So, our plan was never to have Mary sleep with us. I never liked the idea of co-sleeping. Until... the night she was scared. And, we brought her into bed with us, and snuggled. It doesn't happen every night, but most nights when she wakes up in the middle of the night, we bring her in with us. I don't know if its the trauma we went through, but I feel better when I know she's close and I know she's OK. I'm not talking about a battle of wills (that's getting her down for her nap!), where she is trying to get her way. There are nights she is really scared. What are your feelings on this?