Non-Payment: What to Do When a Cheffer Refuses to Answer?

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A seller on a forum for chefs reported a non-payment issue with a prominent member who received the item but has not responded to multiple messages. The seller expressed frustration, considering naming the individual to gain attention. Other users weighed in, noting that most members are generally reliable and suggesting giving the non-paying member one last chance to respond. There were concerns about potential email issues that might be causing the lack of communication. The situation escalated when it was revealed that this non-payment might be part of a larger pattern of scams involving multiple users. Pampered Chef's legal department was mentioned as being involved, and moderators were alerted. One user ultimately resolved their payment issue after initially being unresponsive, leading to discussions about accountability and the emotional challenges some members face. The thread highlighted the need for caution in online transactions and the complexities of interpersonal dynamics within the community. Overall, it illustrated a mix of support, concern, and skepticism regarding member interactions and trustworthiness.
pamperedlinda said:
I'm a bad mommy too....I made my son watch dvd's all evening too I could feed my CS addiction! I promised to play with him tomorrow to make up for it though

My son played the X-Box all night so I could "clean my desk". I told my husband that is what I was going to do, but then I logged on and saw this thread. I have been working on it though and am almost done. I will have to finish it tomorrow. I think it took me about 5 hours because I have to check on here for updates every 30 seconds :o
 
CAmomCookin4U said:
Thanks Rebecca I had my dd help while you were typing. now next time I just need the quotes in the right order.

Ok next ? How do you start a thread? I forgot
Oh, I am never going to get to bed!

Go to the forum that you want your thread in and click the new thread button at the top of the page.
 
Go to the forum you want the thread in, and hit "New Thread" in the top left.

Way to go Laurel!

I think we hijacked this thread. Sorry for all those reading...I'll stop now.
 
Rebecca, we've got to stop posting the same thing at the same time......
 
My husband just went on to bed without me and asked me if I was planning on getting any sleep tonight.

I will be about to fall asleep during church tomorrow ....wait I mean today!
 
rebeccastt said:
Go to the forum you want the thread in, and hit "New Thread" in the top left.

Way to go Laurel!

I think we hijacked this thread. Sorry for all those reading...I'll stop now.
i will try that when im ready thanks:)
 
CAmomCookin4U said:
Thanks Rebecca I had my dd help while you were typing. now next time I just need the quotes in the right order.

Ok next ? How do you start a thread? I forgot

pamperedlinda said:
I promised to play with him tomorrow to make up for it though
better not see you on here tomorrow then....LOL
This is a test for the multiple quotes thing


Yeah, thanks you guys....this is cool...
 
CAmomCookin4U said:
i will try that when im ready thanks:)
Did you ever make it to your movie or have you been glued to your screen wearing out the new posts button?
 
gilliandanielle said:
Did you ever make it to your movie or have you been glued to your screen wearing out the new posts button?

Yes we did we just got back actually about 20 minutes ago.
We saw Wild Hogs with John travolta/William H Macy/ Martin Lawrence/Tim Allen and soooooo many more. It was histerical from the first second to the last. we were RITI'S Rolling in The Isle's:D :D :D
 
I am glad it was good! I thought it would be good because of who was in it, but then the previews looked not as good...
 
gilliandanielle said:
I am glad it was good! I thought it would be good because of who was in it, but then the previews looked not as good...
I know the critics (losers) said it was stupid.
Well it was stupid but funny stupid. What a great break from all the reading:)

Seriously tho we (my dd's. 20,16 1/2, and I) laughed the whole time along with the compoletely packed theatre. There was not even a crappy seat left.
 
This thread is absolutely disgusting. I still don't see anything suspicious and I cannot believe everyone is ganging up to flame Darby. I would have logged out long ago if I were her. You people have WAY too much time on your hands. I think we know each other here. I realize that it is the internet, but really now, how well do you really know your own cluster-mates? Your babysitter? Your own husband??

The thread lurkers are what really make me sick. Here they are, reading along, not wanting to step in. Just take a frickin' side! I believe that if you see an injustice, stand between a victim and her bullies! Don't just stand there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.
 
