AJPratt
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I Am so Done With Pampered Chef (Vent Alert!)
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Discussion Overview
The thread centers around a participant expressing frustration with their Pampered Chef business while managing personal challenges, including pregnancy and family responsibilities. Other participants respond with empathy and share their own experiences regarding the pressures of being a director and balancing business with personal life.
Discussion Character
- Anecdotal
- Opinion-based
- Exploratory
Main Points Raised
- One participant, identifying as a consultant, shares feelings of frustration and exhaustion due to managing a growing family and business responsibilities while being pregnant.
- Another participant expresses concern for the original poster's well-being and suggests seeking help from friends to alleviate stress.
- Several users mention that expectations for directors can be overwhelming and that it is acceptable to not meet all the benchmarks, especially during challenging personal times.
- One participant reflects on their own struggles with sales and acknowledges that not all directors achieve high sales or recruitment numbers, emphasizing the need to focus on personal goals.
- Another participant highlights the importance of self-care and suggests that the original poster should not make any rash decisions during this stressful period.
- One participant admires the original poster's accomplishments during pregnancy and encourages them to share their story as a source of inspiration for others.
Areas of Agreement / Disagreement
Views differ regarding the pressures of being a director and the expectations associated with that role. While some participants emphasize the importance of personal well-being and flexibility in business goals, others acknowledge the challenges of meeting high expectations.
Contextual Notes
The discussion takes place in the context of personal challenges faced by a participant who is pregnant and managing family responsibilities while navigating their role as a director in Pampered Chef.
Who May Find This Useful
Consultants who are experiencing similar challenges in balancing personal life with business commitments may find the shared experiences and support within this thread helpful.
ChefBeckyD
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AJPratt said:
Broom....Kansas.....that reminds me of a great movie.....oh wait, that's a different thread!
You know what I think is funny? All the posting for Gillian that has been done today.....and Gillian is off on her Scrapathon having fun! Hope she is getting completely (or at least partially) rejuvinated!
AJPratt
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lisacb77
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{{Hugs}} to you Gilly! Hang in there and take life one day at a time. Just try to do like everyone says, the minimum to stay where you are. I agree with April, everything can get overwhelming at times with a full plate, and I don't even have kids so kudos to you for keeping it rolling!
A lot of times, I try to look at everything happening a certain way for a reason. Obviously your family needs you very much right now, so maybe PC is not meant to be big for you at this time so you can focus on that. Of course, I am not saying quit, but try to do a little less for your sanity and don't feel guilty for it.
And I may be in the minority here, but if the time ever comes that this might not be right for you, only you can make that decision. I agree with the other posters to think long and hard about that, how far you've come and everything. I guess my point is no matter what you decide, short term and long run, don't feel too bad/guilty about what everyone else thinks, because you are living your life not them and you only have one life to live! You are so wonderful about caring for everyone else but some times you gotta care for you, you know? You sure can't take care of DH or those babies if you are not taking care of you!!
Wishing you blessings with the newest baby to be!
A lot of times, I try to look at everything happening a certain way for a reason. Obviously your family needs you very much right now, so maybe PC is not meant to be big for you at this time so you can focus on that. Of course, I am not saying quit, but try to do a little less for your sanity and don't feel guilty for it.
And I may be in the minority here, but if the time ever comes that this might not be right for you, only you can make that decision. I agree with the other posters to think long and hard about that, how far you've come and everything. I guess my point is no matter what you decide, short term and long run, don't feel too bad/guilty about what everyone else thinks, because you are living your life not them and you only have one life to live! You are so wonderful about caring for everyone else but some times you gotta care for you, you know? You sure can't take care of DH or those babies if you are not taking care of you!!
Wishing you blessings with the newest baby to be!
4kids4me
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I haven't been around here long enough to know what you're talking about. Do tell! I've always wanted a sister!!!!pamperedlinda said:Wow Debbie....are you and Jilleysue long lost sisters!! I am tired just reading about your daythese are great ideas. I only have one child and I can't believe how much more disorganized my house is these days.
My day may sound exhausting, but it's not bad. I just try not to look too far ahead. I focus on making it til lunch time because that's quickly followed by naptime when I can really chill out and regroup. I do alot of my PC stuff then. Then I focus on daycare closing because that's soon followed by dinner and bedtime. So if I can just make it til lunchtime, I know the rest of the day will sail!!
Baby steps!
pamperedlinda
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Funny! You need to search for Jilleysue's organization threads....she is uber-organized!4kids4me said:I haven't been around here long enough to know what you're talking about. Do tell! I've always wanted a sister!!!!
My day may sound exhausting, but it's not bad. I just try not to look too far ahead. I focus on making it til lunch time because that's quickly followed by naptime when I can really chill out and regroup. I do alot of my PC stuff then. Then I focus on daycare closing because that's soon followed by dinner and bedtime. So if I can just make it til lunchtime, I know the rest of the day will sail!!
pcchris
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AJPratt
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janezapchef
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hang in thereGillian,
My director was just telling me about someone she knows (I think she said upper level director), who BUYS her $350 minimum each month herself (and that's IT!) and gets paid enough to make it worth it because of her downline. I'd say you are a much better example than that, right? Everyone is in this for different reasons, and you can adjust it to fit whatever is going on in your life. Sure, level 3 may be something to strive for, but that's not to say that this year you need to even aim for level 1. You have a LOT on your plate (as everyone else is saying, and I'm sure you know ). Concentrate on you and your family, and don't worry about that other "stuff" yet. Also, I have to say from experience that the 3 month leave for having a baby can come in VERY handy!
