When People Hang Up On Me: Dealing with the Pain of Rejection

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores the emotional impact of receiving hang-ups during phone calls, particularly in the context of hosting Pampered Chef shows. Participants share their personal experiences with rude interactions and express feelings of hurt and frustration when faced with such situations.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses that hang-ups hurt their feelings and questions why people answer the phone if they do not want to talk.
  • Another participant shares a similar experience, noting the rudeness of a host who hung up after answering the call.
  • Several users agree that such behavior is rude and unnecessary, wishing for more honesty from hosts.
  • One participant suggests that there could be various reasons for hang-ups, such as embarrassment or technical issues.
  • Another participant recounts a negative experience with a host who stiffed them for payment, highlighting feelings of anger and disgust towards rude behavior.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree that hang-ups are rude and express similar feelings of hurt and frustration. However, there are differing opinions on the potential reasons behind such behavior, with some suggesting possible misunderstandings.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences of Pampered Chef consultants dealing with rejection and rudeness in their business interactions.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who have faced similar experiences with hang-ups or rude interactions may find the shared feelings and anecdotes relatable.

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I know I shouldn't take things personally but when people hang up on me it really does hurt my feelings:cry: I just had a host who is supposed to have a show hang up on me, I know some people are really passive aggressive, but REALLY. I was offering to come by and pick up her guest list since she didn't make it here yesterday. BTW she didn't answer the phone, someone just picked up and clicked.
I think I can remember each person who has hung up on me and I get upset when I think about it, if you have caller id and don't want to talk to me why answer your phone? or better yet answer and just tell me no or cancel instead of dragging it out, that doesn't hurt my feelings.I keep telling my self people are more stressed than they used to be and really people are just RUDE these days, but it doesn't really help. Please tell me some of you get hang ups too and it's not just me.:DThanks for letting me get this off my chest.
 
Some people are so rude, aren't they? I had a host hang up on me too. Obviously she didn't end up holding her show LOL!She answered her phone, said hello, I introduced myself, and then next thing I know, CLICK! The nerve!Don't take it personally....people have no manners.
 
I agree completely. People can be so awful sometimes.
 
Nasty! And yes it's rude and unnecessary. I do wish hosts would just be honest upfront rather than be rude or never answer their phone! lol

Just maybe she was somewhere and couldn't pick up? She was trying to silence the phone quickly and just answered and hung up because she was embarrassed that her ringer was on? I know, I'm reaching.
 
Yes, it could be many things. Child answered the phone, low battery & the phone died when they tried to answer, etc.

DebbieJ - same with your's ... did you call back? What if her battery died at that point (cordless or cell) and she didn't have your number right there to call you back?
 
Sheila said:
Yes, it could be many things. Child answered the phone, low battery & the phone died when they tried to answer, etc.

DebbieJ - same with your's ... did you call back? What if her battery died at that point (cordless or cell) and she didn't have your number right there to call you back?
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Called her right back and then again a few more times. Also emailed her and got no response.
 
:( That's a little more obvious than a hangup. Sorry you had someone be so rude.
 
I think it's pretty safe to assume that the show isn't going to happen.
 
Ugh...I hate rude people! I had a host that stiffed me for payment on a party (long story, I will spare you the details!).Once when I called a man answered, I introduced myself, I heard some giggling in the background then they hung up. After that you could not leave a message, no one would pick up, etc.

As fate would have it, I went to a new medical center and low and behold...guess who was a nurse there!!! (Not my or I would have left a piece of my mind with her!). The most hilarious part was seeing her recognize me as I cheerily greeted her by name asking her how she was doing. She looked like this :bugeye:. She ordered from a party and paid cash, did not fill out her contact information. She was short on cash so I cancelled an item on her order and wrote her a letter to tell her why...having no contact info, I could not ask you so I made the decision for her. She did have change coming back which I did refund her. (was hardly enough to cover what she stiffed me for). I felt it was a good way to make her feel even more like crap...if she has a conscious.

PLEASE do not take this personally. It does hurt our feelings, however. Soon that hurt will turn to anger and disgust on how rude people can be. Guess it makes them feel better if they do not respond.:confused:
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do immediately after someone hangs up on me?

Take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts. It's natural to feel hurt or frustrated, but try to shift your focus to the next opportunity. Reflect on the call briefly to identify any areas for improvement, but avoid dwelling on the rejection.

How can I prevent feeling discouraged after a hang-up?

Remind yourself that rejection is a normal part of sales and does not reflect your worth or abilities. Develop a positive mindset by focusing on your successes and the potential for future connections. Surround yourself with supportive colleagues or friends who understand the challenges of direct sales.

What are some strategies to handle rejection more effectively?

Practice resilience by reframing rejection as a learning experience. Set realistic expectations for your calls and remember that not every interaction will lead to a sale. Consider role-playing scenarios with a peer to build confidence and improve your response to rejection.

How can I maintain motivation in the face of repeated hang-ups?

Set specific goals for yourself, such as the number of calls to make each day or the number of follow-ups. Celebrate small victories and remind yourself of the reasons you chose to work in direct sales. Keeping a positive affirmation or mantra can also help maintain motivation.

Is it helpful to seek feedback after a hang-up?

Yes, seeking feedback can be beneficial. If appropriate, ask the person if they would be willing to share their reasons for hanging up. This can provide valuable insights that help you improve your approach. However, be prepared for the possibility that not everyone will be willing to engage further.

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