Prayers for a Host Whose Son Has Died

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Discussion Overview

This thread centers around expressions of sympathy and support for a past host of a participant, whose son recently died due to injuries sustained in a roadside bombing in Iraq. Participants share their condolences and personal reflections on the impact of military service and loss.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses deep sadness for the host, highlighting her positive nature and love for her children.
  • Several participants mention their prayers for the host and her family during this difficult time.
  • Another participant shares a personal connection, noting a family member's impending deployment to Iraq.
  • One participant reflects on the sacrifices made by military personnel and their families, expressing gratitude for their service.
  • Another participant recalls a personal experience with loss related to military service, sharing a memory from childhood.
  • Some participants emphasize the ongoing need for prayers, even after time has passed since the loss.
  • One participant notes the difficulty in maintaining contact with the host and mentions the loss of additional servicemen in their community.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

There appears to be a general agreement among participants on the importance of offering prayers and support to the grieving family, though individual experiences and reflections vary.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal anecdotes and reflections on military service and loss, indicating a strong emotional connection to the topic. The discussion includes both immediate condolences and longer-term reflections on grief.

Who May Find This Useful

Members of the consultant community who have experienced similar losses or wish to offer support to those affected by military service may find this discussion relevant.

quiverfull7
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I have a past host whose son died last night as a result of injuries he suffered last week in the roadside bombing in Iraq. I am so sad for her... she's the bubbliest, most encouraging woman and she has just oozed love for her children forever... I've known her for lots of years... not friends but aquaintances .. my heart hurts for her... swells with pride at his willing sacrifice for me and my family to stay free... He LOVED his military!!! Please lift Glenda and her family up before God's throne.
 
My prayers are with them.
 
Her and her family will be in my prayers

My nephew is in the Marines and station in Okinawa, Japan and is to be sent to Iraq soon, just don't know when.

God will surround her and her family and give them peace

~
 
My prayers are with them as well...
 
Oh no...

I will be praying for her and her family! Thank God there are people out there willing to serve this amazing country, but I am saddened by all of their sacrifices...especially when they lose someone like that.
 
My prayers are with the family and the fellow soldiers who witnessed the bombing.
 
Thats so sad, I will definately pray for their family.
 
Prayers from WVa!!

Sooo proud of our troops & their sacrifices!!
 
Prayers to the family! AND all the familys and soldiers serving!
 
Prayers to her & all the families who are fighting for US!
 
This was over a year ago, but I'm sure the families can use prayers even a year later as they move on after the loss.
 
Prayers to the honorable family for their ultimate sacrifice!
 
prayers for all our military and their families -
 
Diane, prayers continue to come for this family, a year later. Any update on how Glenda and the rest of the family are doing?
 
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Sadly, contact with her is difficult and I don't think she goes out very often. I'll check again with her neighbor. We have lost 2 more servicemen since then in our county.
 
quiverfull7 said:
Sadly, contact with her is difficult and I don't think she goes out very often. I'll check again with her neighbor. We have lost 2 more servicemen since then in our county.
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Well, this was probably accidentally bumped for a reason then! ;)
 
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I believe that too!
 
It is so nice when "accidents" happen for a reason!
 
Prayers and thoughts are with them.
 
When I was 11, my next door neighbor was shot down in Vietnam. He was 19. He was a lifeguard and taught so many of us kids in the neighborhood to swim. His mom was the secretary at our church and I remember so well 2 men in uniform coming to her house - then realizing she was at work and headed to church to tell her the news. I remember my mom crying - we all knew. It was summer when they drove up and we were outside and we just knew.

I carry this verse in my wallet in remembrance of him - his name was Steve and I think it was with him that I first understood death and war and the sacrifice these brave men and women give to our country. He was just a baby - 19 seemed so old to me then but it seems so young now.

"Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." JOSHUA 1:9

Diane - I didnt know about your host and Im so sorry - I did a double take at first then realized the date. I'm so sorry.
 
The family and friends of this brave soldier will be in my prayers.
 
I am so sorry and will be praying for her and the family.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I say in a prayer for a host whose son has died?

In your prayer, express your condolences and share your heartfelt sorrow for their loss. You can ask for comfort and strength for the host and their family during this difficult time. A simple yet sincere prayer could be, "May you find peace and solace in the love surrounding you, and may your son's memory be a source of comfort."

How can I support a host grieving the loss of their son?

Supporting a grieving host can involve offering your presence, listening to them, and providing practical help. You can also send a card with a personal message or offer to help with any arrangements they may need assistance with. Let them know you are there for them in whatever way they need.

Is it appropriate to mention the deceased son in my prayer?

Yes, it is appropriate to mention the deceased son in your prayer. Acknowledging their loss can be comforting to the host. You might say something like, "We remember [Son's Name] and the joy he brought to our lives. May his spirit live on in our hearts." This shows that you honor their memory and recognize the pain of their loss.

What are some comforting Bible verses to include in a prayer for a grieving host?

Some comforting Bible verses include Psalm 34:18, which says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit," and Matthew 5:4, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Including these verses can provide spiritual support and hope during their time of grief.

How can I encourage the host to seek help if they are struggling with their grief?

Encouraging the host to seek help can be done gently and compassionately. You might say, "It's important to talk about your feelings, and there are professionals who can help you through this. I can help you find someone to talk to if you'd like." Offering to accompany them to a support group or counseling session can also be a supportive gesture.

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