Ok ladies . . .I have a show a the end of the month but the host is giving her granddaughter the benefits so she wants it to be kinda a bridal show but she doesn't want the guest to feel they must buy a gift for the bride she just wants them to buy something to help earn the bride more free. So . . .someone please help me come up with an invite. I don't know if I should just use the reg postcard invites or make something else . . .:cry: HELP. Not sure I even really know what to to with this show. Should I do it as a shower or as a reg show . . . I am sooooo confused this is my first shower type show if you even want to call it that.:yuck: PLEASE HELP . . . .