Book Your Next Party and Earn Credit: The Case of a Rude Potential Hostess

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Discussion Overview

This thread discusses a participant's experience with a potential hostess who was unresponsive and rude during attempts to book a show. Participants share their reactions to the situation and offer various perspectives on how to handle similar encounters in the future.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Debate/contested

Main Points Raised

  • One participant recounts her frustration with a potential hostess who hung up on her, expressing disappointment over the lack of communication.
  • Another participant questions the idea of offering a discount to someone who was rude, suggesting it may not be a wise choice.
  • Several users mention the importance of letting go of negative interactions and not investing time in unresponsive individuals.
  • One participant suggests that the original poster should focus on the sister who expressed interest in becoming a consultant instead of the rude hostess.
  • Another participant emphasizes that a simple "no thank you" would have sufficed in the situation, highlighting the rudeness of the potential hostess.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

There appears to be a general agreement among participants that the rudeness of the potential hostess is unacceptable and that it may be best to move on from the situation. However, opinions differ on whether to offer a discount or how to approach the potential consultant.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences and feelings regarding interactions with potential hosts and the emotional impact of rudeness in business settings.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who encounter similar challenges with potential hosts may find the shared experiences and perspectives relevant to their own situations.

Chef_2_Four
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I had a lady at my first show for June say she was interested in a show. Her sisters had already both booked a show. Well I called her 2 times trying to get ahold of her and left a message, explaining that if she wanted to book a show to call me so her mom would get the credit for it. She never called me back so the day I was closing the show I called her one last time. (there were days in between each phone call). Well she hung up on me as soon as she heard who I was! I talked to her mom and told well I tried calling so and so but the phone disconected if she wants to book a show tell her to call me. Her mom told me she decided not to have a show. Well she could have just told me that on the phone instead of being rude! Anyway it is really bothering me that she hung up on me. I thought about calling her and offering a 10% discount at her sisters show. What do you think? According to one of her sisters she wants to sign up to sell PC!! :eek: She can't even tell me she doesn't want to have a show! What would she do to a customer??? She is pregnant but I was never rude like that when I was pregnant!
 
You'd offer a 10% discount to someone who hung up on you?!!?!? As for her wanting to sign up - is this someone you'd want on your team?
I'd let sleeping dogs lie.
 
Let it go.... how would she run a business if she is so rude to hang up on you???
 
Bless and release....this woman is not worth your time.
 
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DebbieJ said:
Bless and release....this woman is not worth your time.
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That is what I was thinking after I posted this. As for wanting to sell PC her sister said they both wanted to do it but do as one person as a team kinda thing. I never talked to her about it. Thanks ladies!
 
Debbie,
I think you should call the sister and talk to her about becoming a consultant, but don't acknowledge the one who hung up on you until she acknowledges you. You can't read her mind and we aren't in third grade. If she wants something or has a problem with something you shouldn't be hearing it from someone else. Unless she talks to you personally, she hasn't said anything.
JAE
 
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I am still going to talk to her sister about being a consultant. It really hurt my feelings that she hung up on me! But I will get over it, I know that I can't take things personally. Her sister, Suzie, is the one that said THEY wanted to do it, so she may not have even talked to her sister about it.
 
No way would I offer a discount to someone who hung up on me...bless and release.
 
Some people are just plain rude and all you are doing is trying to be nice. Forget em! There's no reason for that. How dramatic! A simple "No thank you" would have suficed.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if a potential hostess is rude during our conversation about booking a party?

If a potential hostess is rude, it's important to remain professional and calm. Acknowledge their feelings and try to redirect the conversation to the benefits of hosting a Pampered Chef party. If they continue to be disrespectful, it may be best to politely end the conversation and focus on other potential hosts who are more enthusiastic.

How can I encourage a potential hostess to book a party despite their rude behavior?

To encourage a potential hostess to book a party, focus on the positive aspects of hosting, such as earning free products and having fun with friends. Share success stories from previous hosts and highlight any special promotions that may be available. Sometimes, a little enthusiasm can help change their attitude.

Is it worth my time to pursue a potential hostess who has been rude?

While it's important to be persistent, it's also crucial to recognize when to move on. If a potential hostess is consistently rude and unresponsive, it may be more beneficial to invest your time in other leads who are more receptive and excited about hosting a party.

What are some strategies to handle difficult conversations with potential hostesses?

Some strategies include active listening, maintaining a positive tone, and using open-ended questions to keep the conversation flowing. If the discussion becomes tense, try to steer it back to the benefits of hosting. If necessary, take a break and revisit the conversation later when emotions have cooled.

How can I turn a negative experience with a rude potential hostess into a learning opportunity?

Reflect on the interaction to identify what could have been handled differently. Consider what you learned about communication styles and how to better manage difficult conversations in the future. Each experience can help you develop your skills and improve your approach with future potential hostesses.

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