Trying to Boost a Friend's Spirits After an Unexpected Setback

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Discussion Overview

This thread discusses experiences and strategies related to handling low attendance at Pampered Chef shows. Participants share personal anecdotes and suggestions for boosting morale and salvaging shows after setbacks.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares that their new recruit experienced a show with no attendees and expressed feelings of inadequacy in providing support.
  • Another participant mentions that low turnout is common and suggests asking hosts to seek outside orders to improve the situation.
  • Several users recount personal experiences where hosts turned low attendance into successful shows by appealing to attendees' sympathy, resulting in significant orders.
  • One participant notes that their sister-in-law had a similar experience, where minimal attendance led to a successful show through follow-up orders.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the best approach to take after a low-attendance show, with some participants emphasizing the importance of leveraging the situation for future opportunities while others focus on emotional support.

Contextual Notes

Participants share personal experiences from their own shows and those of their recruits, highlighting the emotional challenges and potential for recovery in similar situations.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants looking for insights on managing setbacks in show attendance and seeking encouragement from shared experiences within the community may find this discussion relevant.

Nicky
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My new recruit had her first real show on Sat afternoon. NO ONE SHOWED UP NO ONE She called me CRYING. I told her that she needs to step outside of her comfort zone and ask some of the people she was scared to ask. I keep trying to boost her sprits up but kinda think I am not doing a good job at it. Any advice??
 
Tell her everyone has a bad show...ask the host to try and salvage it with outside orders. My Sat. show had low turnout too - the weather was just beautiful out! Tell her to keep chugging!
 
Have her use it to her advantage. I had a host that no one showed. She ended up with a $1000 show because she'd say, "I'm sorry you weren't able to come. In fact, NO ONE came. It was really bad because the consultant drove a hour and brought all the food but no one showed up." Everyone felt so bad that they placed a big order.

I would have her ask each person she thought would come if they would be willing to book a show so that she could meet more people. Have her take advantage of being new. People really do seem to want to help someone starting out....
 
beepampered said:
Have her use it to her advantage. I had a host that no one showed. She ended up with a $1000 show because she'd say, "I'm sorry you weren't able to come. In fact, NO ONE came. It was really bad because the consultant drove a hour and brought all the food but no one showed up." Everyone felt so bad that they placed a big order.
Ooh- I like that wording. I should have my Saturday host call all her friends with that script. (Nobody showed up to that one, either.)
 
beepampered said:
Have her use it to her advantage. I had a host that no one showed. She ended up with a $1000 show because she'd say, "I'm sorry you weren't able to come. In fact, NO ONE came. It was really bad because the consultant drove a hour and brought all the food but no one showed up." Everyone felt so bad that they placed a big order.

I would have her ask each person she thought would come if they would be willing to book a show so that she could meet more people. Have her take advantage of being new. People really do seem to want to help someone starting out....
Excellent! This happened to my SIL, only two buying people showed up. They felt bad that no one else showed up and their combined orders come out to $115. She came back three days later with all kinds of outside orders from those that didn't show, she even told her story to her boss and her boss ordered cookware! She closed her show at $1000 too.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

What are some simple ways to cheer up a friend after a setback?

One simple way to cheer up a friend is to spend quality time with them. You could invite them for a coffee or a casual meal. Engaging in light-hearted activities, such as watching a funny movie or going for a walk, can also help lift their spirits. Additionally, sending them a thoughtful message or a small gift can show that you care and are thinking of them.

How can I offer support without being intrusive?

It's important to respect your friend's space while offering support. You can start by simply letting them know that you are there for them if they want to talk. Use open-ended questions to encourage them to share their feelings, but be ready to listen without pushing them to open up. Sometimes, just being present and offering a listening ear can be the best support.

Should I share my own experiences with setbacks to help my friend?

Sharing your own experiences can be helpful, but it’s important to do so in a way that doesn’t overshadow your friend’s feelings. If you choose to share, make sure to keep the focus on them and validate their emotions. You can say something like, "I went through something similar, and it was tough, but I learned that it’s okay to feel upset." This way, you can relate without minimizing their experience.

What activities can we do together to help them feel better?

Engaging in fun or relaxing activities can significantly boost your friend's mood. Consider cooking a meal together using Pampered Chef products, as the process can be therapeutic and enjoyable. Other ideas include going for a hike, attending a local event, or even doing a craft project. The key is to choose activities that allow for connection and distraction from their worries.

How can I encourage my friend to seek professional help if needed?

If you feel your friend may benefit from professional help, approach the topic gently. You might say, "I’ve noticed you’ve been having a tough time, and I think talking to someone who can help might be beneficial." Offer to help them find resources or even accompany them to their first appointment if they feel comfortable. Emphasize that seeking help is a sign of strength and that you support them in taking that step.

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