I guess I am looking for some feedback so I don't get so discouraged. I had my first recruit. I spent alot of time coaching and helping her to get her business off the ground. She had an open house and I did it for her as part of her training, I went as far as making invitations for her and advertisements. Well at the open house she had two outside orders and only two people showed and they were related to her. I have a feeling that none of the invitations went out, one reason why I have started mailing them for my hostess. Well one person wrote her a check for both of their orders and I helped her with the paperwork. She didn't want to close her open house for a week so she could follow-up with some people that didn't show up. Well in the meantime her personal life kind of fell apart and she made the decision not to go on until she could get things straightened out. She had told me since I did the party that she would give me everything and I could turn it in because she just couldn't do it. There were two ladies at her work that really wanted to have parties and were buggin her for all of the information and wanted to set dates which she might have done, since then she has lost her job. I kept asking her for the orders and the check but she kept putting me off. I found out that she had cashed that check and spent it. It's her relatives check and she has to deal with them but it really makes me look bad. I am trying to find a contact at her old job so I can try and find out who those two ladies were. Any suggestions?