again.
Please pray for me - for our family. The emails have been flying fast and furious today between me and my brothers. We are all in different places, and trying to talk, and figure out next steps for her care. I don't enjoy this place we are in, and the person (my Mom) I've always gone to for good advice in tough situations is no longer able to give me advice.