Paige Dixon said:
This thread is absolutely disgusting. I still don't see anything suspicious and I cannot believe everyone is ganging up to flame Darby. I would have logged out long ago if I were her. You people have WAY too much time on your hands. I think we know each other here. I realize that it is the internet, but really now, how well do you really know your own cluster-mates? Your babysitter? Your own husband??

The thread lurkers are what really make me sick. Here they are, reading along, not wanting to step in. Just take a frickin' side! I believe that if you see an injustice, stand between a victim and her bullies! Don't just stand there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.

OMG HOW CAN YOU COMPARE 9/11 TO THIS!?!?!?!?! Were you on one of those planes? How dare you to say what the passangers should have done! I am fortunate enough I did not know anyone in this whole tragedy, but I would NEVER judge any of them. After an event has taken place it is very easy to sit back and say well susie should have done this and johnie should have done this. Maybe I'm just seeing red because you said that the passengers on those planes were "cowards" when they were scared to death. If you were never in that situation you can not know how you would react, so please do not judge any of them!!
 
Paige Dixon said:
This thread is absolutely disgusting. I still don't see anything suspicious and I cannot believe everyone is ganging up to flame Darby. I would have logged out long ago if I were her. You people have WAY too much time on your hands. I think we know each other here. I realize that it is the internet, but really now, how well do you really know your own cluster-mates? Your babysitter? Your own husband??

Here is a fact that Darby posted that was pretty damming evidence. On 2/8/7 Darby posted that her shipment was stolen. Many Cheffers donated money so she wouldn't have to pay for everything herself.

Yesterday (3/3/7) she posted a "copy" of the check she wrote front and backside. On this check their was no check number and her name was not on it. She said the scanner cut it off, but the check had a top design on it that matched the bottom design. (this means it could not have been cut off)

When a check is cashed the bank prints the dollar amount of the check after the checking account number on the bottom of the check on the front...this was not on there. (means not cashed)

What was printed on the "back" of the check from the bank has a date of 1/30/07 Now this is before her show was even "stolen" so the back of the check that she posted could not be from the cheffers donation to her so SHE LIED about the donating everyones money.

The back and front of the check that she posted do not match.
 
Paige Dixon said:
This thread is absolutely disgusting. I still don't see anything suspicious and I cannot believe everyone is ganging up to flame Darby. I would have logged out long ago if I were her. You people have WAY too much time on your hands. I think we know each other here. I realize that it is the internet, but really now, how well do you really know your own cluster-mates? Your babysitter? Your own husband??

The thread lurkers are what really make me sick. Here they are, reading along, not wanting to step in. Just take a frickin' side! I believe that if you see an injustice, stand between a victim and her bullies! Don't just stand there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.

1. If you don't see anything suspicious, then you and I have very different definitions of the word suspicious.

2. I know my husband quite well, thank you.

3. How do you know that there is a single lurker on this site? Just because there are people logged into Chef Success doesn't mean that they are reading this post.

4. Just because someone doesn't post doesn't mean that they are lurking. Just as not everyone needs to hear themself talk, some people may not have posted because someone else already said what they felt needed to be said.

5. Your reference to the 9/11 attack is just deplorable, and you trivialize the lives all those who died in any of those attacks by the comparison. How shallow of you.
 
cooking.with.ann said:
1. If you don't see anything suspicious, then you and I have very different definitions of the word suspicious.

2. I know my husband quite well, thank you.

3. How do you know that there is a single lurker on this site? Just because there are people logged into Chef Success doesn't mean that they are reading this post.

4. Just because someone doesn't post doesn't mean that they are lurking. Just as not everyone needs to hear themself talk, some people may not have posted because someone else already said what they felt needed to be said.

5. Your reference to the 9/11 attack is just deplorable, and you trivialize the lives all those who died in any of those attacks by the comparison. How shallow of you.

I fully agree.

I also know my DH very well.
 
rebeccastt said:
I know we'd all like to have a sense of security back, but if we add our consultant's number to our signature, what's to keep someone from making up a number? We have no way of verifying if a number is authentic! Anyone have any ideas on this?
I didn't add it as a way to give anyone else a sense of security, but instead as a reaction to Darby's thinly-veiled threat:
thechefofnorthbend said:
I didnt know that anyone (besides your upline) could call and get information about any consultant. That to me is really interesting. Good to know in case I question someones motives, I could always call HO up and start my own investigation.
 
