Bedrest and Baby Guesses: Celebrating My Birthday at Home!

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Discussion Overview

This thread centers around a participant's experience with bed rest during pregnancy, particularly in relation to celebrating their birthday at home. Various participants share their personal experiences with bed rest, offer support, and discuss the emotional aspects of pregnancy and loss.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Supportive

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, shares their experience of being on bed rest and the challenges of celebrating a birthday at home.
  • Another participant recounts a humorous story about their own experience with bed rest and surgery, highlighting the unexpected benefits of being cared for.
  • Several users mention the importance of taking advantage of the rest period, suggesting activities like addressing Christmas cards or making customer care calls.
  • One participant reflects on their lengthy bed rest experience, emphasizing the value of rest before the arrival of children.
  • Another participant expresses sadness about missing their students while on bed rest, indicating a strong emotional connection to their work.
  • Some participants share their thoughts on gender predictions based on heart rates, with a few guessing girls.
  • One participant discusses the emotional complexity of experiencing a loss during pregnancy, sharing their own story of a similar situation.
  • Several users express sympathy and offer prayers for the participant's well-being and the health of the remaining twin.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ regarding the emotional experience of bed rest and pregnancy complications, with some participants sharing positive reflections while others express sadness and concern. No clear consensus emerges on the best way to cope with bed rest.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects a range of personal experiences related to pregnancy, bed rest, and emotional support within the community. Participants share their stories in a supportive environment, acknowledging both the challenges and the joys of pregnancy.

Who May Find This Useful

Expecting parents, particularly those facing bed rest or pregnancy complications, may find the shared experiences and emotional support within this thread relevant and comforting.

Kattyschack
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So yesterday I had some spotting and so they checked me out and my bleed has gotten bigger and since they want to make sure that I am ok as well as the twins, I am now on bed rest for 2 weeks. My birthday is Friday and I can't do a thing! We did get the heart rate yesterday for the first time. One is 165 and the other is 157. My girlfriend said that they must be girls b/c of their rates. Guess we will find out in 7 months since we don't want to know what we are having. In the meantime, all the guesses from people so far and what they are based on have been fun to listen to.

Sorry so long, I am sitting at home on the couch bored out of my mind!:rolleyes:
 
Well sorry to hear your on bedrest...however, look at the bright side, you will have to be waited on hand and foot! That's a pretty good birthday present if you ask me!!

A funny story:
I had foot surgery a few years ago and DH was so overwhelmed he left for a few hours to go see a movie. He said the next time I have the other foot done, HIRE A NURSE! LOL It was comical, and I know he didn't mean it , but I couldn't even walk to the bathroom! But it was nice while it lasted! ;)
 
Sorry to hear about the spotting. Take advantage of the bed rest while you can, because once those twins are born, you are D - U - N, dun! :).

Do you have your Christmas cards done yet? You could address those while in bed. You can make customer care calls, too! Have a bed-side sale!

Take care and get some rest.
 
Sorry to hear about your bed rest hopefully your two weeks will go smoothly and fast for you. Just don't over do when it is over since christmas is coming up. You could take up reading or even coloring haha just kidding I hope you start to feel better soon and the twins are okay from here on out.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Oh why is it when you can't sit down on the couch for two weeks you want to and when you are stuck on the couch or in bed you just want to do something!

So sorry to hear about your spotting. I'll be praying for you and your twins.

I'm guessing girls too:)!
 
My BFs cousin had all of the signs of a girl, but the ultrasound says boy! good luck, I'd die if I had to lay on the couch for two weeks even though I am ready for a break, that is a long time!
 
I was on bedrest with my last pregnancy for 5 weeks! At first I thought I was going to go crazy but it was actually really nice. Because once those kiddos come you will never have a peaceful moment. I don't mean for that to sound negative but honestly, ENJOY IT!

I enjoyed reading my bible, praying, listening to quiet, resting and watching Food Network DVD's that my hubby ordered for me on eBay (Paula Deen and Alton Brown my favorites).

