Should I Keep Trying to Schedule Shows with My Jewelry-Selling Neighbor?

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Discussion Overview

The thread discusses the challenges of scheduling shows with a neighbor who sells jewelry, focusing on the experiences and feelings of participants regarding persistence in communication and the balance between follow-up and respect for boundaries.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal

Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares their experience of trying to schedule shows with a neighbor, expressing frustration over lack of response.
  • Another participant suggests continuing to call, indicating that four attempts may not be sufficient.
  • One user proposes leaving a final message to emphasize the importance of scheduling a show.
  • Another participant mentions an alternative approach by inviting the neighbor to a Mystery Host show to facilitate scheduling.
  • One participant expresses feeling like a "stalker" but continues to call hosts at different times to increase chances of contact.
  • Another user describes their long-term effort in calling a potential host, noting that they will continue until a show is scheduled.
  • One participant mentions a personal strategy of limiting calls to three before taking a break, preferring to focus on other bookings.
  • A participant reiterates the original poster's concerns and suggests direct communication about scheduling in June, including potential collaboration on shows.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the appropriate number of follow-up attempts and the best approach to scheduling, with some participants advocating for persistence while others suggest a more measured approach.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences related to scheduling shows, reflecting the busy nature of the season and the dynamics of neighborly relationships in a business context.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants navigating similar challenges in scheduling shows with potential hosts may find the shared experiences and strategies relevant.

loreedfk
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I have a neighbor/friend who sells jewelry - we agreed to trade shows a few months ago. I've called about 4 times since then to try to actually get the shows scheduled, but she is never there. Tonight I called and her husband said she was in the tub - but no return call. She did call here once and left a message that she was still interested. Do I give up or continue to try to schedule - I'm starting to feel like a stalker!

But I really need more June shows!!!
 
Only four times? Keep calling!
 
I would keep calling her. Maybe leave a message again saying that this is final time you are calling to schedule a show. If she really wants to schedule a show she will call back.
 
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I wasn't even going to directly schedule the show - I was just going to suggest she attend my Mystery Host show on Monday and bring her calendar along - that way she would even be getting tickets for her booking - what more could you ask for!!!
 
I have been feeling like a PC stalker lately with some of my hosts as well. It must be a really busy time of the year. I keep calling though. I call them at different times of the day to see if I can catch them. I leave messages. Eventually I get ahold of them or every once in awhile they will call me back. I think they would be more mad if we blew them off than if we kept trying to get ahold of them. The only thing you can do is keep trying. They have given you permission so until they tell you they aren't interested then bother the heck out of them. :p (in a nice way)
 
I have been calling one lady for almost a year. She keeps asking me to call back, so I will until she holds the show.
 
I will call three times and if I don't hear from them I don't quit but give it a while. After the 3 calls, I will call in a couple of weeks and then once maybe every 2 or 3 months. I don't want to be a stalker and I would rather spend my time getting other bookings.
 
BE truthful
loreedfk said:
I have a neighbor/friend who sells jewelry - we agreed to trade shows a few months ago. I've called about 4 times since then to try to actually get the shows scheduled, but she is never there. Tonight I called and her husband said she was in the tub - but no return call. She did call here once and left a message that she was still interested. Do I give up or continue to try to schedule - I'm starting to feel like a stalker!

But I really need more June shows!!!

She sells Jewelry right. She must have to make a quota Too! Explain to her you really would like to schedule her in June-Leave it on voice mail or send her a note. Offer to have it in your home. Combine both of your shows together-
 

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Should I keep trying to schedule shows with my jewelry-selling neighbor if they seem uninterested?

It's important to respect your neighbor's boundaries. If they have expressed disinterest in hosting a show, it may be best to give them some space. You can always check in later, but focusing on potential hosts who are enthusiastic about your products might yield better results.

2. What if my neighbor is busy but hasn't outright said no?

If your neighbor hasn't said no but seems busy, consider offering flexible scheduling options. You could suggest a casual gathering that fits into their schedule or offer to help them with the planning. This approach shows that you value their time and are willing to accommodate their needs.

3. How can I approach my neighbor about scheduling a show without being pushy?

To avoid coming across as pushy, try to frame the invitation as a friendly get-together rather than a sales pitch. You could mention the benefits of hosting a show, such as earning free products or having a fun night with friends, while emphasizing that there's no pressure to commit.

4. Is it worth it to keep asking my neighbor about hosting a show?

Continuously asking the same person can lead to frustration for both parties. If your neighbor has shown consistent disinterest, it may be more productive to focus your efforts on others who might be more receptive. Building relationships with potential hosts who are excited about your products can lead to better outcomes.

5. How can I support my neighbor's jewelry business while promoting my own?

Supporting your neighbor's jewelry business can create a positive relationship and open doors for collaboration. Consider hosting a joint event where both of you can showcase your products. This way, you can promote each other's businesses and attract a larger audience, benefiting both parties.

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