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Chefgirl2 said:
OK I signed in 1999and I'm 145840. I'll be calling PC tomorrow to put a guard on my account...and we all know why...Thanks to Darby for the not so veiled threat...

Dinner was great! But poor DH just heard me vent. I think having me on CS all day..literally...was his real gift to me. When you all see him on the trip tell him how great he is...Whoohoo PB you rock!

PC and CS will be better off without the nastiness and negativity we have had lately. Keep a look out for similar vocabulary and odd suggestions until Greg has this completely secure. Who knows who is lurking.

Thanks for all of the B-Day wishes! Elaine

Which trip are you going on Elaine?
 
Paige Dixon said:
This thread is absolutely disgusting. I still don't see anything suspicious and I cannot believe everyone is ganging up to flame Darby. I would have logged out long ago if I were her. You people have WAY too much time on your hands. I think we know each other here. I realize that it is the internet, but really now, how well do you really know your own cluster-mates? Your babysitter? Your own husband??

The thread lurkers are what really make me sick. Here they are, reading along, not wanting to step in. Just take a frickin' side! I believe that if you see an injustice, stand between a victim and her bullies! Don't just stand there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.

We are all entitled to an opinion. Maybe you were not duped like we were or maybe you should read the evidence again, it's pretty damning when you re-read it (both threads). I too really didn't want to believe what I was reading or that I had been victimized - and I tried very hard not to, but the evidence just kept mounding. And, yes, we are mad about it.

As for your last two sentences....I have no words suitable for posting.....
 
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Paige Dixon said:
there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.


okay now THAT was uncalled for !!! I think maybe just maybe YOU should think before you post!!! :mad:
 
WOW!!!!! Holy C**P!!!!

Can this thread take any more wrong turns!

This gal Darby is why I have such a suspicious nature. I felt for her in the original thread where her boxes were stolen but something just seemed wierd to me. No way was I sending money.
One time UPS delivered one of my hosts 3 boxes to a totally different address. I called HO. They immediately shipped the host a replacement box and took care of the misdelivered one. No questions no hassle.


Originally Posted by Paige Dixon
there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.

As for this I have no words to explain how misguided I think your rationality is!
 
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I cannot even believe this thread is being compared to 9/11. I have absolutely nothing to say except that I am speechless. :eek: :( :eek: :mad:
 
Atlantis Wave 1
dannyzmom said:
Which trip are you going on Elaine?


We are going on To Atlantis on Wave 1!
But, if you all know anything about Louisville, Kentucky where I live, then you know the week we'll be in Atlantis is Derby week! We'll miss a lot of the most fun week of the year, here in KY! It is one big party. We have the Boat Races, a huge Derby Parade, The Balloon glow with races, the oaks races and of course the KY Derby races. Plus, they have live bands everynight for about 10 days at Waterfront Park...it is so much fun!!

We can't take wave 2 because my son's bday is then and we missed it last year on the cruise:rolleyes:

That's okay!! I can't wait to sink my feet in the sand and meet a lot of you!
 
etteluap70PC said:
WOW!!!!! Holy C**P!!!!

Can this thread take any more wrong turns!

This gal Darby is why I have such a suspicious nature. I felt for her in the original thread where her boxes were stolen but something just seemed wierd to me. No way was I sending money.
One time UPS delivered one of my hosts 3 boxws to a totally different address. I called HO. They immediately shipped the host a replacement box and took care of the misdelivered one. No questions no hassle.


Originally Posted by Paige Dixon
there watching like a coward! If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.

As for this I have no words to explain how misguided I think your rationality is

That is quite a statement...Maybe you want to edit that Paige. There are a lot of people that would be really offended by that. Go to your original reply and hit edit if you want. I don't know if it will take off the replies. Let's hope.

Like it has been said. Read both threads and make an informed opinion. These are facts. Even if Darby comes up w/ a check...the show was never stolen...none of this is real.
 