I pray that you will feel better and enjoy your bedrest. Besides it will be worth it to have those healthy babies!! This is my sixth pregnancy and I am taking it easy! Well as easy as possible with 5 kids, homeschooling and running a household! HA HA HA My hubby is great and the naps are wonderful!

Debbie :D
 
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I am on my 4th week of bed rest and will be out next week also. Will I ever make it back to school? I have found out that some of my first graders don't want to go back to school till I go back....How can I not be sad! I sure miss them!!!
 
You must be getting sooo restless!!! Hang in there.
 
So sorry you are still on bed rest. I hope you get to get up on your feet soon.
 
I don't know how I missed this thread before. Take care. You'll be in my prayers. Yes, sadness is probably pretty common in your situation. Just remember that rest is something you'll crave after that little one arrives.
 
I was on bedrest for 11 weeks at the end of my pregnancy...not fun at all, but SO worthwhile because I looked at every single day as one that was helping the kids. I definitely had "down" days, where I was really bummed out. But DH was good about keeping water stocked in a cooler next to the couch. The doctor told me drinking lots of water is what actually made the difference for me. :) DH also helped me find movies to watch and things like that. Someone on this thread already said it, but let me repeat...get lots of rest now while you can because once those kids are here, you won't get much for a while! :) Bless you and your growing family, and take care of yourself! Keep us posted on how you're doing.

ETA: Following from what Diane posted below me, I wanted to offer my sympathies, too...we're going to add you to our prayer list, so you'll have some extra prayer power.
 
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Kattyschack, I just read the other thread telling us you lost one of the twins. I'm very sorry for your loss. I'll be praying for you!
 
So sorry you lost one of your twins - keeping good thoughts for the rest of your pregnancy. When I was pregnant with my daughter (my 3rd and last child) - I went in early for an ultrasound since I had suffered a miscarriage the year before. They did the ultrasound and determined I had been pregnant with twins but one had been lost. I wouldn't have even known had I not gone in for the early ultrasound. I definitely had mixed feelings - you're happy that your baby is healthy but sad cause the other one didn't make it. My pregnancy went smoothly and I delivered a 9 lb 4 oz baby girl - a wonderful blessing - couldn't imagine my life without her! I will keep you in my prayers.
 
I hope that you are well enough to get off of bed rest soon -- I'll be thinking of you! So far I've avoided bed rest, but have been warned to expect it down the road.Good tip on the water, I KNOW I'm not drinking enough and am trying to figure out how to get more in (when I was preg. with my daughter it was easy because I was sitting at a desk all day -- now I'm chasing a 2 1/2 year old and it's not so easy to remember to drink!)Keep us informed (and I too am very sorry for your loss as I posted in the other thread).
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is "Bedrest and Baby Guesses: Celebrating My Birthday at Home!"?

"Bedrest and Baby Guesses: Celebrating My Birthday at Home!" is a unique celebration that combines the joy of a birthday party with the excitement of guessing the arrival of a new baby. It typically involves friends and family gathering virtually or in a cozy home setting to share in the festivities while accommodating the needs of someone on bedrest.

How can I participate in the birthday celebration if I can't attend in person?

If you can't attend in person, you can participate by joining a virtual gathering through video calls. You can also send gifts, cards, or even participate in baby guessing games online. Many hosts create social media events or use messaging apps to keep everyone connected.

What activities are typically included in the celebration?

Activities can include baby guessing games, sharing birthday wishes, enjoying cake and snacks, and engaging in fun conversations. Some may also include crafting or creating personalized gifts for the mom-to-be, making it a memorable experience for everyone involved.

What kind of gifts are appropriate for this celebration?

Appropriate gifts can include items for the mom-to-be, such as pampering products, books, or gift cards. Additionally, baby-related gifts like clothes, toys, or essentials are also welcome. It's thoughtful to consider the preferences of the birthday person and the expectant mother when selecting gifts.

How can I make the celebration special for the birthday person on bedrest?

To make the celebration special, consider personalizing the experience with decorations, favorite foods, and heartfelt messages. You can also organize a surprise element, like a video montage from friends and family, or create a themed gift basket that reflects their interests and the upcoming baby.

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