Good luck and take care!
Jane Phillips
My director was just telling me about someone she knows (I think she said upper level director), who BUYS her $350 minimum each month herself (and that's IT!) and gets paid enough to make it worth it because of her downline. I'd say you are a much better example than that, right? Everyone is in this for different reasons, and you can adjust it to fit whatever is going on in your life. Sure, level 3 may be something to strive for, but that's not to say that this year you need to even aim for level 1. You have a LOT on your plate (as everyone else is saying, and I'm sure you know
). Concentrate on you and your family, and don't worry about that other "stuff" yet. Also, I have to say from experience that the 3 month leave for having a baby can come in VERY handy!Good luck and take care!
Jane Phillips
gratergirl
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Okay, pack the kids and hubbie's stuff and move to Ohio! I'll watch the kids...I have 4 and don't realize when my kids have friends over...they just blend in with mine! Really, I feel for you. I can't do PC as much as I would like but that's the beauty of this. I know I'm not a director so it's a little different than what you need to do so I'm sure that being pregnant and having that load with the kids and needing to concentrate on your business can be a big load. Take a breath and relax....I wouldn't make any reah decisions right now....give yourself some time and when the hormones aren't flying like they are now. You have got to be soooo tired! It won't be long and that little girl will be here! ANd whatever you decide...I say that you still need chef success in your life nad we need you! I love your advice and knowledge. You've helped so many people and you've made bonds with people that you have no clue. You make a difference! Hope things get better for you....take time out for yourself...you deserve it!
gilliandanielle
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Okay ladies- here is an update on me...
Saturday (the scrapbook retreat) was awesome and I had so much fun not thinking about the pregnancy or PC. I had a blast and was bummed when it ended and I had to return to my life
Sunday went very well and I was surprisingly prepared instead of running around crazy and stressing at the last minute. I made the preggo cake and a strawberry shortcake trifle and had fun actually getting to eat what I made!! Here is a pic of the cake:
Yesterday my DH took the day off (we BOTH deserve it!) and we took the kids to the zoo and then to Chuck E. Cheese. I did a lot of walking and chasing and am paying for it today. I never thought I would say this but I am really enjoying not having PC as part of my life. Because I am a new director I have 3 months with the requirements waived, then three months of relinquishment, so I have plenty of time to save myself and team after the baby gets here if I realized I made the wrong decision.
I have contacted some of my hosts and changed to catalog shows, and am in the process of converting all my shows to catalog shows. I have no motivation what so ever to do anything PC related right now, and only come on Chef Success because I miss my friends, not the PC info...
Saturday (the scrapbook retreat) was awesome and I had so much fun not thinking about the pregnancy or PC. I had a blast and was bummed when it ended and I had to return to my life
Sunday went very well and I was surprisingly prepared instead of running around crazy and stressing at the last minute. I made the preggo cake and a strawberry shortcake trifle and had fun actually getting to eat what I made!! Here is a pic of the cake:
Yesterday my DH took the day off (we BOTH deserve it!) and we took the kids to the zoo and then to Chuck E. Cheese. I did a lot of walking and chasing and am paying for it today. I never thought I would say this but I am really enjoying not having PC as part of my life. Because I am a new director I have 3 months with the requirements waived, then three months of relinquishment, so I have plenty of time to save myself and team after the baby gets here if I realized I made the wrong decision.
I have contacted some of my hosts and changed to catalog shows, and am in the process of converting all my shows to catalog shows. I have no motivation what so ever to do anything PC related right now, and only come on Chef Success because I miss my friends, not the PC info...
heat123
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pamperedbecky
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That is the CUTEST cake!!! I'll have to keep it in mind for when I throw a baby shower for someone. Who knows who that will be??? My sister gets married in December in Mexico so maybe it'll be soon after that??
You may have posted this in another thread before, but how did you make that? Was there a base cake/sheet cake underneath? I could see the batter bowl cakes. CUTE! I'm glad you're taking it easy! (Well, easy so-to-speak because of no PC stuff)
You may have posted this in another thread before, but how did you make that? Was there a base cake/sheet cake underneath? I could see the batter bowl cakes. CUTE! I'm glad you're taking it easy! (Well, easy so-to-speak because of no PC stuff)
KellyTheChef
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Gillian~
That is the cutest cake! I am glad that you are de-stressing right now...enjoy the last of your pregnancy! You are right...PC will be here for you when the time comes! Focus on you and your family right now and don't make yourself nuts!
We love you!
Glad you had a relaxing time scrapbooking!