Paige Dixon said:
If more people stood up to injustice, those planes would've never taken down the World Trade Center towers. All of those "lurkers" on those planes should have taken those box-cutter men down before the planes crashed.
Either participate in the thread or don't, but don't just read along without taking a stand here.

This is the most disgusting post I have ever read.

SHAME ON YOU!! SHAME ON YOU!! SHAME ON YOU!!!

I hope you re-read what you posted and feel horrible not only for comparing people on here to those dispickable animals, but calling those people who lost their lives "lurkers". How can those poor souls rest in peace with comments like that. I really can't believe I have read this today. I'm ashamed that their are people out there that would make those kinds of statements.
If there is anybody on here right now who lost anybody in 9/11 please know that my heart is full of shame right now. PEACE!!
 
I wasn't trying to compare this to the atrocity from 9/11, but point out that the fact that people seem to stand by and watch rather than act when they see wrong.

I know there are lurkers because many commented that they are "staying out of this thread" except to comment on something technical.

I can't believe that someone would spend this much time and effort to gain a couple hundred dollars. Imagine what would have been made by spending that time and effort on the business. People ganging up on one idea is different. I hate to see everyone gang up on one person.
 
By the way, if you're the one that ever ends up being ganged up on, I'll take stand up for you, too.
 
O/T but Kentucky derby
Chefgirl2 said:
We are going on To Atlantis on Wave 1!
But, if you all know anything about Louisville, Kentucky where I live, then you know the week we'll be in Atlantis is Derby week! We'll miss a lot of the most fun week of the year, here in KY! It is one big party. We have the Boat Races, a huge Derby Parade, The Balloon glow with races, the oaks races and of course the KY Derby races. Plus, they have live bands everynight for about 10 days at Waterfront Park...it is so much fun!!

We can't take wave 2 because my son's bday is then and we missed it last year on the cruise:rolleyes:

That's okay!! I can't wait to sink my feet in the sand and meet a lot of you!
my upline was selected to chef for the derby this year.(What a huge Honor):) I have never been, but love the Depiction of it in Pretty Woman:D
 
Paige Dixon said:
I wasn't trying to compare this to the atrocity from 9/11, but point out that the fact that people seem to stand by and watch rather than act when they see wrong.

I know there are lurkers because many commented that they are "staying out of this thread" except to comment on something technical.

I can't believe that someone would spend this much time and effort to gain a couple hundred dollars. Imagine what would have been made by spending that time and effort on the business. People ganging up on one idea is different. I hate to see everyone gang up on one person.

Well I'm sorry you feel that those people died cause they were scared and didn't act!! But I'm leaving that alone cause it's making me sick.
Honey, you've spent just as much time reading these threads as everyone else on here. Get off your high stinking horse and spend some time on the business as you say!!

(on a side note thanks to KG for explaining the Ignore Button/I'm using it today. Sorry for my harshness to everyone, never in all my time here have I ever been so upset)
 
Paige I am trying to give you the benefit of the doubt about not trying to compare this thread to 9/11..but i'm having a hard time with you not apologizing for making the comment that can hurt so many peoples feelings. To me that comment was so much worse than taking someones money...you just put down all the people that were taken hostage and killed and said oh well they could have prevented it.

I see that you are in CO...I am in WI and we were not as touched by 9/11 as those in NY and Washington DC. Yes I saw it on TV but it was not the same as having it in my home town, they felt it on a greater level than I can ever imagine. You need to be considerate of those peoples feelings that knew someone who's life was lost or affected by that date. When it comes to 9/11 or the war (many of us have loved ones in iraq and other dangerous areas) you need to be very careful of what you say, you can very easily hurt someones feelings. What you said was very crass.

For anyone that knew anyone that was harmed at all my prayers are with you.

I agree...after this post I am putting on the ignore button so it does not bother me any more. I also have not been this upset/hurt in a long time. I'm sorry but I have two brothers that are Marines and it just bothers me when someone makes light of any of the deaths. Since the first one joined I treasure every moment I get to talk/spend with them.

Now I'm off to study for a very loooong time
 
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