Trish in Texas: Seeking Help After Husband's On-the-Job Firing

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Discussion Overview

The thread centers around a participant, Trish, who is seeking support after her husband was fired for drinking on the job. Participants share their personal experiences and suggestions for resources and support in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, as well as emotional support for Trish during this challenging time.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based
  • Exploratory

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, shares her experience of using the United Way for resources and suggests that Trish reach out to them.
  • Another participant mentions that local churches can provide guidance and assistance, even if one does not attend services there.
  • Several users express emotional support for Trish, offering prayers and encouragement during her difficult situation.
  • One participant lists specific resources such as the North Texas Food Bank and temporary financial aid options available in Texas.
  • Another participant suggests that Trish consider applying for free or reduced meal programs for school-aged children based on her current income situation.
  • Some participants discuss the importance of insurance, particularly for Trish's husband’s diabetes, and share their personal experiences with insurance costs.
  • One participant emphasizes the need for Trish to attend Al-Anon meetings for her own support while her husband navigates his recovery.
  • Several participants mention the importance of seeking help from local food banks and community resources.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree on the importance of seeking community resources and emotional support, though there is no clear consensus on specific actions Trish should take regarding her husband's recovery.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects a range of personal experiences and suggestions related to coping with job loss, addiction, and financial difficulties, particularly within the context of the Dallas/Fort Worth area.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants and community members facing similar personal challenges or seeking support resources may find the shared experiences and suggestions helpful.

Rae said what I wanted to say. Good for you for taking control. FPU is a fabulous step to take, and will help you not only with just the money, but with the support you will find there.
 
Stay strong! sending prayers your way
 
Trish,
I am so sorry. I hope that you and your families situation improve. God bless you.
Katie
 
Trish in Texas said:
I have news...I am moving to my own apartment this weekend. It's small but neat and clean...has a hot tub and fitness center and covered parking. It has taken much to get me there...he kept drinking but seems to have stopped now (?1?). He can't get unemployment and is working a dinky part-time job that doesn't pay anything. My folks have stepped in to help me and thank goodness friends are helping me move. My husband doesn't seem interested in seeking out help like I have. He thinks he can continue to live in the house with no electricity or heat or water until they foreclose on the house. I have to leave my beloved chihauhaus here and am sad about that. Now, I am praying for a full-time job that has good benefits. I'm kind of worried because our bankruptcy has fallen through and now I will owe mega-bucks. Going tonight to a friend's church to attend the 13-week Dave Ramsay Financial Peace University.

Thanks guys for listening to my ramblings!

Trish in Texas
Independent Consultant
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Good Grief!!! You cannot leave your dogs!!! Please give them to someone or take them with you! HE will not take care of them! You might as well bring them to a shelter! I KNEW I didn't want to read this, now I'm SO sorry I did. :mad:
 
Holding you in my prayers. Starting over is never easy, but it's the first step to getting your life back.
 
Trish you are a very strong person for doing what you are doing. It is one thing to know what you need to do but it takes so much strength to do it. I too hope you can figure out something for your dogs. If he will not be taking care of himself, he certainly will not take care of them. I am still praying for you!
 
Moving ahead is not always an easy set of stairs to climb. Just take it one step at a time and you'll make it girl! :D
 
Praying for you...Here is a glimpse into your near future: You will look around a new space you are living in, with a small twinge of sadness for what isn't there -
- familiarity
-not yet a favorite view
-less comfortable neighborhood relationships
- but something you notice will absolutely take your breath away... peace of mind. Suddenly, a smile will break out; you might end up laughing to yourself - no worrying about
-will your resources still be available
-will your car still work
-will things you bought and intended for later still be there
-will others still regard you wella brighter tomorrow awaits. Blessings to you, and your puppies too. -Scott
 
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MOVING DAY...10 am.
 
Trish, I am SO proud of you!!! Scott's words are so true. Expect some challenges,but keep looking forward. Life will get better for you.

Dave Ramsey is incredible. Very logical steps to get you back on your feet and to a better place. God knows you need financial peace as well as emotional peace.

Your husband may get a wake up call and for his sake, I hope he does, but you are taking care of yourself and that is #1. Again, I am so proud of your strength in recognizing that you can not get dragged down into his addiction.

I am guesing that you may not be able to take you dogs because of a no pet policy. If you can't get them to another home, then keep a close eye on them because I too think they may be ignored. The good thing is...they can bite!!

Keep looking forward. Life is going to throw you curve balls, but it sounds to me as if you have got a great handle on things!

Stay strong and keep in touch as to how you are doing!
 
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Thank you, all, for kind words. I am glad I am doing Dave Ramsay. My first night was eventful..I fell on my face (tripped over my own two left feet). Have very black eye...interesting to have at my product demonstrator job!! We have a couple of people interested in buying the house. My folks, who are in their 80's but very vibrant people, come tomorrow to help me get things sorted out at the apartment. I took too many things so some will have to go to Goodwill. It's just a 592 sq. ft. place.

For those worried about the dogs, I have people looking for homes for them. It's goiing to be in the upper 60's and mid-70's here this week. Hooray for the good weather!

Trish in Texas
Independent Consultant
 
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