That is the cutest cake! I am glad that you are de-stressing right now...enjoy the last of your pregnancy! You are right...PC will be here for you when the time comes! Focus on you and your family right now and don't make yourself nuts!
We love you!
Glad you had a relaxing time scrapbooking!
AJPratt
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Grandmarita
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I want to put my two cents worth in too. I know I would miss you. I admire
your spunk and all that you are dealing with. I can remember, very well, being a SAHM, and my kids being born 15 months apart. Three births spanning, 30 months from the first birth to the third birth. It does get better, as they grow more self sufficient. Hang in there, and as all those in the trenches suggest, get those power naps, and take good care of yourself. Love and Prayers, Grandma Rita
your spunk and all that you are dealing with. I can remember, very well, being a SAHM, and my kids being born 15 months apart. Three births spanning, 30 months from the first birth to the third birth. It does get better, as they grow more self sufficient. Hang in there, and as all those in the trenches suggest, get those power naps, and take good care of yourself. Love and Prayers, Grandma Rita
lizcooks4u
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Wow, wow, woowAMAZING, wtih all ur going thru what an accomplishment!!!!
I"m not going to bed until I read all, sure hope it's not light out when I lay down, but then you deal with all light all dark!!! anothter thing!
I"m not going to bed until I read all, sure hope it's not light out when I lay down, but then you deal with all light all dark!!! anothter thing!
gilliandanielle said:Okay ladies- here is an update on me...
Saturday (the scrapbook retreat) was awesome and I had so much fun not thinking about the pregnancy or PC. I had a blast and was bummed when it ended and I had to return to my life
Sunday went very well and I was surprisingly prepared instead of running around crazy and stressing at the last minute. I made the preggo cake and a strawberry shortcake trifle and had fun actually getting to eat what I made!! Here is a pic of the cake:
Yesterday my DH took the day off (we BOTH deserve it!) and we took the kids to the zoo and then to Chuck E. Cheese. I did a lot of walking and chasing and am paying for it today. I never thought I would say this but I am really enjoying not having PC as part of my life. Because I am a new director I have 3 months with the requirements waived, then three months of relinquishment, so I have plenty of time to save myself and team after the baby gets here if I realized I made the wrong decision.
I have contacted some of my hosts and changed to catalog shows, and am in the process of converting all my shows to catalog shows. I have no motivation what so ever to do anything PC related right now, and only come on Chef Success because I miss my friends, not the PC info...
pampchefrhondab
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Gillian,
I can relate to what you are going through right now! Even though I am not preg., my kids are 17, 15 and 12 and in all kinds of sports and activities! Plus I have a husband who just had a massive blood clot in his leg. He is back to work, but can't do a lot in the evening. His leg swells too much. The Dr. said his leg may do it for the rest of his life!
I too have been tired my my PC business. It just seemed to be consuming my life all hours of the day. I have taken a "vacation" from it. I'm doing the shows planned and the bookings I get from them, but I'm not going out of my way right now to find new leads, etc. I've also decided not to go the Nat. Conference. It is so much fun, but I just can't put $500 or more into it right now.
I've been putting some serious time in Spring Cleaning my house - the Salvation Army is going to be so happy! I am in the mood to throw away everything!! My house is just too small for all the stuff we have. I'm throwing away things that I have saved for 20 years - and thinking, "Why did I save that!" My advice to all of you out there just starting w/a house, kids - just get rid of it!!
I hope after I get things clean and organized I'll be in the mood to go back to my PC business. Maybe seeing the new fall products will get me excited again. Even my daughter noticed I'm not in the mood for PC. I just had a $900 show and didn't even care! I'm sure I'll have a smile when the commission check comes!
I agree with others - this is our business and we can run it the way we want. I am thankful I can take a break and not have to worry about answering to anyone else.
Best of luck with your new baby.
Take Care,
I can relate to what you are going through right now! Even though I am not preg., my kids are 17, 15 and 12 and in all kinds of sports and activities! Plus I have a husband who just had a massive blood clot in his leg. He is back to work, but can't do a lot in the evening. His leg swells too much. The Dr. said his leg may do it for the rest of his life!
I too have been tired my my PC business. It just seemed to be consuming my life all hours of the day. I have taken a "vacation" from it. I'm doing the shows planned and the bookings I get from them, but I'm not going out of my way right now to find new leads, etc. I've also decided not to go the Nat. Conference. It is so much fun, but I just can't put $500 or more into it right now.
I've been putting some serious time in Spring Cleaning my house - the Salvation Army is going to be so happy
! I am in the mood to throw away everything!! My house is just too small for all the stuff we have. I'm throwing away things that I have saved for 20 years - and thinking, "Why did I save that!" My advice to all of you out there just starting w/a house, kids - just get rid of it!! I hope after I get things clean and organized I'll be in the mood to go back to my PC business. Maybe seeing the new fall products will get me excited again. Even my daughter noticed I'm not in the mood for PC. I just had a $900 show and didn't even care! I'm sure I'll have a smile when the commission check comes!
I agree with others - this is our business and we can run it the way we want. I am thankful I can take a break and not have to worry about answering to anyone else.
Best of luck with your new baby.
Take Care,
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